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writes:Hi, i have a problem that i dont know how to deal with. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for a year now well it will be a year next week, we have been on and off because my family doesnt like him and because he is into the outside life a lot. He is also 1 and a half younger then me. I come from a traditional armenian family which means no sex before marriage. I spent the night with him last night and we almost had sex. He wanted to have sex with me because once we have sex with someone we have to be with them and he wants to have sex with me to know that i am his forever. I love him to death and cant really picture life without him, however, his outside life and the lifestyle doesnt really impress me much and honestly im just sick of it. he doesnt call me enough and its just weird. However, i want him to my first because i love him so much i know im never gna feel this way for anyone else. Next week is our one year anniversary my friends are telling me to get a hotel and design it with flowers and candles and to lose it to him....so i dont know what to do. A part of me wants to do it because i know i love him and but another part of me is questioning if im going to stay with him because of his lifestyle...Help please i dont know what to doo....
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reader, izabella637 +, writes (14 April 2009):
izabella637 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhis lifestyle, is always out til god knows wat time with the guys. driving around here and there. there are days where hes out so late that he doesnt go home and he just sleeps over at one of the guys house...He does drugs..He doesnt work...
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): Well if I'm reading right, you don't want to have sex until you find "the one". So really, this is a question of whether this guy is that or not. Well. Only you really know if this guy is on the up and up with you. He could just be thinking "I want that soooo bad" because you've been dating a a whole YEAR with nothing, and he'll say any old thing to get in your pants at this point. Its very very possible.Its also (somewhat less) possible that he is you soul mate and you two will live a long and fulfilling life together.What is his lifestyle? Lots of partying or something? You are right in that a lot can be told about a person by how they conduct themselves, day to day. He is into the outside life? What the heck is the outside life? Ohh, non traditional Armenian, I guess.
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