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Archived questions from: October, 2012 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

Once I ejaculate, I tend to never want to see them again. Is this normal???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4403 days ago

31 October 2012 (M) - I'm 17 and I'm always making new friends on Omegle. I'm gay and tend to masturbate with the strangers on there. Once I ejaculate, I tend to never want to see them again. Is this normal? Or is it a psychological reaction? Also, do you think i...

When do you know it's the right time to break up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - When do you know when to break up? Me and my boyfriend have been together about 6 months, which might not sound very long, but its by far my most serious and long term relationship. Most of the time I'm so happy with him, but sometimes I feel like ...

Does he love and respect me or just want sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - Im a 15 yr old and im a virgin. My bf is 17 and he is not a virgin. We have been dating for 2yrs now, we have a problem now everytime when we are alon he always try to have sex with me,i don't allow him. He will say "i knew it you don't want to make ...

I'm jealous that he could be talking to prettier girls

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4404 days ago

31 October 2012 (F) - I've been talking to this guy for like 2 month now and the more we've been talking I've really started to like him. However after my previous relationshipi get jealous really easily which I really hate about myself! The other day we were texting ...

Does he still love me? Or there is another girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Im a 15 year old girl and i've dating my bf for 2yrs. We met at school last yr that where we started dating,my problem is that this yr since we in different schools he doen't call or send me sms,when i try to call him he always says "i can't talk ...

Why is it that he only really talks to me when he's horny?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Hey guys so my boyfriend and I and I have been going out for a little over 2 months. Something that I noticed in our relationship is that he only really talks to me when he's horny. I try to make conversation with him but he always runs that...

What is the reason? I texted him for the first time, said my name in the text, and he has not replied?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - To keep it short, im 80% sure that my crush actually likes me back. So a week ago my friend Nick helped me ask for his number, he seemed to be a little bit happy about this and he knew i was the one who wanted his number. And he acutally said 'rem...

How do I come out to my Mom and tell her that I'm a Lesbian?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

30 October 2012 (F) - Modnote: Your very long post was shortened as below is the crux of your question, which is clear,and is below. Your extensive account of prior events do demonstrate that you prefer girls and believe you are a Lesbian. But your question is the ...

Does my internet boyfriend really love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - Does my internet boyfriend really love me? I know I'm doubting him. We've been going out for almost 2months now. He's 15 and I'm 13 1/2. I tell him I'm not good enough for him, and he responds with hearts (3) and says stuff like "You're the ...

How do I ask out an older guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - there's a guy at work who i have really started to develop feelings for, we work together every week and have started to have a little bit of banter with each other, but i can't tell if he's flirting or just acting how he does with everyone else. i ...

FWB problems. Do I keep waiting for him or just stop seeing him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

29 October 2012 (F) - So I'm currently talking to this guy as fwb but he treats me as if we were more than that. We had sex last week and I texted him today and asked him to come over, clearly this ^^^^e want a piece of ^^^ but that was what I wanted tonight. He asked ...

He can't stand conflict and always leaves...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - hi.. I've been really down because me and my boyfriend just recently had a fight but this one was different. He said he was tired of having disagreements and he said he can't keep going through these kind of disagreements anymore. He's never h...

Help!!! How do I take things to the next level?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4406 days ago

28 October 2012 (M) - hello , added this girl on facebook about 6 months ago, messaged each other every day, got her number and started flirting and chatting each other up. Eventualy i ask to meet her so we met up, at the end of the day (we only whent to town) she ...

Just want to be friends. Should I be afraid to text him? Because I don't want to seem desperate.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4407 days ago

28 October 2012 (F) - So about two months ago, my crush's girlfriend broke up with him. Until then I didn't really know him, but we're in the same major and he likes to hug people so he'd always give me a hug. After a while I got his number and we talked and flirt...

Help!!! How can you be in love with someone you have never seen???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - Hi I really need some advice. I have been talkin to a guy over the phone for 4 months. I know him since over a year since we used to Facebook chat regularly. I'm 18 and he is 25. Our families know each other very well and are practically fami...

First date, first kiss... few concerns

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - Hi, i'm 15, and I got my first boyfriend last night. I'm really happy about that, i really like him, but there are a few things that are worrying me. 1: our first kiss Basically what happened is he kissed me for a long time and then asked me o...

It feels like people in this Gaming club hate me. How do I still enjoy the club and make friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4408 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - So I joined my school's gaming club, because I love gaming and I want to meet other gamers, but almost all of the people in the gamer club seem to hate me, because one time I was with one of their friends and they kept bugging me and I lost my ...

I think my girlfriend likes somebody else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - I try to be the best Girlfriend i can Be To MY Girlfriend, I think she like this Dude. He was on her, and they probably would have kissed if i wasn't righ by her side. I asked her do, she like him she said no, but i feel like she do.. I just need ...

I want to be more than a friend and study buddy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (?) - Hey everyone, I met this girl in university, I noticed her the first time she walked into the room, she sat by me. I never talked to her because I didn't want to fall for her. A few classes later, she talked to me. The first thing she said to me w...

She lives in his house, wears his clothes and has him at her beck and call... am I wrong to think this is out of order?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I both are 17. I have recently found out that one of the girls my boyfriend introduced to me as his sister is not, in fact, his sister. She is just a really close family friend. She has no blood or legal ties with him what so ever! ...

He did things with three different girls, but only told me there was two. Should I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4407 days ago

27 October 2012 (F) - I got back with my boyfriend two months ago after breaking up with him due to are relationship just being a real mess. We broke up for about a month before getting back together but during that month we both made mistakes and just moved on too quic...

We dated for a year. Then were told we're related. Is it wrong to stay together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - I have been talking to this guy a year now and he's everything I wanted in a man. After the year was up we were told we were related. That hurt me to the core. We care for each other so much. Is it wrong to not let go? I wish I would have known...

How does he always seem to turn up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4406 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - theres this boy who is always just turning up when I arrive in the cafeteria and I dont even have a really regular set routine. So how is it when I choose to go early there he is? When I choose to sit outside he just happens to walk up the path ...

I'm a guy who wants a relationship and just treat her right. So how do I make this happen?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4407 days ago

26 October 2012 (M) - hi everyone, i've been speaking to thisgirl on facebook/tumblr etc. for a few months now and we met up once with her friends. then we organised to meet but the day before she stopped talking to me and we didn't end up going out. then she starte...

He's been an idiot to me. And now he's asking me what I'll name my children? is he just messing with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

26 October 2012 (F) - I have history with a guy I've known since I was three. He's the same age as me, (15/16) and he's been a bit of a pain to me. He's messed with my feeling, said he liked me when he didn't, kissed me and used me. I've loved him for three years ...

Why can't I ever orgasm? I have to fake it every time, even though I want to orgasm.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - So, I don't know much about other women's experiences, but everyone knows that guys sometimes (out of nervousness or shyness etc) can't get it up, if you know what I mean. I know that women don't have 'ahem's' ...but can they get the same sort of ...

I don't want to creep him out by telling him how I feel... what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - I am 16 years old and passionately in love with someone who doesn't feel the same for me. He knows I like him but not that I love him. I can't seem to be able to tell him. I love him so much, physically and mentally. I cant imagine life without ...

I doubt myself. I never feel like I'm good enough What do I need to make things feel better for me?

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25 October 2012 (F) - I just recently got in to a relationship, at first I had a massive crush on him and he did too. We met at a party a few weeks ago. He was ever so sweet and adorable, but we didn't really "click" if that makes sense. At the end of the night we did...

I'm scared for my best friend. How can I stop her boy friend from pressuring her to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

25 October 2012 (F) - My best friend is being convinced by her boyfriend to have sex. I have cried every day trying to convince her the consequences. Her boyfriend says he knows what he is doing but he is only 13. I really need help to try to convince her boyfriend no...

Our first Kiss. What's the best time in a school setting to kiss her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4408 days ago

25 October 2012 (M) - Hi all. I've been dating my girlfriend for about two weeks now, we have told each other that if one or both of us is uncomfortable with the speed we are taking the relationship at, then we tell the other. So far, so good. We get along great, s...

I'd really like to have a relationship with her -- how can I get her to notice me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

25 October 2012 (M) - I have liked this girl for around a year and she is amazing. She is smart pretty and Amazing at sports. We both go to the same school and are freshman. We also both do cross country and track, both of which she is amazing at. The only ...

I've been crushing on him for years and I find out he's gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - So for about 5 years I have liked this guy. I have really strong feelings for him. I thought he liked me to the way he used to look at me. We used to be really good friends until we started hanging out with other people. Now he's popular and hangs ...

Help! I told her how I felt about her too soon... now she won't talk to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - I told a girl I really liked too early about my feelings and now she is ignoring me. Before I asked her, I was pretty sure that she liked me too, but when I told her that I loved her she said she didn't know whether she liked me. I understand why ...

I want to talk to my ex again but don't want her thinking I'm needy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - Okay the thing is, i had a girlfriend not in the same school but in the same town like 6 or 7 months back who i really liked a lot, we broke up in April and we were determined never to speak to each other again, and we didnt, except a couple of 5 ...

I'm twice her age. Why does she flirt? Should I flirt back with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - Why does she flirt? Should I flirt back with her? A girl, 19, who I am friends with, and I am 40. We work together once a week and sometimes end up at the same events. She flirts with me about 1/2 the time. like sometimes she doesnt at all and ot...

Is he worth my time? Can I believe him or is he stringing me along? he says he loves me, that he would like to marry me one day.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

24 October 2012 (F) - first of all I’m just looking for advice not for people to judge me. Well I am 18 years old and there is one guy that is about 15 years older than me. He would always flirt with me and he would say stuff to my sister so she could tell me. Ab...

Should I try to start something with my sister's guy friend who she treats badly. And should I open up to him and tell him that I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

24 October 2012 (M) - Recently my sister has been dating this guy he is ropughly 21 years old, and I really like him I'm a guy and underaged. I think he likes me back. My sister doesn't really want him she just uses him to buy her stuff, and she talks to other guys. ...

No one knows I like guys. So how can I get rid of this crush I have on a guy at school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 October 2012 (M) - So, recently I have started to like this guy at my school, but I'm a guy as well, I'm always thinking and looking at him during school but I know he wouldn't want to be with me. I just really want to know how I can probably forget about him, or ...

Lingerie decisions...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - hiya ive just turned 16 ive got a boyfrend im thinking of buying my first thong any advice on what lingerie styles and types thanks,...

She blows me off when I try to talk to her. Should I keep trying to talk to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - Okay, so about 3 years ago (10th grade) i met a girl that became my best friend, we would do everything together and supported each other with everything. When my birthday came this year in march i planned for me and her and my good friends ...

14 going out with a 12 year old?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - hi, I'm a 14 year old girl and just yesterday, I was asked out by a 12 year old boy that I liked. I'm really scared that people will make judgements about the age difference and my mum fears I will get bullied for it. He is really sweet and caring ...

Was inviting him to a movie, as just a friend, the wrong thing to do? I have a crush on him. He does have a GF as well.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

23 October 2012 (F) - Dear cupid, I really like this guy at my school, but he is a going out with a friend, of mine right. I reassured him that I don't mind being just friends and that I wouldn't dare interfere with his relationship because I care about him and I care a...

I love him, but I need to understand if his sexual fetishes are OK or not? One example: He likes me to dress as a school girl when we have sex.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - To give you a bit of background I'm not very sexually experienced. I've slept with two people in long-term relationships before my current partner and he is my third sexual partner (he is 23). In both my previous relationships, I had passionate, ...

Going on a holiday in 2 days but I suffer panic attacks. Can anyone give me advice on how to lessen any rise in panic within me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - After being cheated on I can't eat or drink much I suffer with panic attacks and I know that has something to do with it. I can't think about sex or a relationship at all to my advantage I'm going on holiday in two days. I just hope ill be able to ...

Is my b/f getting too friendly with this girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4386 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - this is gonna sound mega stupid! but it seems abit weird.. my boyfriend and me are in the same science class and recently we had some other people join our science group including this girl, she is quite pretty but is'nt a very nice person...bu...

I cry every day. It's getting me down. What can I do to deal with my problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4411 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - I have quite a few things troubling me however i'm the sort of person who keeps things to myself, and bottles it up. I don't like telling people as i feel like they will think i am seeking attention, or they won't be interested. It's got to the ...

What was this guy's intention? Does he think he is entitled in some way to treat me so poorly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - i met this guy at the club he invited me to come over his friends' birthday party. I thought I was his date but he ditched me as soon as I got there. there were all complete strangers and I didn't know what to do. so I said I have to go hom...

We've already broken up twice. So is there any hope we can have a future together??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

22 October 2012 (F) - My ex and I had been together 6 months and things seemed to be going just fine. But once school started he began to pull away. After 8 days he told me that i was beginning to annoy him and that wed have to break up if it didn't stop. I started...

At school: what can I do to stop people teasing me about this boy I like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4413 days ago

21 October 2012 (F) - I am in love with a guy at my school. He is so amazing and is so beautiful everyone knows I like him including him but I get teased a lot of the time from the people who sit near me in tutor. One morning I was upset and someone told me to just ...

Help!!!! Did I do something wrong...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

21 October 2012 (M) - I'm just a young boy right now, but going through a rough time. (grandparents dying) I was dumped by my first girlfriend and was in a lot of agony that time. When I was finally over her, I fell in love with another girl who is in my class. She tu...