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writes:I broke up with my boyfriend years ago but I thought about him a lot and he's only just got a new girlfriend after 4 years. My question is is it possible that I won't love any one as much as I did him? As this ever happened to anyone else that they let someone go and never got to love anyone the same way again?
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reader, singinbluebird  +, writes (28 September 2016):
 Why did you break up with him?
Whatever the reason, he has moved on and you should too. IN that 4 years I wonder why you didnt contact him but now thats its been 4 years and he FINALLY got a gf, you seem to lament having lost him.
HOney wake up. If you had wanted him back within that 4 years all you could have done was call the guy up and ask to meet for coffee and see if sparks fly.
Move on.
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (28 September 2016):
This is a painful situation for you after all those years.But Yes Yes this situation has and is happening to many many people.We all have a special old love in the past that no other person can hold a candle to.Treasure it,but remember it is in the past...place it in your memory box.No you will probably not love someone else the same...but there are different kinds of love ,each as special but different...because we are with different people,and we are older,and also the we have experience love.Remember it is never wise to Compare a new love with the old love,nor is it fair to the person you are with.That is how we become wise...experience.Try and not look back,but look to the future,knowing that you once loved,and can and will again..a lady in waiting for Mr Right.Kind regards NORA B.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2016): It is quite possible that you won't be able to love another man as much as you loved your ex. I think there's a saying somewhere that often times, the man we end up marrying is not the man we fell most in love with.
But, my thoughts are of the contrary. I believe that at the moment you can't imagine yourself loving someone more than your ex because you have yet to find someone else you truly love. Once you find someone else to fall in love with, you will realize you will once again be capable of loving another man.. maybe not in the same way but you will once again love. love comes in many shapes and forms, they may not always be the same and does not mean one is stronger than the other.
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