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Archived questions from: 22 April, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I told my teacher I have a crush on him, what's gonna happen?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - I really have a huge crush on my teacher... I've had it for a while and it was bothering me a lot. I really wanted to tell him. So last night I wrote a letter about how much I admire him and that I couldn't keep it in anymore... and I was stupid and ...

How can I confront her in order to make things better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

22 April 2009 (M) - Sorry in advance that this is so long. Here's something I'd like some advice on. I've been thinking about this a bit, and it's just been something on my mind the last few days and something I'd like answered. I started talking to this girl the...

How come guys always change when you get too close to them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - How come guys always change when you get too close to them? This guy that I know at school always trys to make me laugh and when I'm sitting with my best friend and he's trying to talk to me he will try to dodge her head to talk to me face to face. ...

Worlds apart but too close for comfort

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - I am 18 years old and have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. However, I have known this other man for 6 years over the internet. We've met up before and it was amazing, although nothing happened, I feel like I've betrayed my boyfriend. I...

Do I need to see my GP or nurse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - I've had periods for 4 years and I've always had them regularly every month and I stay on my period for 5 days. I recently gone on the mini pill because I don't want to get preganent but since going on the pill I've been coming on my period every ...

I feel physically and mentally put off him now as I feel pressured into having sex with him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm curently with a boy who I like, we have been together for a good 8 months now and he claims he loves me... and yes we have our ups and downs however we always pull through the other end. He started to suggest to me that we should have s...

Since he said he likes me he's been in minimum contact with me. Did he mean what he said?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have had this crush on this guy since I first met him in September and I have made some mistakes since I first told him I liked him. I have said that I'm in love with him and also that he is the ONE. Every time someone asks him if h...

The girl with "chubby cheeks!"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - Hola, I was just wondering why people (mostly guys) perceive me as a "cute" person and compare me to a baby or something. Whenever I smile I get these huge cheeks suddenly appearing from nowhere and it really annoys me. I get people poking them all ...

How can I help my girlfriend with her self esteem problems?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - My girlfriend has really low self esteem that I think stems from lack of parenting in early childhood and some abuse. I can't stand her being so hateful towards her beautiful body. What are some ways to help her overcome these issues?...

How can I get rid of this shyness that I think will destroy the hope of being his friend at least?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5722 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - Hi! I'm 15 and I wanna ask you about my situation especially boys because you know each other well!!! I got a crush and even love 'wb'. We go to the same school but we don't know each other, we've never talked before! He's always staring at me an...

Is she trying to break us up or what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

22 April 2009 (M) - Well recently my gal cheated on me! when she told me what happened she told me she had asked her sister for advice and the sister adviced her to cheat on me! my girl and i are still together but recently i was contacted by her sister who has never ...

He said we had to be secret then asked out my friend and she said yes! Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5722 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy from school but he wanted to keep it secret from everyone because he doesnt like people knowing his business. We've had lots of problems including when he asked my friend out on a date whilst i was supposed to be dating h...

Is he using shy as an excuse to not take things further?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - This guy at school and I have been exchanging some pretty heavy flirty emails over the last few days (I've known him about a year). I wasn't sure what to think of it all and caught off guard by it. At class yesterday, I decided to tell him that I ...

I tell her sweet things but she doesn't believe me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

22 April 2009 (M) - my girlfriend if very shy, i can kiss her and stuff but she isnt very confiedent about any thing. and when i tell her she is great or fine at it she doesnt believe me. what can i do to boost her confiedence?? please help...

How do you tell if a guy really likes you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5722 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - Hmm could you explain to me...wen a lad likes someone how do they act and can you sense it in the atmosphere. I don't just mean they look at you or something but can you tell sometimes just by being with them, how they act and the way they talk? I...

I think I am bi but I have a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - I've been struggling with this for a while, since about 7th grade when I started noticing how pretty girls are but just ignored it. and when I got older I started getting more and more atrracted to girls but I always just denied and thought I was a ...

My story of being a teen mum

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - This is my incredible story on how i had my head on gear and at 13 year old gave birth to twins one girl one boy my little girl is called 'sky marie archer' and my little boy is called 'mason alex james archer' i got pregnant and had twins at only ...

Somehow I got pregnant and I'm just not sure what to do!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - I'm 17, and i've just found out i'm pregnant. I really can't understand how, as I was on the pill, and even the doctor said it just doesn't add up. But after not having my bleed after day 21, I knew there must be something wrong, and so took 3 ...

My mate is about to start dating the girl I like! Please reply as soon as possible!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

22 April 2009 (M) - Hey everyone, I need some help (lots of replies)! I really, really like this girl, I have for about a year and never been able to tell her but I've dropped hints for ages, we are really close, and she just broke up with her boyfriend. I was...

How do I win her back when she is going through such a hard time at the moment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

22 April 2009 (M) - I was seeing this girl called Emma we get on good together we argued once but it was my fault as I was tired and angry as my baby died that week one yr ago and I said sorry, we have split up 4 times with the first time was a month and 2 weeks ago as ...

My best friend is about to start dating the love of my life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

22 April 2009 (M) - hey everyone, i need some help! i really, really like this girl, i have for about a year and never been able to tell her but ive dropped hints for ages, we are really close, and she just broke up with her boyfriend. I was at a party which she rea...

He always tries to kiss me! Does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - Hi im desi and I need help getting mixed up signals fro m this guy I like he has a girlfriend but he always flirts with me and he knows I like him he is always trying to make me laugh or at least be happy. He always tries to kiss me (the way you ...

He flirts with me even though he has a g/f -- does he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - Hi I've been getting mixed signals about this guy I really like. He has a girlfriend but he is always flirting with me. He knows I like him, and he still tortures me with illusions. He always tries to say hi or to kiss me on the cheek as many times ...

He used me in a lie to dump his g/f

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - Ok this is kind of stupid but I don't know how to handle this one... My 17 year old soon-to-be brother in law has made up a big lie involving me to dump his girlfriend of a year after he has cheated on her numerous times! He used the reason he can't ...

Help! Am I pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5723 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - I had unprotected sex then some blood came three days after lasting for four days and my period usually came for a full seven days. My period was really due 9 days before I saw this blood. I'm feeling really sick lately, urinating often etc. Am I ...

2 years of an abusive relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5723 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - I am a 19 year old girl who feels like I'm trapped in a helpless marriage. On my 17th birthday, the cutest sweetest most sensitve (at the time) guy who I met through mutual friends asked me out. He was my first real boyfriend ever, and has been (on ...

What IF??????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - Hello, Here are the facts - Man's natural lube (aka precum) may contain traces of sperm if he ejaculated previously. Me and my boyfriend get VERY intimate without having actual intercourse. We let our bits touch - his penis sliding on top o...

Needy boyfriend, need advice!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5723 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 9 months now. I love him, and he loves me, and we plan to have a future together. But, there's just one thing.. He's really really needy. I can't go on the computer for longer than an hour, or else he ...

I want to end this for good, but I can't.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do. I am 16 and totally in love with this boy. He abuses me. Hits me, as well as emotionally. He constantly puts me down and calls me names. We go to a vocational school so when we're on the bus, it's for an hour and a half at a ...

Do guys definitely mean it's over, when it's over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - A guy friend of mine who I considered my best mate has suddenly broken off our friendship via email. He emailed me an angry email saying I made up lies about a girl he knows and now he wants me out of his life as if I don't exist and he doesn't w...

How can I make her stop hating me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

22 April 2009 (M) - I'm 15 and I like this girl a lot, but the problem is she hates me, plain and simple. What can I do to make her not hate me. I'm not that bad of a person, I'm kind and considerate, I even write poetry about her, I haven't shown her my work and I ...

What's going on???!! Why am I treated so differently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5723 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - Right can you try and help me figure out what's going on. There's a lad I've liked for some time and we are pretty good friends but for some reason he's so different with me. It's hard to explain so I'm just gonna list different situations to show ...