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writes: dear cupid My boyfriend and i have been dating for five years, and we have put our wedding on hold to fix my trusting issuse. He has never given me any reason not to trust him. I just don't want him to hurt me like my last boyfriend did. Can you help me save my relationship? In need of help!
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reader, baskro +, writes (19 December 2005):
It's pretty clear that whatever your last boyfriend did to lose your trust has actully changed the way you think about relationships. You need to change your mindframe back and judge your fiance on his own merits and faults, not those of your ex.
There's always going to be the chance that he does lose your trust, but you can lose his as well. If you love him and you know he loves you, trust should be one of the things holding you together! You've got to work through this one yourself and decide if your fiance deserves your trust, and if he does, you should count yourself a very lucky person...
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