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writes:I am going thru some serious issues at the moment that is driving me crazy.My situation is I have recently got back with my ex-wife it's been about 2 weeks.But the problem is that we got divorced about 6 months ago due to an affair on her part.I am so confused..
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008): I have a saying "Never go back" because I don't believe it works but many people have found happiness. I think you should get some counselling to discover properly why the affair happened and if you can re-build. Exploring this through and with a third party can help you be objective. It sounds like you have your doubts and having actually divorced you clearly had your strong reasons to proceed at a pace. What made you get back together? All these things should be openly talked through. You may be re-bounding with each other when actually it would be better to move on. Or you may have discovered that you threw away the best thing in your life. Only you can answer these questions. Without more detail it is hard to answer further.
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