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writes: i was just wondering if you could give me tips on getting my relationship more loving.my fiance is a great person and i have been through a lot lately and i have distanced myself from him, i really do not want that, our sex life has gone down hill also so please can you take the time to reply and help me sort out my problem, one thing i no for sure is that this is the man i want to spend the rest of my life with....
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2005): All relationships go through "quiet" patches as I like to call them, I went through this myself recently. I have been dating my Fiance for 5 years and for the last few months things had started going off the boil. Our sex life was few and far between. I got depressed about it but then one day, I was going through some of my old clothes when I found that "killer" black dress I wore the night I met him. (funny the details we remember). Anyway that night I made a rel effort, got the dress on, did my hair/Make-up, cooked him a nice meal and gave him the wake up call he needed when he got home. I think we sometimes get comfortable and not make such an effort anymore, but I found this helped. Its hard to keep that first spark alive, but perhaps doing something like this would remind him of what he has been missing. Its not all about clothes though, my partner and I talked for hours that night and I told him how i felt. It did us the world of good.....Best of Luck!!!sarahx
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