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How can I get the pleasure back?

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Question - (14 April 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 April 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *igerlily89 writes:

My boyfriend and I have been together nearly 2 years now, but recently I've been finding that I'm not getting any pleasure from our sex any more. He still enjoys himself and loves what I do to him, but when he tries anything on me for some reason I stay really dry and can't get any pleasure from it. He is now worried that something is wrong so things are awkward in the bedroom. I love my boyfriend to bits and it's always been fine in the past, so I don't know what's wrong. Please help me.

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A female reader, tigerlily89 United Kingdom +, writes (17 April 2009):

tigerlily89 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you for your reply Steve. I dont have a particularly stressful job, and i'm not taking any medication or anything at the moment. I just seem to be going through a dry spell where i cant get any pleasure even though the feelings are still there. its been about a month now, i'm hoping it will blow over soon or my boyfriend will think something major is wrong, which it isnt. i will try some lube, we have never used it before but it sounds like it will make a difference. thank you.

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