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Archived questions from: September, 2013 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

My boyfriend cheated, on top of that we are of different religions.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

29 September 2013 (F) - I am 23 years old and am a doctor. I am in india. I am in love with my boyfriend for 5years our relationship has been fine except for a few ups and downs . During the first year of our college my bf was dating a classmate of ours they then stopped ...

She's unhappy about it. Is it wrong to be in a casual relationship with a guy who has an open relationship with his Gf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

28 September 2013 (F) - Is it wrong of me to be continuing a casual relationship with a guy who is in an open relationship with another girl, and the girl is beginning to be unhappy about it? It's nothing serious between us (though it is ongoing, around once or twice a ...

My new boyfriend's ex is pregnant. How do I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

28 September 2013 (F) - I am a 22 year old girl who has a 27 year old boyfriend of one month. It basically took us 3 months to actually become an item, we are so alike yet different, I guess that's why we connect, love each other dearly. Our worst fear is losing each ...

How to gracefully deal with boyfriend's best female friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

27 September 2013 (F) - I have a problem with my boyfriend's best female friend. I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and known him for two years. He met her about a year before he met me. They lived in the same college hall the year before he met me, ...

The guy I like went back to his ex because he misses the child. What should I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4066 days ago

26 September 2013 (F) - Please can someone help me what to do I am so much in love with a guy who loves me to but he's gone back to his ex cos he misses his son which isn't his biologically but has been there since born little one is 3 now he texts me everyday telling me ...

Should I tell my boyfriend that few months into the relationship I was still talking to my ex, and kissed?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

26 September 2013 (F) - I have a dilemma.... I have been talking to my ex throughout my new relationship. I am 27 and I met my current bf in sept last year. Do I tell my bf that I met up with my ex even if was last January ? That we kissed and he been trying to get me bk...

Dating dilemma - online friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

26 September 2013 (F) - Ok quick question ... The man I have strong feelings for has another woman that he has been chatting with for over a year and chats with online daily but claims it is just friendship. It came out by chance and he did try to keep it from me. I have ...

I think he's gay but he has a girlfriend. I want to tell him I am gay.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

23 September 2013 (M) - Hello there. I have a problem. recently I've really started to like this guy at work but hes going of to uni till December. The problem is I'm gay and I and lots of other people think he is but he has a girl friend. I'm ok with that because...

How can someone just give up on someone you claim you have great love for

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

22 September 2013 (F) - My ex and I of 3 years broke up offically about 3 months ago. We were on and off for the last year of our relationship. I heard rumors of him dating someone new but I didn't know or really want to know because it was so devastating to think he could ...

Should I break it off because he will not let go of his best female friend that he's too close to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

22 September 2013 (F) - My partner of 5 years is now losing me as I can no longer deal with his best friend. Shortly after I lost my virginity to him, i found out i was not the only girl in his life, but that he was mingling with others, one of which was this best friend. ...

I don't want to be a third wheel but I don't want to tear their relationship apart either.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4077 days ago

22 September 2013 (?) - So he rejected mean while back. He has a girlfriend now but their relationship is based on possessiveness. They have a strong rope around each others necks. He gives her so much but she doesnt do anything in return. Plus hes been having some ...

I ruined his birthday, but is it justified because his friendship with his ex was out of line.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

21 September 2013 (F) - I'm talking to this guy and every now and then he goes and hangs out with his ex girlfriend. He knows that I don't like it at all because when hes with her I tell him not to speak to me. He tells me that hes sorry and hes trying to end things on a ...

Three of us are friends. She dumped him but now I like the guy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

21 September 2013 (F) - So to try and cut this story down. Last year my friend was dating a guy who I had been friends with for a few years previous. Anyway they broke up last year, she dumped him by text, which kind of put me in an awkward situation, I felt needed to have ...

She rejected me because of the distance, but is still texting me, even after she is dating someone else, why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

20 September 2013 (M) - Hi, I was wondering what people make of this. About two years ago I met someone when out at a bar. There was immediate attraction, and I thought she was too good for me. Then I found out she felt exactly the same about me. So much so we went ...

Do I pursue this girl who has a boyfriend living faraway?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

20 September 2013 (M) - So there's this girl... She's 17 about to turn 18 and I'm 21...not that this is an age related question, I just thought I'd throw that info in. We went to school together but we never really talked, she was shy then. We started talking like two week...

During our break, my ex sexted with a girl. What to do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

20 September 2013 (F) - I recently got back together with my ex boyfriend, however I found out that he has been sexting his ex before me the whole time we were apart. What to do now? ...

Should I be worried about his girl best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

20 September 2013 (F) - I'm a little aggravated with my boyfriends girl best friend. So my boyfriend and his girl best friend has been friends way before we started dating. They hangout or see each other every other day or every day. She has told him she likes him but he ...

I'm interested in a guy, and he likes me, but he had a one night stand with my friend!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

18 September 2013 (F) - Hi all, would really appreciate some advice. Around three/four months ago my relationship of three and a half years started to break down. Its slowly been starting to die for the last year but I guess we didn't want to face it. Therefore when t...

Two guys. Which date to cancel? Considering the circumstances?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

18 September 2013 (F) - Hey, I seem to have gotten myself caught up in a very odd situation. So, let me start off by saying that I had my boyfriend for 4 months, then we broke up, except it wasn't a clean break up. We decided to stay friends, although I only agreed to that ...

I am giving him a second chance although he lies and cheats.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

17 September 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just over three years now, and it's my first long term relationship. We've had our ups and downs just like anyone. Recently we had a heart to heart, he went out to lunch with a girl who he had been deleting messages ...

I'm in love with my friend, who's in an unhappy marriage. Should I tell her my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4083 days ago

15 September 2013 (M) - Hello, I have a female friend who seems to be in an unhappy marriage. Her husband constantly loses his temper for no reason whatsoever, causing her to cry. He's never hit her, just shouted at her. The other night, she phoned me in tears after he'd...

My boyfriend's ex lover made me cringe when I had to see her again.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4065 days ago

13 September 2013 (F) - I really need other people's opinion on this situation. My boyfriend and I live in his room sharing a flat with his flatmate. I knew that a girl who he had sex with 5 months ago, was coming to our small city. She needed a place to stay for one nigh...

Boyfriend believes a threesome will bring us closer but I've heard horror stories about them

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

12 September 2013 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for the past year and recently he's asked me about having a threesome. I'm secure with myself and my sexuality. I'm also confident in our relationship. I've just heard alot of horror stories that follow a threesome ...

My boyfriend's ex wife plays a huge part in his family life, whereas I'm ignored.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

11 September 2013 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year, we recently moved in together, and I have a good relationship with his children from his previous marriage. He is 12 years older then me, and even though he is divorced and has ...

Should I just leave my ex alone or should I talk to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4083 days ago

10 September 2013 (M) - I have been in a couple relationships before. They all ended pretty badly and we just stopped talking. My ex girlfriend, who I just broke up with about 2 weeks ago, was the first serious girlfriend I have broken up with and still actually like... ...

Did I break his trust by talking to a man during our break?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4091 days ago

8 September 2013 (F) - hi, i want to ask ...that i was in relationship with a guy since 3 years. i listen to whateva he says be it whatever as im soo in love with him. he is very restrictive regarding whom to talk , where to go , what to wear etc . i initially had prob...

Does he really care for her if me and him have something that good?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

8 September 2013 (F) - I know what i did was wrong but if someone can try and answer my question without the lecture I would be so grateful! I started seeing a guy from work and totally fell for him. Despite being in two serious relationships for over 3 years each time,...

My LDR boyfriend doesn't like that I had lunch with male colleague and accepted chocolate from him. Am I in the wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

7 September 2013 (F) - Dear cupid, I'm in a LDR with my boyfriend of 4.5 months..at the place I work I have been friends with this guy..we have been given the same assignement so we work together! We go out for lunch together as a group but today everyone was bus...

Friends with benefits, but he has a girl-friend and he doesn't care about her. Any opinion on these signs that he may like me?Thank you

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4092 days ago

7 September 2013 (F) - HI, there is this guy i used to like and i told him he didn't pay attention and so on, this was like 5 years ago. And he was a major womaniser. Anyway, so i started dating this guy and he started dating this girl, and this guy who i liked his name ...

I've fallen for my best friend's boyfriend. She treats him horribly and he wants to leave her for me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4092 days ago

7 September 2013 (F) - My best friend got her first boyfriend 5 weeks ago. And, unfortunately in that d weeks I've fallen for him.... Not on purpose though! We've been best friend for 10 years but she always made me feel worthless, she treat me like a slave and talked ...

Crossroads in my love life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4095 days ago

4 September 2013 (F) - I've been with my partner for a very long time, 14 years to be precise, and I'm only 32 years old, hes 34. For the 1st 5-8 years the relationship was perfect, the sex was good and we were, and still are, great friends, really close companions...

My ex partner expects everything from me ....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4094 days ago

4 September 2013 (F) - I can't take this, me and my ex have a baby together. He won't move out of my house I met someone new and we were hanging out one thing lead to another. Now my ex is telling me he has rights and he will make my life extremely difficult if I d...

Friend from childhood resurfaced. He's married and we started an affair. How can I end it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4095 days ago

3 September 2013 (F) - I'm a separated mom of 3 girls. In early May of this year, my childhood friend started coming around me and my kids. At first it was just casual visits and then he started making advances which I was totally against. I made it clear to him that we ...

Text, secrets, maybe lies?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

1 September 2013 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for almost a year and we've been living together for six months. We came together very passionately and have spent our time together whenever possible, almost to the exclusion of other friends. I encouraged her t...