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writes:I really want my ex back after 2 months, we are still sleeping together about 2 times a week, talk on the phone everyday, and see other most days down the pub,He knows i still have feelings for him and would go bk to him , but he says we are friends, but i want more, he gives me hugs most of the times when i see him, and twice has kissed me on the lips once without me having a mind what he was doing and once when he said give me a kiss and i replyed y and he said cuz i want one, then yesterday i saw him when he come to my car window, he then started touching me on my chin like stroking it HES NEVER DONE THAT BEFORE SO WHAT DOES THAT MEAN? IVE NEVER HEARD OF ANYONE DOING THAT BEFORE OR HAD IT DONE TO ME Is he giving me mixed signels or what hes the one who broke are relationship off PLZ,Plz help what can i do,is he playing with my mind or want me bk or how can i get bk with him
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2008): Yes I would tell him someone has asked you on a date and see how he reacts.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (28 November 2008):
 It sounds like you already are doing more than most couples anyway. You say you are still sleeping with him 2 times a week and go to the pub with him. Do you mean you want to live with him. If you are doing all these things with him along with sex as well and he won't acknowledge that you 'are' with him then I should stop making things easy for him and keep him out of your bed until you get the commitment you want. The phrase 'having his cake and eating it' comes to mind.
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reader, iloveyoubrian11  +, writes (28 November 2008):
 i shoulds like he might be playing around with you and just want your body or something i have delt with this you need to trick them and see if he really is just playing with your mind like hang out but dont do anything sexural and see if thats all he wants
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reader, Lizz +, writes (28 November 2008):
 It sounds like he's either scared of commitment or using you for sex. I was with a guy like that. We'll call him Thomas. He broke up with me and we became "friends with benefits" shortly thereafter. I was in love with him but he didn't want any strings attached. He wasn't my boyfriend and there were no I love you's. I did something a little brash but it got his attention. I just kept thinking if Thomas doesn't want to be a couple then I'll find someone who does. I started seeing another guy after a couple months of non-commitment. I ended it after only a few dates because I only wanted Thomas. When I told him that I had been seeing another and had even ditched spending time with him for the other dude he broke down. Suddenly all his love for me came out and how much he needed me. I told him that I didn't want to be a sex buddy for the rest of my life. I wasn't getting any younger. I wanted a relationship that would grow in the future. Next thing I know he's asking me to be exclusively his. 2 years later we were engaged.
Now, if he's just using you for sex then he wouldn't care if you're seeing other guys. Test him.
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