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writes:I'm very, very worried about my ex.Unfortunately she's not the most responsible girl. Before I met her she would go jogging in the sketchy parts or town at night. She'd come home and tell me how the guy that drove them home was drunk! She hurt her arm and keeps swinging it around as she normally would and complain that it really hurts. She still doesn't, I don't think she fully grasps the importance of the condom in ALL sexual activities (not just vaginal).So we're not going out any more.She just started seeing this much older sleaze-bag who is only interested in sleeping around with lots of women and has even made this clear to her. I think she feels lonely and vulnerable...I am REALLY scared and worried that she's going to catch an STD from this guy. My worry for her always drains me and now that we're not even going out anymore it still is. I can't help worry about her life being irreversibly messed up because she's so irresponsible. What can I do? We have each other on facebook but we've been going by the no-contact rule since our breakup. I wish she were more responsible... I can't keep worrying about her like this... I don't want her to get an STD. What should I do?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (27 November 2008):
Unfortunately you are not her mother.
She has to make her own mistakes. You sent her a clear message that her behaviour is not acceptable by splitting up with her.
If you are ready to be her friend then just tell her that if she ever needs someone to hold her hand when she goes to the sex health clinic you will come too.
Good Luck!! xx
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