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*ungb313
writes:i miss my ex girl friend a whole lot we was together for 6 years we been broke up for like 4 months my in love i can't front about it she has a new boyfriend but still calls and comes by and like she finds reasons to come over like on thanksgiving she came by cuz she wanted my mom to make her mac n cheese and ham for her but tha whole time she was here she kept coming in my room and tryin to kiss me and i'm like i don't want to because she's with him and thats playing with my emotions but she always call and have convo and still wanna have sex with me because she says i'm better than him i'm the reason we broek up but i'm a changed man and really in love with her we was young when we got together we was 16 and we 22 now and i really want her back i begged and pleaded with her she says she dont wanna get hurt what should i do to when her back from this other man can some one please help me i really want her to be my wife
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (29 November 2008):
I think you are too good for her. Seriously, she has a bf and wants to cheat on him with you. What sort of wife would she make??? Shes obviously not the faithful type. And if shes doing cheating on her new guy, who knows whether or not she did it to you. Dont fool yourself by thinking that she loved you so much so she would never do that. It doesnt work like that with cheaters. If they would have an affair with you, they will probably cheat on you too.
Not only is she a cheater, but she is using you for sex and playing with your emotions. No decent person would do this.
I know you love her and it must be incredibly hard to be apart from her considering how long you two were together. To add to all that, you both got together when you were only 16, so you have grown up with her, and have probably spent a large majority of you tme growing upwith her, so it may be hard for you to feel 'normal' being by yourself, like being your own person.
I dont think you should go back to her. I know it must be hard accepting the break up, but you need to be strong.
At the very least you need to tell her that she is either prepared to commit to you or she cant see you. Dont let her manipulate you anymore, you dont deserve that. If she cant commit then, you really do need to seperate from her, tell her not to contact you. Seeing her will only make it worst. Be strong and stick to what you decide. It will be natrual to be tempted to go back, but you have to stay strong.
take care
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