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Does getting raped affect your muscles "down there"...

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Question - (14 April 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 14 April 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I asked this same sort of question and didn't get the response I was looking for. Well long story short when I was about 15 I was raped and after that I noticed that I was pretty loose "down there" Does getting raped affect your muscles "down there" therefore causing you to be loose?

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A female reader, jaime90 Australia +, writes (14 April 2009):

jaime90 agony auntim going to tell you something else, but don't get freaked out. Rape at a young age can cause abrasions on your cervix, because it is not properly formed and due to the rough and violent nature of the rape. These can cause major problems (cervical cancer among other things!) so if your worried you should get a pap and see your gyn dont be embarrassed.

I know this because it has happened to me.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009):

The others are correct...It will not affect your muscles. If you have concern see a gyn. They will help you.

Having children can affect you, but not being rapped. I actually had surgery for a dropped womb after my children were born. It tightened everything, and it has stayed that way. It was a long, long, time ago. I don't know if they even do that surgery anymore. But my advice is to see a specialist and get accurate answers!

Good Luck!

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A female reader, jessica04 United States +, writes (14 April 2009):

jessica04 agony auntNo.

Child birth is the only thing I have ever heard of that actually will stretch the vagina and change it's "tightness". Not sex.

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A female reader, Harmony1st Australia +, writes (14 April 2009):

A womans vagina is designed to deliver a baby, after a baby has been born the vagina usually contracts and goes back to normal. Those who have difficulty are examined and given pelvic exercises to tighten the muscles.

I haven't heard of being raped making the muscles loose, I have only heard of Vaginismus which is when the muscles around the vagina contract against your will and creates pain when insterting a tampon, finger or penis.

If you are concerned about the area being loose I would suggest you have your family doctor or gynaecologist examine you. If you are sexually active you should ge having regular pap smear checks.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009):

The short answer is NO. If you experienced a difference, it might be because your hymen is now gone. The hymen may make things seem a little "tighter", but it is highly unlikely that a single sex act can change the muscles of your vagina.

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