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Archived questions from: 14 April, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

You just can't do this when you have children!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Okay so my dad is taking my brother on holiday. He said me and my sister wouldn't enjoy it as much as my brother and he wasn't allowed extra people so we couldn't come, but now he's invited my brother's friend and his dad without telling us! I found ...

My bitchy ex friend wants the boy I like... how do I tell her to get lost?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5730 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - The boy that I fancy has just come back from holiday and in a joking way I said "did you miss me" and put 'lol' after it, and he replied "actually I did miss talking to you on msn" what could this mean? And I think he slightly fancys my ex fri...

I want a mini me!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Ok, I'm kind of freaked out. Yesterday, my mom's friend came over with her baby, who's just at the walking stage. She's so cute! And I loved the way she was hobbling around in circles. I used to never like babies, so I thought it was odd that I w...

I'm dating a married man... but he's seperated!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for about 3 months now but he is married. He has been separated from his wife for about 8-9 months now. She does not want a divorce so of course she is not going to pay for it. He recently got scammed for $3500. This is ...

Risk of pregnancy... please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5730 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I had sex with my boyfriend, he used a condom so afterwards we decided to do it again so he put a new one on. We did it for a little bit he didn't cum in the condom so he took it out but then 30 minutes after we reused it. Is there any chance of ...

I love her but she hates me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5730 days ago

14 April 2009 (M) - I'm in love with my best friend but then I told her how I felt and now she hates me. I don't know what to do, plz help me!...

How can I get the pleasure back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5727 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together nearly 2 years now, but recently I've been finding that I'm not getting any pleasure from our sex any more. He still enjoys himself and loves what I do to him, but when he tries anything on me for some reason I ...

I don't like messing about in class. Am I strange?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

14 April 2009 (M) - I am 15 years old and i guess girls find me weird becasue i am so shy, I heard that is one of the biggest turn offs for women. ok I'm in class right and their are these boys and these girls who piss me off so much. One of the girls happens to be the ...

I want us to be more than friends but I'm confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5730 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - This boy that I've known since September has been close and friendly but sometimes distant. I'm trying to be more than friends but I don't have much time left with him only one year then I go to college. I think he knows I like him but I'm not sure. ...

I like him, but he goes for popular girls. How do I get him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - There's this boy that i really like. Hes so cute and we have a lot in common, we like the same music that know one else in our school really knows about and dress in the same unique style. He wears the tight pants has a lip ring and band shirts and ...

Teenager--interested? or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Hello, Lately I been going crazy about this boy named JK his same age as me but turning 17 this year and I’m 16. Today I saw him when I was walking to school he kept looking behind to see me and at the end he crossed the road and then looked...

Reusing condom and pregnancy risk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5730 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Hi my bf and I had sex a day before i'm suposed to get my period today is the 14 and the 15th I need to get my period but while we had sex everything was ok but then he wasn't hard anymore so he pull out then put another condom but he wasn't hard so ...

Mixed signals..what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Okay, I have known this guy for four years now and I would say that we're quite good friends. As time has progressed so has my feelings towards him. I am not sure if he feels the same way. I haven't had intercourse yet because I am only 15 despite ...

A request to all the young teens out there

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - well i have realised that in the past few weeks there are so many young girls coming up with just one problem thats PREGNANCY.. why are the young teens underage(11-17) so unaware of the consequences it is soo sad that at the age of 13 or 14 instead...

Can you truly be friends with your ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - My and my ex's relationship ended on good terms. I was just too shy and he felt we acted like friends. Me and my ex are really close, we're best friends coz we can tell each other everything even if its embarrassing. We even sometimes have a little ...

Curious 14 year old girl ....

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - hi i'm 14 and have done basically everything sexual. i was just wondering what age people have done different things eg. oral, lost virginity, anal, fantasies etc....

13, pregnant from first time and it was a dare

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Hey i have just turend 13 in december and just found out i am pregnant since I am really young and only just started my period in november i had sex in march and only slept with one lad a dont know what to do but i dont want an abortion but in a...

Do you think I ever have a chance with her being my real girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5730 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I feel really guilty. 2 months ago I was in a long distance relationship with a guy who claimed he loved me. The problem was I hadn't seen him for a long long time and I cant fall in love with someone over such a long distance. I really liked him...

Mid 20s guys dating late-teen girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Guys opinions plz. What do u think about younger gals. Guys aged 25-27 about girls of 18? To u think of them as a little girl or a girl u could date? Of does it depend on how mature the girl is? ...

My girlfriend gets insecure when she's away from me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5730 days ago

14 April 2009 (M) - Hi! I'm 18 years old and I have a girlfriend who I totally love and adore. We haven't been together for long, a few months, but I still find her great. Only problem, she is a bit insecure. She can take compliments, but questions me on them ...

He controls my life and pisses me off yet I still feel I need him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Big problem here, really need some help now. I have been with my partner for over a year now. We started off so happy and I fell for him instantly! For the first 6 months it was pure bliss, we was in love and everybody thought we was brilliant...

How do I give him the go ahead without straight up telling him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I am 18, turning 19 in a few months, and I really want to lose my virginity. My bf and I have been dating for almost two years but we've kept it pretty innocent; we're both virgins. The funny thing is, all my friends think we're sexually acti...

Doubts about compatibility

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Hi, i have a problem that i dont know how to deal with. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for a year now well it will be a year next week, we have been on and off because my family doesnt like him and because he is into the outside life a ...

Hidden Love Trouble !! Need all help that is out there

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5731 days ago

14 April 2009 (?) - i always talk to this girls at school and i consider her.. just a friend...we went out for lunch a couple of time and talk about stuff the question is how do i let her know that i really want to be more than a friend to her..??????? h...

I find his swearing unattractive. Or am I over-reacting?

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14 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are very close, we spend heaps of time together, he has future plans to be with me, we have spent 7 years of being close friends, talking about everything.. Since we started dating we're constantly amazed at the differences ...

Curious: How does porn turn people on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Hey y'all what's up! How's it going? Okay I need to know how in the hell does porn turn ppl on? It's just naked ppl hooking up! Just go to your spouse or the one you love! And in my opinion Its gross!! But I just need to know how does porn turn u ...

What do you guys think? Virgin or not? Or, at least, is my hymen broken?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - One night, I was drinking.. Long story short, he started to put his dick inside me until I said stop. I just remember it hurting and it was just for a second. I KNOW he didn't put it in all the way, but I just remember it hurting and it was only...

I'm in love with my gay best friend. But I am also totally in love with my boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Well, I have been best friends with "C" since we were 12 and now we both are 17. When I was 14 to 16 I was dating somebody and "C" would always tell me he was in love with me and he told my brother he thought he would be better for me then my ...

I invaded his privacy... what do I do to make it better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Hi there, just have a quick question: I read the text messages of a guy i have been seeing for a year and i told him that i read them. I also called a girl that he had fooled around on me with because she was texting him again. (I'll mention ...

It's so hard NOT to talk to him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - A little more than over a year ago, I started to have this relationship with this guy who lived in a totally different state than me. We became real close, even if we were off and on for practically a year. Anyhow, when this all first happened; ...

Is this a sin?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Im so embarassed because I recently started to masturbate and need help. I've read pages on the internet saying how it isnt a sin and some saying that it is. So idk what to do?! I want to but I feel guilty and weird like I'm sinning really bad. ahhh ...

I'm attracted to my boyfriends older brother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I feel really bad about this but I've been trying to figure out a way to get rid of it to no avail. I have a very strong attraction to my boyfriend's older brother. I know it's wrong and I've tried and tried to stop thinking about it but It's rea...

I've just been so confused about him lately.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5731 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Uhh...where to start....there is this boy that I like, and Ive liked him since we were in 7th grade. He is really nice to me, cute, and is able to get me out of my shell and be myself when Im near him. Up until now I denied the fact that I liked ...

Should I keep trying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

14 April 2009 (M) - ok. so i like this girl that doesnt want a boyfriend but she really likes me.. should i keep goin or end it here...

Is it too soon to be love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I've been in a relationship with this guy for a month and everything has moved so fast and I think I'm in love? It sounds unlikely as its been only a month but he's like the other half of me. (very cliche, I know.) I'm always thinking of him and ...

Almost my whole school has labeled me as a "slut'...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I started having sex 2 years ago and soon found myself sleeping with different guys at parties almost every weekend. There really isnt anything sexually that I didnt try and almost my whole school has labeled me as a "slut'. I know that I deseve it ...

A question on masturbation!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5709 days ago

14 April 2009 (M) - Hey, This may seem like a somewhat strange question, but when you masturbate, how long does it take a normal person to cum? How can you make yourself last longer? Thanks, Anon...

I just wanted to know if you all think I'm depressed and I should get some help, or am I just getting over past experiences?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Ugh. I think I might be seriously depressed. I had a really bad childhood. I got raped. I just recently got an abortion. I just feel really bad about everything about me, I don't like who I am and I'm just really sad all the time. I feel ...

How can I forget my feelings for my ex? It might ruin my friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5731 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Me and my ex are really close friends, he's the closet person i am to,we're basically best friends. Our relationship ended on good terms, he just felt we were acting like friends he was my 1st bf. We never kissed coz he didn't wanna rush me, but im ...

Does getting raped affect your muscles "down there"...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I asked this same sort of question and didn't get the response I was looking for. Well long story short when I was about 15 I was raped and after that I noticed that I was pretty loose "down there" Does getting raped affect your muscles "down there" ...

What is the best way to accentuate your bust without it making you look easy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

14 April 2009 (?) - Odd question, sorry: If a girl is quite busty and curvy, what is the best way for her to accentuate it without looking easy? -GG...

Will there be another chance and how do I take that chance without messing everything up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - This is a problem that I have had for a while now, and there is alot behind it so please if you can, read it and help me or give me some form of advice thanks. I have this friend. He's a best friend to me and likewise I'm a best friend to him, h...

My crushes friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5731 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I was walking down the hallway at school and I saw my crushes friend. I don't know him I just know they are friends. He was with another guy I've never seen before. My crush was nowhere around. My crushes friend was standing with his back towards me ...

Was I too late and is he considering taking his ex back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5730 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Heya, ok so I've posted this a few times but have never gotten any answers to my updates, my question's named: - I turned him down when he asked me out, now I regret it. Is it too late? - I can't work out if this girl is his older sister or ...

I made a mistake with a "bad" boy and now I've been put in an awkward position!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I'm very uncertain how to proceed, I have a bad boy in my life that I have a boyfriend but I can't resist the bad boy. He's extremly drop dead gorgeous and every time I was meant to meet him something went wrong like the universe saying don't do it. ...