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writes:Im a 15 yr old and im a virgin. My bf is 17 and he is not a virgin. We have been dating for 2yrs now, we have a problem now everytime when we are alon he always try to have sex with me,i don't allow him. He will say "i knew it you don't want to make love with because you know that you lied to me coz you not a virgin". That hurt me a lot because tried explaining to him,but he doesn't understand that i want to wait until i get married,he thinks that so 70s. I don't get him i know that he loves, i don't understand why he is so cruel Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2012): He's an inconsiderate jerk who only thinks about what's in his trousers rather than your feelings. Get rid of him and move on for the better, before he bullies you into doing something you will regret and hate yourself for!
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (31 October 2012):
 he's a bully...
he says the things he says to trick you into having sex
why do you want to be with him if he's so mean to you?
all he wants is sex and you are not ready so maybe you should break up with him.
if that's not an option do not be in a situation with him where he can force you or bully you into having sex.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (31 October 2012):
 He's saying this probably because this is his new tactic to get you to have sex with him. To make you feel guilty and like you have to "prove" yourself to him. Bottom line: he is being a jerk.
Frankly, if he's being this pushy and mean and doesn't want to respect your choices and body - he doesn't sound like a very good boyfriend. Even if he is a sweetheart sometimes, this is a enormous red flag. This doesn't just say - I want to sleep with you. It says that he doesn't respect you, so much so that he will be cruel.
You deserve better, kinder, gentler.
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