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Archived questions from: February, 2005 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is it worth trying again in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7073 days ago

28 February 2005 (?) - How do i know if it is worth trying again with my relationship? I am in the process of splitting with my girlfriend of 6 years! In the begining we were amazingly intense and together, over the past year we are really having troubles, since ...

She's happy, then distant, and still not interested in sex...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6393 days ago

28 February 2005 (?) - my partner has only had sex with me once in last 3 months. it has been initiated a few times by her but then she stops and says she cannot carry on. Says she has gone off sex and i dont know whether it is off me or off sex?! we have been together...

She hides her angry/sarcastic side until we're alone...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

28 February 2005 (?) - Hi, I am 41 yo male and have been in a relationship for 12 months. My gf is 48 and is divorced. Her ex husband was violent and beat her regularly over the course of an 8 year marriage. Its fair to say I am a quiet person who prefers diplomac...

I'm either repressed or clingy. Help, please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7073 days ago

28 February 2005 (?) - I can't let go when someone makes me feel good. My emotions are repressed and when they are let free, My partner leaves. I am so alone. If I let someone in, I cling. I am really afriad of being hurt. Help. ...

His daughter tells me everything. Do I have too much information?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7073 days ago

28 February 2005 (?) - I have a boyfriend I'm very much in love with, problem is his 17yr old daughter. She tells me everything...but some things her dad should be aware of... She lives with her mom and her mom don't care what she does and her dad is racist. Should I ...

Can I trust him not to cheat again next time we argue?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

28 February 2005 (?) - Hello, I had been seeing my boyfriend for 2 years. He has cheated on me twice. Once when we very first started seeing each other with his ex, and last weekend with some girl he didn't even know and can't remember what she looked like. We had, h...

There's three of us now: me, her and God... and things have changed

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

28 February 2005 (?) - I've been in a loving sexual relationship with my girlfriend for about 7 months now and up until a couple of weeks ago everything was perfect. My girlfriend has recently had an "epiphany" where she started to get involved with the church again an...

Are my feelings so strong they could drive him away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7203 days ago

27 February 2005 (?) - Dear Agony Aunt, I have a problem and I need advice. I have been with my boyfriend about 14 mths. I love him so much and want to be with him every day when I am not with him I cry and get nervous. But when I am with him I feel so good and never want...

She dumped me twice, so I broke up the third time...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7212 days ago

27 February 2005 (?) - I've just dumped my girlfriend of 4 months. It's the third time we have been together. The last times she dumped me and broke my heart... twice! I think she is a stunning looking girl and I think about her all the time, but I guess I'm just sca...

I want another child, but he's ambivalent. Will he ever agree?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7091 days ago

27 February 2005 (?) - I am 26 and my partner is 35. We have one child together but 2 from a previous relationship. The thing is I am desperate for another child but he doesnt want any more. I don't know what to do. I really do love him but I don't think I could go on if ...

How do I choose between my longtime boyfriend & the other guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6921 days ago

26 February 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I'm 26 and have been with my partner for 8 years but a few years ago i got involved with someone i work with. He is really gorgeous and we kept getting together at nights out and eventually slept togther a few times. This didn't last ...

He dumped me because I questioned his drinking... what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7212 days ago

26 February 2005 (?) - hi i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. he is 53 i am 47 am. I'm in love with him but have found out he is an alcoholic and a drug user. He hid it so well, but 4 mths ago he got hepetitus and went yellow he stopped drinking but i really t...

Her problem is my problem: she can't stop spending my money.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7215 days ago

25 February 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I have recently split from being engaged after finding out she had someone else who, by the way, was 10 years older than her. We remained friends, but her then new boyfriend dumped her after sleeping with her and giving her t...

My boyfriend is too tired and moody for me to tell him how alone I feel...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6528 days ago

25 February 2005 (?) - Dear Agony Aunt, I have a problem with being able to be alone! I have no job but am continuously looking for work but I don't have the best qualifications because I left school before I should have done due to bullying. I'm studying now for c...

The guy she's with isn't a nice person, but she can't seem to see that...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7214 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - I love a girl I was sleeping with a year ago. We have always been good friends & I hear from the grapevine that she still has feelings for me, but she has hooked up with a guy that I know is not a nice person, & is using her. She has had a bit of a...

How do I move on from the hurt my old boyfriends caused?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7212 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - Hi I could really do with some advice, im 37 have 2 children, whose dad i split with 3 years ago. While i was with him i put on some weight after having our second child, and very often he would call me names or refuse to sleep with me cuz he recko...

She says she loves me so she "wants me to go"..?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7211 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - My family are moving to australia, so me and my fiancee decided to go look at flats etc and found one. But to cut a long story short,we were arguing a lot for nothing and she developed this sudden attitude change and felt the need to go out all the ...

I feel like I'm running out of ways to "be sexy". Any tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7215 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I have been going out with my boyfriend for two months and I really love him. My problem is that I have used up all my tricks to be sexy for him, eg wear stockings and please my self in front of him. I am worried he will get bore...

We're due to be married...so why does he avoid me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7073 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - Hi I am due to be married in 8 weeks time. We have been together for 7 years, but for the last two months he doesnt seem to want any physical contact with me. I work full time and he is unemployed! I know we have had so many arguments about ...

I love him, but he comes with a disapproving mum and sister...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6920 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - I have been with my partner for just over 18 months and we were good friends for 6 years before we got together so I guess you could say we know each other pretty well! Because we were such good friends and didn’t want to ruin the friendship we al...

She gets angry and seems so dismissive of me... what's up with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7215 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - I just dont know what to do. I've been with my fiancee for 1 1/2 years and something feels wrong. Recently shes been acting strange around me. She wont let me kiss her anywhere except on her cheek and its like she refuses to be intimate with me....

My boyfriend wants a break, but will he get together with the other girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

24 February 2005 (?) - my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 2 years and were very happy up until new year. I was never a jealous sort of person until i met him and about 8months into our relaionship found evidence of him flirting with other girls from his...

When I came back, I thought things would be different, but they're just as bad now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5986 days ago

23 February 2005 (?) - How do I know if I made the right desision? I have been in a 7 yr relationship. We both had a child each when we met and have since had 2 together. I recently left him for almost 3 months, taking my belongings and all that I owned, along with the 3 ...

Why does my boyfriend act like a spoiled child?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7216 days ago

23 February 2005 (?) - when me and my boyfriend even have the smallest of rows he gets really angry and tells me he wants to leave and he hates me. but when we have made friends he says he didnt mean it. what should i do?...

She went back to her ex, but I know she loves me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7185 days ago

23 February 2005 (?) - I'm 38yrs, met a girl of 21 yrs a few months ago, was worried about age gap but once I got to know her it was'nt a problem. I fell madly in love and believed she had too, everything was going great. However she did have a recent ex, after a few we...

My anxiety keeps me from enjoying time with my boyfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7214 days ago

22 February 2005 (?) - I suffer badly from anxiety and don't go out very often. Having said that, I have been known to be able to control my anxiety in places that I am familiar with. I love my boyfriend to bits and he is very understanding of my problems. However, he ha...

Will his insecurities improve or are we doomed to keep arguing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7217 days ago

22 February 2005 (?) - We love each other but we just can't seem to make it work. My partner and I have terrible arguements where we both end up feeling extremely hurt and offended. These happen every few weeks on average and completely non-constructive...

My chat-guy lover is blackmailing me with incriminating photos...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6235 days ago

22 February 2005 (?) - I have been with my bf for almost 10 years now. Things were getting a bit stale between us so I decided to meet up with a bloke that i had been chatting to online. Things went well and we started to see each other regularly. We had amazing sex. ...

I want to talk out our problems, but my bf keeps his feelings to himself...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6918 days ago

22 February 2005 (?) - I've been with my boyfriend for over a year. I love him to bits but recently we've been arguing a lot more over silly little things. I'm 22 & he's a year younger. I want us to be happy again but not sure how to get it back! We are both volatile...

I want to think about a future with him, but he seems so vague...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6918 days ago

22 February 2005 (?) - my mind is really battered with problems and i could really do with some > help on some matters adn would be grateful if you could send me some. > > I went on a residential course with an organisation in my area about five > months ago. I ha...

My husband doesn't seem to want anything but the TV...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7218 days ago

22 February 2005 (?) - My husband never wants sex with me and never kisses me or even touches me. He has no job or car and recently got atrial fibulation. We were seperated for a long time and recently got back together but it isn't working. He watches t.v. all day ...

I've never even thought of an affair, but that doesn't stop his accusations

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7218 days ago

21 February 2005 (?) - I've been with my partner for nearly 7 years, and even though I've never thought of another bloke he's always accusing me of having an affair. Even though I spend all day in house with kids. What can I do? Please, I'm getting to the end of my ...

He thought I knew about his longtime girlfriend. Can I get him as mine, alone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7218 days ago

21 February 2005 (?) - I went out with now my ex-boyfriend for 3 years before we both moved to different countries and then communication broke down. Now we live in the same country but he is living with his new girlfriend, I am single. He comes around to see me and we m...

Suddenly, my boyfriend is bi...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7022 days ago

21 February 2005 (?) - My boyfriend of 2 yrs told me he was bi-curious, and now a month later he up and decided in one day he wishes to be "Just Friends for a week but not get involved with anyone else than re-evaluate the relationship" because we argue too much. He ...

He acts like a rude jerk and I just want to have a nice life as a family...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7219 days ago

20 February 2005 (?) - Hello I have been with my partner for 5 years. We have 2 children which we both are exellent parents to, but we argue all the time and it has never improved. We seem to pick on each other he acts like a giant teenager and all I want is to have ...

Things are really great. So why do I worry about it ending?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7218 days ago

20 February 2005 (?) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months now and he's great and georgeous. He makes me feel safe and the relationship's been great, but just lately I've been worried about my feelings for him changing. I don't think they are, I'm just so scared of ...

How do I learn to trust my fiance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6918 days ago

20 February 2005 (?) - dear cupid My boyfriend and i have been dating for five years, and we have put our wedding on hold to fix my trusting issuse. He has never given me any reason not to trust him. I just don't want him to hurt me like my l...

Says he's "not ready" to have a relationship & doesn't kiss me. Are we involved, or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

19 February 2005 (?) - ive been seeing a guy on/off for about 4 years now. we were instantly attracted the day we met 6 yrs ago at work and that day he asked me out but i said no. We have both been in relationships whilst being involved with each other, sometime...

Thought I could have a no-strings-attached relationship, but now I'm getting involved

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6919 days ago

19 February 2005 (?) - hi, I have started seeing this guy whom I like very much. It seems to be more of a physical relationship rather than anything else. I enjoy his company and I am growing to like him even more every time I see him, yet I think he doesn't want a p...

I need tips on sparking up my relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7204 days ago

19 February 2005 (?) - i was just wondering if you could give me tips on getting my relationship more loving. my fiance is a great person and i have been through a lot lately and i have distanced myself from him, i really do not want that, our sex life has gone down hil...

She didn't waste time finding another guy. Do I forgive her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7221 days ago

18 February 2005 (?) - Hi. I've been with my gf for 2 years now and we broke up a few weeks ago, but on valentines day we decided that we both love each other and were going back out. Since then I found that day we broke up she went out with another boy. They broke up the ...

My boyfriend wont kiss or touch me...

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

18 February 2005 (?) - I have tried everything to get my boyfriend to be loving towards me but he just won't. How do i gat him to kiss & touch me?...

Can we save a relationship where he lies and makes lewd remarks about my ex-sis-in-law?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7215 days ago

18 February 2005 (?) - I have a a serious problem with my boyfriend. We have been together about 15 months and we also live together. Lately he has been lying about everything. From little things to big things. On top of all that our sex life is also suffering. During...

He lies to me, even about things that don't matter...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6113 days ago

17 February 2005 (?) - Hi there, I am having this problem with lying. My boyfriend lies to me all the time, sometimes 3 times a day, and it is about small things that don't matter. It is annoying and makes me feel he is taking me for a fool and it feels like he would lie ...

We argue too much. Is he insensitive or am I neurotic?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

17 February 2005 (?) - I have recently started living with my boyfriend, and it seems to be ok on the whole, however, I am not happy in the relationship. I keep trying to make it work and trying to be positive, but I can't help realizing that we are arguing more and more ...

Do I show Mr Lightfingers the door?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7222 days ago

17 February 2005 (?) - My boyfriend lies about money constantly - he empties my purse constantly and denies it. He has taken money from my son's wallets. We have to hide all cards and cash. If I kick him out, my children will be distraught. When confronted, he immediat...

I feel I overreacted to his texting someone else. Now I want him back, but he says it's too late.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6112 days ago

17 February 2005 (?) - February last year having convinced a friend to do a fringe show, through his cast I met a gorgeous, genuine, guy; we instantly clicked and fell in love. We had wonderful dating time together, talked endlessly and just got on well. My employment and ...

She's married and older than me; now I've hurt her 'cause she thinks I'm ashamed of her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7218 days ago

17 February 2005 (?) - Hello, I am 21 years old and a few weeks ago started chatting to a woman over the internet. We met in a chat room and seemed to get on, we then started emailing each other, pic sharing etc... she lives quite local to me and it seems that we ha...

He calls me names & he's had an affair because I'm "irritating"...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7220 days ago

17 February 2005 (?) - Please could you tell me if im the cause of my marriage problems? The situation is I'm 25 and this is my first marriage and my husband's 2nd. We have 2 children, a 3yr old and a 13 month old. I do everything that a housewife does and I also work. My...

He dumped me twice... is he trying to make me jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7224 days ago

16 February 2005 (?) - well...I am 16 years old and went out for 9 months with a lad called Ryan, who is also 16. We lost our virginity to each other and we both felt that we loved each other. In december 04, he broke up with me as I had kissed someone else 3 months i...