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female
age
26-29,
*andy_Cake_Mush
writes:There's this boy that i really like. Hes so cute and we have a lot in common, we like the same music that know one else in our school really knows about and dress in the same unique style. He wears the tight pants has a lip ring and band shirts and has straight black hair, and i have long bleach blonde and black hair, a monroe piercing, and wear tight shirts, leggings, tutus and everyone says we look perfect for each other.But hes a huge player.Heres the trouble though, he goes for the popular girls who he has next to nothing in common with. im not trying to hate on them, they're nice people and everything, its just....ah i don't know.He acts very confident and talkative with them.But with me, he seems more serious and stares a lot and seems nervous.Please tell me what you think of this. i'm at a loss. i don't know if i even stand a chance with him or what to do when i'm around him.Thank you ever so.
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reader, Red-Cherries  +, writes (15 April 2009):
Well I think he's just passing time with those girls. If they come easily to him, that just means that they aren't the ones that are right for him. If he's having trouble staying with them (therefore earning the title "player") then he must not be interested in them. When a guy finds the right girl, he will be able to have a long relationship with her. Be his friend first. I think that maybe he likes you (since he acts nervous around you) and that he just doesnt know if you like him too. Drop hints... no need to be subtle ;)
I'm sure things will work out for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): seems nervous around you? are you sure he doesn't like you, boys like us get nervy when they are around someone they like we find it hard to talk, what to do etc.
perhaps hes talking to popular girls because he knows how to act around them feels confident around them.
just be yourself, with guys they like confidence, girls who are comfortable with who they are. so dont change for him. But make it easy for him to talk to you. my favourite for when your stuck for conversation is ten random questions.
like what would do with a million pounds?
if you were invisible?etc.
ask him his hobbies,
invite him to somewhere quite casual like the pictures, or a picnic or something. Go for a walk anything.
he can only say no and even if he does its not the end you will find someone else. Just enjoy being together and then see what happens.
key thing though is to spend proper time together.
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