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Archived questions from: November, 2008 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Broke up with boyfriend today, he has punished me for telling the truth!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Help - I realised that I still love my ex and tried to do the honourable thing by breaking up with my boyfriend today, afterall, it is not fair to carry on stringing him along while I still think about my ex! I only realised I still loved my ex ...

What can I say to him to minimize the hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I feel very upset and down in the dumps over my ex. We split up 6 months ago, he ended things because we weren't socially compatible (I like going out and he doesn't!). I was gutted and fought for him to take me back, coming up with solutions, and ...

He doesn't want to get back together whereas I do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I saw my ex for about 5 mins earlier on, I've not seen him since friday anyway when i saw him he gave me a hug then he said sorry i dont no why i needed to do that, He dumped me but we still talk every day, he doesnt want to get back together...

He claims to hate his ex but I suspect otherwise. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5839 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend claims to hate his ex-girlfriend, but I really dont think this is the case. He was with her for eight months, and she broke his heart by dumping him for another guy. She texts him quite a bit still, often while hes with me, and he ...

Is it fair to be with someone if you're not over your ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Do you think it is fair to be with someone if you are not over your ex, I realise that you havam in this situation and I have realised that I have to move on. Afterall, my ex had his chance! I have heard that you it is better to be with the one ...

I've fallen for my ex girlfriends sister.....Help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - Hi everyone, So like many of you I have a real complicated love situation I am in. For a few months now I have fallen for my ex girlfriends sister. I know it is wrong but I cant help how I feel. She lives right next door to me so it makes it impo...

My ex massively betrayed me, how do I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I was with my ex for a year and thought we were totally in love. Then all of a sudden he started acting strangely, distancing himself from me. I suspected he was cheating and finished it. A few weeks later his ex girlfriend contacted me saying they ...

Why would she be doing this in front of him?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - About a month ago my girl broke up with me for her ex. We continue to talk and flirt. I'm just having a really hard time understand why we have full on texting conversations when I know she is with her bf? These aren't really rare. We probably ...

Struggling with a break up. Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - I'm not really sure there is answerable question in the following, but I need a place to express myself and if you feel you can help me, please do. Again I woke up to a text message from J (my ex). "How was your day today?" I know she's not l...

He was seeing his ex the whole time we were together!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Please help, I don't know what I should do!! It's quite long I'm sorry! I've been with my partner for over a year now but broke up for 2 months half way through the year after finding out he was cheating with who I thought to be his ex but turned ...

Past love comes back...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - hey Quite a hard situation, and I feel like a dick for some of it, get that out the way first. I was seeing a girl about a month ago called, let's call her J, and I really loved her but we didn't see each other much (she goes to college, me 6 fo...

Why is the news of my ex being engaged bringing me down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - I broke up with my ex of 5 years a few years ago. She broke up with me and got together with the guy she was cheating on me with. Just found out recently they got engaged. I have a great girlfriend now and we have such a good time together so why is ...

I don't feel he is prioritating me over his ex, what can I do to make him understand my needs in this mess?

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29 November 2008 (F) - i don't want to leave him because i'm blinded with my strong love for this person...His ex keeps calling me and she was telling me that they were getting back together.. she told me that the only reason that my boyfriend was getting back with her ...

This is driving me nuts! How can I get over her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - In february I was told by my friends that this girl fancied me so I naturally asked her out because she was attractive with a great personality. But after less than a week she broke up with me and I found that I fell for her, and even after all ...

Stuck with my ex for 2 years due to a business agreement! How can I get out of this?

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29 November 2008 (F) - Did i do wrong? i have just ordered a free laptop for m ex bf where he would give me the money and i would but im my bank for the direct debet, the thing is the deal is for 2 yrs, So whatever happens he needs to stay in contact with me for thoses 2...

Do I stay with my wild boyfriend who loves me or go back to my ex who says he loves me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I have found this site really useful and have read it recently to help with my situation, however, I have joined today to be able to get some real advice for my exact situation. I cant talk to my family as they just change the subject (although we ...

He laughed and called me his "fuck buddy!"

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Hi People I'm finding this really hard, I've been split with my bf just over a month, and I'm still in contact as in friends and I still sometimes sleep with him in the car, Well last nite I went round his house for the first time since we sp...

Ran into my ex who behaved very oddly!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Well, this is more a rant than a question but opinions would be appreciated. So basically last night I ran into my ex, first time I'd seen her since we split up (oh and it was BAAAAAAD break up I hasten to add). She kind of took me by surpris...

I miss my ex, she doesn't accept me back but does try to kiss me and wants to have sex, what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

29 November 2008 (M) - i miss my ex girl friend a whole lot we was together for 6 years we been broke up for like 4 months my in love i can't front about it she has a new boyfriend but still calls and comes by and like she finds reasons to come over like on thanksgiving ...

Seeing his ex behind my back, can I ever trust him again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for two years. We are both 25 years old (The age on my profile doesn't update for some reason). We recently broke up because I found out by going through his computer that he has been seeing his ex behind my back for ...

Why does she contact me more than anyone else if we are supposed to be just friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - My ex and I are trying to be friends and I am trying to deal with the fact that she's dating one of her old boyfriends. I keep telling her that I'm cool being her friend, but I don't really think that I am. To make matters worse, we work together, ...

Do feelings really just fade away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - Ok so my girlfriend of 2.5 years broke up with me a couple months ago. I have been an idiot and kept pressing the issue of getting back together, even though i know she needs her space right now and doesn't want a boyfriend. I didn't do anything ...

Is he playing with my mind or does he really want me back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - I really want my ex back after 2 months, we are still sleeping together about 2 times a week, talk on the phone everyday, and see other most days down the pub, He knows i still have feelings for him and would go bk to him , but he says we are frie...

Am I just lonely or do I really miss her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - as i have said before, i broke up with my ex back in june, we were going out for 8 months, i broke up with her because her family is crazy(litteraly),i just felt bored and like i deserved someone better than her, as it has been 5 months, not a ...

Am I the problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5841 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - hi, my boyfriend and i liuve together, he is was divorced decades ago. my problem is, when his ex-wife calls or i hear her name being mentioned, i feel uncomfortable. when i try to be honest with him and tell him how i feel, he tells me that im the ...

She shared a bed with her ex... I want to trust her, but I don't trust HIM

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - I've recently started seeing someone. We've been together for about a month now, but something bothers me. She told me recently that she and her ex boyfriend booked tickets to go to a concert together. That was fine, I had no problem with that. Then ...

Back with my ex after 2 years and I'm NOT happy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Back with my ex after 2 years. I split with my ex for 2 years in that time I had a relationship with some guy that didn't work out, after it finsihed my ex who I had been with for 15 years said he wanted me back, I said I'd need time to think, it ...

My ex GF wants to meet for coffee... what does it mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5842 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - Two years ago I dated this girl for about six months but I broke up with her for some pretty shallow reasons. I've totally missed her ever since, even while I've both been in other relationships. We sort of kept in touch after we broke up and arou...

He wants friends with benefits but not a relationship - should I go for it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - so about four months ago i met the absolutely perfect guy. perfect! and two weeks later he dumps me for some other chick that ended up being such an absolute female dog. anyways i flipped out on him and threw a fit cause before we even started ...

He calls here at 3am and they have random talks, should I be worried?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5842 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - First I'm sorry this question is so long~! I'm thinking or starting to go out with this guy. He's amazing in every way and so special, he's really sweet, generous and just a good person. He wants the same type of future I'm looking for and want...

Is it okay to feel contempt for the man that is dating my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

27 November 2008 (M) - Is it okay that I feel great contempt for the man that is now dating my ex-girlfriend? They had been together before she met me, but had separated because he had 'a lot of baggage' (her words). We started dating and then he comes crawling back 'a ...

Did I have a right to feel insecure in this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - I'm trying to gain some insight on things.. I wish my ex would come back but I have questions the situations that happened over the course of the 3 years I was with him. I wanted to reveal some aspects that made me feel insecure which led to a c...

How do I discretely make him come to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend and I broke up a little more than a month ago. We go to school together, and therefore we see each other every day. I would love to get back together with him. I have worked on the things in my life that was part of the break up. ...

My ex asked me to have sex with him! Should I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I've just split up with my boyfriend who i was with for 8 months and my ex before that has always been there for me. He's always come round when i needed him and gave me a shoulder to cry on, he's been like a big brother to me (: The other we...

Why doesn't he want me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5842 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - My ex dumped me 3 months ago, and im still talking on the phone to him everyday, and sometimes we meet in the evenings for sex and thats it, he left me to go bk to his ex the mother of his child, we where together 10 months, anyway basically she ...

I'm very, very worried about my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5842 days ago

27 November 2008 (M) - I'm very, very worried about my ex. Unfortunately she's not the most responsible girl. Before I met her she would go jogging in the sketchy parts or town at night. She'd come home and tell me how the guy that drove them home was drunk! She hurt...

Who do I end up having sex with the guy who hurt me, do you think I let myself be used for sex? Could this be because I never got over my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Ok, this might be a little long sorry. When I was a freshmen in highschool I met this amazing guy, and i was pretty innocent when it came to physical stuff. Even though I was not a virgin i believed you needed to be dating someone almost a year ...

I have been back with my ex-wife for 2 weeks, we were divorced 6 months ago due to an affair on her part, I am confused about the relationship, please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5843 days ago

27 November 2008 (M) - I am going thru some serious issues at the moment that is driving me crazy.My situation is I have recently got back with my ex-wife it's been about 2 weeks.But the problem is that we got divorced about 6 months ago due to an affair on her part.I am ...

He's keeping me a secret from his pregnant ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - My boy friend found out his ex girlfriend was pregnant about 2 weeks ago, she is now 3 months along. It has been hard, but he wants to be with me and is going to have a baby with his ex. He won't tell her about me, he says he's afraid she will get ...

Should I phone him or let it go?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - I broke up with my bf a few months ago and we remained good friends. The problem is that I still have feeling for him and I am finding it difficult to move on. I decided that cutting off all contact with him would be the best way to get over him and ...

Is my ex upset that I got into another relationship so quickly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5843 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - I was with my ex boyfriend for a year. We were very very much in love. None of us had ever been this in love before. There was a lot of physical attraction there. He was very romantic and did lots for me and vice versa. I thought we were going to ...

Why doesn't his ex leave me alone? You think he would go out with her again if we break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5843 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - hey well my question is.... me and my boyfriend have been 2gether for 2 months now and his ex well shes always txting me saying i heard u and s****n broke up and well we havent!!she claims she doesnt lyke him nomore but she always bringin him up a...

Are secret phone calls from exes okay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

26 November 2008 (M) - Hey everyone, I just wondered what people's opinion was on a minor issue that has been bothering me. This is nothing big or dramatic, but it's the kind of thing that I know affects a lot of couples and I would value anyone's opinions or insi...

Is it possible something more happened?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

26 November 2008 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for over a month and I know that isn't long but I really love her. She kissed her ex and on another day he showed himself to her (down below) now I'm wary that more happened, I mean I do have trust issues anyway through ...

Is it just sex???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5842 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - Hi, Ok I am 18 years old and I am at college right now. I stay in the dorms. Before I went to college, I wasn't a virgin. The only person I ever had sex with was my ex-boyfriend of 2 and a half years. He and I waited 2 years before we had se...

Why does he never bring his kids round to our house?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5843 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - Question; I have recently moved in with my boyfriend, we have been together for 10 months prior to this. I have one child who is 3 and he has two children, one is seven and one is 3 (2 weeks younger than my little one.) We have his children at ...

He didn't show respect or consideration for me, what can I do?

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26 November 2008 (F) - my partner lied to my about going to his stepsons birthday dinner. I found out and his reason was that he didnt know what to do so he chose to lie to me. Now he lives with me and my dauta, and we both agreed that as they'll be times when we both ...

Am I overreacting for feeling violated?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

26 November 2008 (?) - All right so I'm really upset, so please take into account that I can't really think straight right now. here goes... My ex and I recently got back together after a 3 month split. We decided we would keep it between us for a while until we can work...

What's the point of being freinds when I still love him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5844 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - He dumps me but says he wants to maintain friends. I told him it would be too hard for me because I wouldn't know what to say to him because I have a lot of anger because of the break-up. As a friend, I tried to just let him know how work was and ...

Questions about birth control and initiating sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Sorry if this story is long XD To summarize what types of birth control are there? and how do I initiate sex without asking for it? My problem dates way back to my old ex he had treated me bad and forced me into giving him a blowjob... I soo...