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writes:About a month ago my girl broke up with me for her ex. We continue to talk and flirt. I'm just having a really hard time understand why we have full on texting conversations when I know she is with her bf? These aren't really rare. We probably have a couple each week. Why would she be doing this in front of him? According to her, he knows full well who she is texting, but it still seems strange to me. My buddy says I'm being "too emotionally available" to her. I don't really know what else I can do especially since a lot of the time she says "I miss you". I love her and want her back and I can't just ignore her. Thoughts?
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reader, didda123  +, writes (1 December 2008):
 I have had experience of this situation. My ex split up with his ex when we got together. When he was with me he obviously wanted to be with her then when he was with her he wanted to be with me and so it went on.I know he had feelings for us both probably loved us both so it is a bit of a dilemma and i think this is the same situation you are in.Unless you are strong and put an end to it it has the possibility of becomming the same as my relationship.I gave me ex a time limit for him to make up his mind at the time he chose me but several months after he changed his mind back which is extremely stressful. Unless you want to get into this situation i would stop replying to her texts and move on its for the best.Good Luck.
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reader, katatonik +, writes (30 November 2008):
 Maybe she really wants attention? I don't know. I hate to say it, but this sounds like a girl who can't make up her mind. If the roles were reversed, would you want her to text her other ex in front of you while the two of you were dating? Probably not, but if she does this to him she will likely do it to you if you get back with her. Stop catering to her; don't return her texts. Try and forget her (it won't be easy, but will be worth it in the long run) so you can find someone else who wants you and only you. Good luck =]
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