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26-29,
*onfuzzledamethyst
writes:this is gonna sound mega stupid! but it seems abit weird..my boyfriend and me are in the same science class and recently we had some other people join our science group including this girl, she is quite pretty but is'nt a very nice person...but recently my bf has been talking to her quite abit he said its because she said something to his mate and he was trying to sort it out but today he strangley went out of his way to ask her for a pen? she sits knowhere near him and out of his entire table of boys and me! and he asks her for a pen? was this an exuse to talk to her?... i know this sign because me and my bf met through our science class and after a few months we got together but before he used to flirt with me and alwyas asked me for a pen but he always talks to her now, I questioned him about it and he said shes just a friend but its not like his is acting differently around me he is still very full on with me and things are good between but but should I be worried????? him...please help i love him soooo much don't wanna lose him... xoxoxox
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reader, confuzzledamethyst +, writes (18 November 2012):
confuzzledamethyst is verified as being by the original poster of the question All I can say is thank goodness!!
its all fine this girl was all along getting with my boyfriends mate and I don't have to worry about her anymore but thankyou too those who helped :) means alot! but I have some other worries to, I will also help out you guys if you help me out!?!
thanks again confuzzledamythest xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2012): If asking for a pen is his way of flirting, I would say he probably has a small crush on this girl. Either way, you sound very young to have a serious relationship or to even be wasting time on someone when you'll probably have dozens of boyfriends after this. Don't compare yourself to this girl, and express your feelings to your boyfriend. If he really cares, he'll stop finding pointless reasons to talk to her, or maybe introduce you to her and include you in conversations if she really is just a friend. Good luck.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (22 October 2012):
 I can understand that you are worried, but he is allowed to have female friends as well. It is never good to be insecure or else this can ruin a relationship. As long as things are okay between the both of you and nothing has changed then I guess you just need to accept his friendship with this girl.
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