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writes: i always talk to this girls at school and i consider her.. just a friend...we went out for lunch a couple of time and talk about stuffthe question is how do i let her know that i really want to be more than a friend to her..???????her EX cheated on her and she told me about it...how do i tell her that am gonna treat her differently compare to the way her X did...??????how do i tell her my feelings without looking like a complet fool..????and one more thing that really confuses me is that she told some of her friend that she can date a guy like me....and plz what do i say to her nxt time Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (14 April 2009):
well first of all NEVER compare yourself to the ex you just need to show her that you're better than him without telling her let her figure that out for herself.she'll clearly still be upset and hurt by him so best not to bring him up.you just let her know how you feel tell her if you don't want to do it face to face then text her or ring her or email her.i'm sure she won't make you look like a fool she's already stated she'd date a guy like you perhaps she's just waiting for the signs from you.but if you don't tell her then you'll never know what could of been.and if you do tell her but she's not ready then that doesn't stop you guys from being friends and developing into something more later on.but do be careful as im sure she is very fragile :)best of luck (Y)
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