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Archived questions from: 20 April, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Is my boyfriend normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for just over 5 months. He gets really annoyed if I text or email any of my friends that are boys. I have promised and reassured him many times that I would never ever cheat on him but he always answers with 'I ...

Opinions! Is there such a thing as love at first sight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

20 April 2009 (M) - Do you believe it is possible to fall for someone at first sight? Or love at first sight whatever?...

I'm in love with my step brother.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I'm in love with my stepbrother but the only thing is my stepdad has kids with my mom so he is my little brother and I don't know what to do. I mean we really feel for each other no we haven't dared to have intercourse but we are so crazy for each ...

My friends don't like me because of my penis size!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

20 April 2009 (M) - I'm 13 years old and some of the people at school hate me because of my penis size. My dad told me I was a early bloomer. I didn't get why they don't like me, someone told me that I was stealing their girlfriends. I try to tell them that I have a ...

I find it difficult to make conversation with my boyfriend of 3 months. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 3 months are great, there's just one problem, I have a problem with talking to him. It's not that I'm scared to talk, it's just that I find it hard. I can see it's starting to annoy him now and I just don't know what to do. ...

How can I open up to my mum more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I'm not a very open person about anything really, I like to keep things to myself and that's the way I've always been. I'm close with my family, but not "close-close" I can't tell my mum anything, and I don't feel right talking about a lot with her; ...

I'm shy! Should I text him about going out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5706 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I asked something about this earlier, but it was before I had an account. So here's the thing. I met someone about a month ago, but didn't think I would ever see him again. Then, last week I bumped into him. We hung out for a while, as friends, but ...

Too much discharge!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - Looking for advice from fellow girls here. Since starting my period, every day I get a lot of discharge. I realise that it's normal to get a certain amount as it's the bodys way of "cleaning", but I get quite a bit and it's embarrassing, and has ...

Has anyone ever had a contraceptive implant???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I'm a 16 year old girl and ever since starting my period they've lasted about 8 or 9 days and have been very heavy and painful for the entirity. I made an appointment with my GP to talk about it, and she suggested 2 drugs, one was specifically ...

What do you like best about oral sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

20 April 2009 (M) - Woman please reply… What do you like best about oral sex? What are your favorite oral sex activities? In general, how much oral sex do you like before moving on to intercourse?...

Too much? Or am I not understanding men properly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - (Figured out how to ask questions finally) Ok situation goes: I'm in a realtionship with a really great guy. Very work focused mind, but i understand him and why. But we posed a problem the other day, where i was telling him i loved him, and i a...

How do I convince my mother that I need to be on birth control pills?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - Hi there, I'm fourteen, turning fifteen in about two weeks. Just a few days ago, I sorta got into a relationship with a boy who's very close to my age and in my grade (so age isn't a problem). I say sorta because nothing's official, but we...

I lost my baby two weeks ago, and I have to go for a post-miscarriage check up at my doctors.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I lost my baby two weeks ago, and I have to go for a post-miscarriage check up at my doctors. I'm just wondering what I should be prepared for? I don't really know much about this, and I'm quite scared as I'm not too fond of doctors anyway. Anybody ...

I still love my ex and do not want to hurt him again but I love his fried too.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5706 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I am almost done with my ex, but now his friend is asking me out, what should I do? I still love my ex and do not want to hurt him again but I love his fried too....

I love him so much but what if he's holding me back. Need help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

20 April 2009 (?) - Me and my boyfriend are 17. I go to a private college and he is in state education. We are absolutely crazy about each other, love one another deeply and can't see how we would break up, not in the near future at least! I've always had big id...

Mistakes were made when I was drunk. Now I am confused. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - at a party around christmas time last year i hooked up with this guy who is in the group of people that go to the same parties as i do and during that summer we were together and all was well. one night he was having a boys night and my friend had ...

I am attracted to my ex's Mom!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5707 days ago

20 April 2009 (M) - I am 18. My relationship with my girlfriend ended with her leaving me. She said that we could remain friends. This happened over a month ago. My ex-girlfriend and I have remained friends. She has a new boyfriend and she seems happy. I am happy ...

Was I wrong for being mad at him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - well me and him have been together for 2 weeks. i reallllllllllllly like him. everything was perfect. but he started talking to my ex best friend i trusted him so didnt say anything. but she asked him "am i hot" and he said yes but dont tell j...

Sex 5 days after period. Could I be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend had sex 5 days after my period and most of his cum went in me before he pulled out what are my chances of being pregnant...

I don't understand him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - im so confused! im getting mixed signals here. ok so heres the story. i started talking to this kid who im going to call jake this year. he was extremely sweet. every night he'd say goodnight beautifull and he told me he liked me once too. i star...

I like my ex girlfriend's friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

20 April 2009 (M) - hi well I'm 15 and i had a girlfriend and she was the love of my life but i guess we found to many things to fight about and it ended after 3 years. long time huh? well my friends are a really big help cause they know that i loved her with ...

I know he doesn't like me but I want him to

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - ok so heres the deal.. i really really like this one dude.. and i know he doesnt like me.. so my question is how do i get him to like me? and i am too nervous and scared to go up to him and talk to him.. so wat should i do?? .....

I don't often feel fireworks

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5706 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend so much but i dont feel anything when we kiss that much. its only when he like touches me, like my sholder my hand etc. that i am like i love you :-] only a few times i felt something like fireworks when we kissed, is this ...

Am I considered a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - My now ex-boyfriend and I were fooling around while still dating. I was a virgin, and whilst wearing a condom, he tried to actually penetrate me. He might have gotten in between a centimeter to an inch or so; enough for it to hurt, but not enough to ...

Any ideas? I don't know what else to do to get pregnant!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I am 19 year old, I am married and have no children. My husband and I have been planning to have a child for about 2 years now. I checked myself with the Dr. and said I was fine, also my husband. I am not taking care of myself against pregnancy, nor ...

Do I go ahead and risk friendships and be dishonest to my family because of this guy, who I honestly can't get enough of?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

20 April 2009 (M) - Where to begin? Basically, I'm 16, a virgin and would consider myself Bisexual. I think that at this moment in time, I am equally attracted to both men and women. I've been in an on and off open relationship with another guy, let's call him J...

Drama between me, him and her!!! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - There is this guy I am in love with and I think that he likes me... We have went out, in fact he said he loved me and stuff, I don't know if he does like me or anything.... well his gf found out we were talking (cuz we're friends me and him) and ...

Help! Three is a crowd!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I want to stay all night with my bf and I know he wants it too but his cousin lives with him, how can I get him to tell him to leave and stay with a friend? He is also afraid that my family will catch us but I know that they won't....

I just need some honest opinions on age differences.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I just need some honest opinions on age differences. What would you think of a 17 year old girl going out with a 29 year old guy? Right/wrong/doesn't matter? I need some insight to this, thank you....

I think he only wants to meet me for sex... but I'm NOT ready!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - Hey, I need help asap. A guy I have known for about 6 years now, we are very good friends has asked me to meet him, I am really scared because I think he wants to have sex and I'm not ready, specially not with him, he's told me he just wants to ...