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Archived questions from: September, 2016 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

How long does it take somebody to get over nonstop lying, cheating & betrayal??

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2975 days ago

30 September 2016 (F) - Hi All!! Im praying that somebody out there will have some answers to my massive confusion in my relationship. 4 months after starting a relationship with the guy im still with currently. He proposed to me. I accepted due to being massively head ...

How do I help my partner become a better parent to his 8-year-old? Right now he spoils her and shares too much information about our relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2930 days ago

30 September 2016 (F) - How do I help my really good man become an amazing man and father? We've been together 4 years and couldn't be closer.( or could we?) We do everything together and plan on getting married soon. There's a small nuisance and it has to do with hi...

10 years later my ex writes me to say she's sorry. Do I ignore?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2932 days ago

29 September 2016 (M) - A random question here .. about 10 years ago with my first gf ,, we was going out for a couple of months and then she ended it and spread loads of bad things about me .. which tbf didn't help me and probably hasn't helped me to this day .One thing ...

Will I ever love someone the way I loved my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2980 days ago

27 September 2016 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend years ago but I thought about him a lot and he's only just got a new girlfriend after 4 years. My question is is it possible that I won't love any one as much as I did him? As this ever happened to anyone else tha...

I'm dating a new guy but emotionally still tied to my ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2980 days ago

27 September 2016 (F) - I was dating a guy off and on for about 2 years. I know a part of me will love him forever, or at least I think so. Our relationship was not the most healthy. Lots of fighting,drama, and he had some narcissistic tendencies.It was like a roller ...

My bullying ex has made me feel so worthless. How do I cope as a single mum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2978 days ago

27 September 2016 (F) - Ive never felt so low in my life. At the weekend, after another row, I finally decided to end things for good with my ex. We have a 6 month old baby together and I also have a 6 year old son from a previous relationship. Our rows have escalated s...

How does forgiveness start?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2981 days ago

27 September 2016 (M) - There is so much to be sorry about but my ex has done so much towards me purposely to hurt me. I want to say sorry and just talk but do not want to be together at all. How does this all start? How does forgiveness start?...

I can't stop wondering about her

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2980 days ago

27 September 2016 (M) - Everything my logical brain thinks of says DO NOT CONTACT HER, yet I still want to know how she's doing. I want to know if she is doing well. Obviously this is about my ex'. Im curious and hoping she's doing well. I can list a number a of reas...

I've been catfishing my ex for 8 months to discover out what kind of father he would be to the child he doesn't know he has with me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2980 days ago

25 September 2016 (F) - I have been catfishing my ex for the last 8 months. I originally did it for information because after he moved away, I discovered i was pregnant. I couldn't reach him for 2 years and when I came across him I was scared so I made up a Facebook ...

How do you know if an ex genuinely wants you back or just wants attention/validation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2980 days ago

25 September 2016 (F) - I just had a recent experience with an ex who came back in my life after a year and 7 months of No contact. He immeditely started dating someone else after we broke up.He sent me a message on Facebook just saying he would love to hear from me and ...

I am never going to feel better until I perform better sexually then her ex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2862 days ago

24 September 2016 (M) - Ok readers please help. Please be honest and blatantly straightforward. I am so tired of reading the answers that men want or NEED to hear as opposed to the real truth. Experienced women can surely help me out here. Ok, I'm a nice looking 38 year ...

I don't want to cut all contact with him. But he has been distant with me ever since I asked if he was interested in anything serious. What do I do now?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2983 days ago

23 September 2016 (F) - Hi everyone. I hope someone can shed some light on my situation. Recently, due to a change in jobs, my weekends are free, giving me more time to go out and socialise. Back in April, I went out to a local pub with my best friend where I bump...

Since the breakup of what I thought was a perfect LD relationship I can't stop thinking about him. How do I cope with this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2986 days ago

21 September 2016 (F) - Hi, I feel like I need a reality check and I don't have many people in my life to ask for advice or open up to. I was broken up with 2 months ago by the person I loved. The relationship ended solely because of distance and the fact that his jo...

I met my girlfriend's ex and am still kind of freaked out about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2990 days ago

16 September 2016 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 3 and a half years. She is 3 years younger than me and is my second girlfriend but only one where it was serious (1st relationship lasted 2 months). I mentioned this to her and she didn't see it as a ...

Break up and make up again and again. Should I just end it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2992 days ago

16 September 2016 (F) - We met on Face book back in 2011 and met in person a moth later.We had strong connection but the distance eventually took it's toll and he broke it off since neither of us were in a position to move. After time part we would recon...

My married BF doesn't want his wife to know about us until he has removed all his belongings from his former home. Seems he cares more about his belongings than me. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2994 days ago

14 September 2016 (F) - Ok so here is my dilemma I am 29 dating my friend who is married he is 30 and his twin brother who is also 30. Ok so how this happened was I just recently moved back home and I ran into an old friend of mine that I have had a crush on since I ...

Why am I jealous of this one girl who now means nothing to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2829 days ago

13 September 2016 (F) - So basically I have been with my BF 10 months today and things have been beyond perfect, few fights, no girl issues just pure love as we live about 2 hours away from Eachother (depending on traffic) he comes To see me every week and stays ove...

I am married to a lovely man but still pine for my ex but I don't want to feel that way!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2996 days ago

12 September 2016 (F) - im married to a guy who has been seen by my family. i was in relationship with a guy for 4 years before my wedding but he left me for another girl. so in that anger i just accepted for this wedding. my husband is really a nice person. he knows my ...

Should I be feeling so hesitant about agreeing to marriage and to him adopting my son?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2996 days ago

10 September 2016 (F) - My boyfriend wants me and my son to move away with him, he wants us to get married and he has always said he wants to adopt my son which is everything I want, but I can't help but feel bad that my son's real dad doesn't want anything to do with him ...

I have a new BF now. So why do I will feel the need to check up on the new Gf of my ex, via social media?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2996 days ago

10 September 2016 (F) - A guy broke up with me 5 years ago. We had built up imagined plans for a future together and I was devastated. I visited him and slept with him several times after the break-up, hoping he'd realise we had something and it was worth trying aga...

How can and should I handle this situation? My Bf has announced that his baby mother will be visiting us with the children this weekend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2996 days ago

10 September 2016 (F) - Hi everyone, I feel that my boyfriend is too close to his baby mother. He is always making her come to his house with the kids. He insists they are just friends. His baby mother is a lesbian and she tried to come on to me the other night whil...

LDR boyfriend has been chatting inappropriately with other women and even worse, with his ex... And has painted me like a monster in front of her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2996 days ago

10 September 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and long distance for almost 1 year. Up until a few days ago, I thought our relationship was amazing. I considered this relationship the healthiest, most honest, and loving one I've ever been in. H...

I still like my ex but don't know if he feels the same

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2999 days ago

9 September 2016 (F) - Basically, I like my ex, but he likes someone else, who doesn't like him. And he always says that you'll always feel something for your ex's. But the thing is, me and him have dated a few times, and when we aren't talking I always want to talk to ...

My eight year old son is such a handful. What action should I be taking to address the problems I face?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2999 days ago

8 September 2016 (F) - I just don know what to do. My. Son spends school holidays with his dad who lives abroad, My son is eight. every time school holidays approach i'm exhausted and really stressed because he's such a handful. I have some health problems too and...

I didn't cheat on my girlfriend, but she is convinced I've been unfaithful. Do we have any chance of getting back together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2999 days ago

7 September 2016 (M) - My Girlfriend thinks I've cheated on her. Throw me out, saying I've no respect, can't really love her and I've lied. The thing is I haven't cheated I had a weekend with my brother and we stayed in a hotel up in London. I didnt tell her I was s...

How do I cope with my troubled and tormented thoughts of her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3001 days ago

6 September 2016 (M) - I am a mid aged guy and 7 years ago, I began seeing a woman from work. I was separated from my wife and 2 teenage girls but used to still see my wife on a friendly basis and help her out and still occasionally had sex with her. The woman is m...

I'm talking to my ex and feeling guilty about it but can't seem to stop myself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3002 days ago

5 September 2016 (F) - When I was 15, I had an abortion. To this day I still remember everything about those few weeks while it all happened, from finding out to having it done. I still cry on the day which I had worked out would have been my due date and I still wonder ...

What is my ex boyfriend feeling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3003 days ago

5 September 2016 (F) - Basically me and my boyfriend had a typical break up however I pushed for it because he was feeling so depressed and I knew he was gonna push me away I didn't want to be hurt. His depression had taken over and he said he felt nothing about anything ...

Does he care? Or am I crazy? Am I obsessed with him? Or am I just in love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3002 days ago

5 September 2016 (F) - It's taken me a Few moments to figure out how I should ask my question, but the Fact is The question Is just as confusing as the story..... A couple Of months ago I met this guy, I had just gotten out of a relationship Three months prior to the ...

I cant get the nude images of my boyfriend's ex out out of my head.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3001 days ago

5 September 2016 (F) - I have never been with other peole before but my boyfriend has been in a few relationsihps. His last relationship was pretty serious and lasted roughly four years, out of which two years were long distance because ex moved to a different country for ...

Can my ex and I find our way back to each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3001 days ago

4 September 2016 (F) - Me and my ex broke up now around 5 months ago and from then to now, it has not seemed to get any easier. We have repeatedly met up (sometimes when drunk), spoke, argued or whatever in this time and have not really gave each other a lot of space (in ...

My ex has contacted me. What might his motives be? How should I take this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2964 days ago

4 September 2016 (F) - so my ex and i are both in the military but are deployed to different places. we broke up a little while before deployment and went a month and some change with no contact. i broke up with him by the way. he of course was the one to reach back ou...

I just found out that the LDR guy I'd been dating is married and has a kid. I've blocked him but should I give him a chance to explain?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3003 days ago

2 September 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid, I found out yesterday that the guy I’m with is married and has a child. I blocked him in wechat and whatsapp. It was such a disastrous feeling with I saw his Facebook of his wife and the child’s photos and not forgetting his we...

Ex and I are getting back but how can I get him to forget that I was talking to other guys while we were broken up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

1 September 2016 (F) - My ex and I are getting back together after being 2 months apart. I am so happy and have always been in love with him, and he feels the same way. Unfortunately, though he can't seem to forget the time we broke up and I started talking to other dudes ...

Trust and cheating. How can I win back my partner's love and trust after all the has happened over the years ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3006 days ago

1 September 2016 (F) - I've been with my partner for over 20 years and I very much love him with all my heart. Yet I found myself at 43 entering into an affair with a younger guy. Didn't take me long to realize this was a big mistake and I returned to my husband, con...