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writes:Ok, I'm kind of freaked out.Yesterday, my mom's friend came over with her baby, who's just at the walking stage. She's so cute! And I loved the way she was hobbling around in circles. I used to never like babies, so I thought it was odd that I was enjoying watching her so much... but then it hit me that I want one. a baby.I want a little me; I want to hold her and sing to her and tell people that she has my eyes. What gives? I was never like this! I always said no children, absolutely not. They're messy and just more people you have to worry about besides yourself...ugh! I'm only 16 so I can't have a baby... I mean, technically, yes but I'm not like that.Is this normal at all? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionof course! of course! i have sisters who are waaay younger than me so i know how annoying and gross babies can be... that was part of the reason i was so surprised that i want one. not that i'm gonna go out and get preggers or anything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): It's the maternal instinct awakening in you. Babies were designed by nature to make you adore them.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (14 April 2009):
Yeah your hormones ambushed you.
But you know this feeling is exactly the same as the feeling that you get during PMT.
It's not real.
You know you saw the baby at it's cutest.
Go back and offer to change her nappy, have a good sniff. Set your alarm for 4am and then wake up and listen to some recorded sounds of a baby screaming for an hour.
Also, ask her about how fun it was being constipated during pregnancy and how many complete strangers poked about in her vagina when she was in labour. Ask her if she had an enema or did it the natural way and did a poo on the table. Ask her about the tearing and stitches and being incontinent.
Ask her when she next plans on going out with her mates.
Good Luck!! xx
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