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Archived questions from: 11 April, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Could I be pregnant if he came in my anus (due to condom splitting)?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do. My boyfriend wanted to try new things so I agreed because I felt I trusted him. He wanted to try anal sex so I let him try it telling him to use a condom. The problem is the condom split and "came" up there. I'm a we...

Swollen up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I have masturbated for the past few months, just one finger and played with my clit but last night I tried inserting a finger which I liked, I inserted two and I loved it... but a few hours later I've swollen up down below, and 24 hours later I'm ...

What kind of signs does a guy give out to a girl to show he's interested in her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - How does a guy show a girl he's interested? I mean like signs.. eye contact, smiling. ect. ...

My Ex's Words are killing me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

11 April 2009 (M) - My Ex-girlfriend said that I'm not good enough to have new girlfriend and after she started telling me how many guys asking her out after she broke up with me. She said that she can have any boyfriends anytime she wants. Why did she tell me how cool ...

Signs when someone is gay??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I think my friend could be gay. What are the signs that he is?...

How do I change to be the girl that he wants to be with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - My bf and I recently broke up. Well we broke up yesterday. He said it was because my parents refused to let me go away with him and his family for the weekend. But I know that that was not the only reason. We had a lot of problems. In the beginnin...

Do you think he wants her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - ive been with this guy for 9 months and i love him so much his everything to me..but every time i try to let go i cant... he has messed up several times and i have forgived him he was going out with me and another girl at the same time and i caught...

Are we allowed to go out seeing as I'm only 13?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (M) - Am 13 and I want to date a 15 year old girl named Sarah, are we allowed to go out? I know she loves me and she knows I love her. Please help me? Are we allowed to go out???...

Is this a break? Or his way of saying goodbye?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I just recently broke up... or took a break... or something in between? We were together for 2 years. well recently things had become really bad with fighting and crap so we decided to like not talk for a week to sorta clear our ...

I'm torn between them both and don't know who to choose!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (M) - Help again please! I have said before I turned 16 two weeks ago and I lost my gf to another lad and I was crushed. I think I rebounded onto a mate of hers and one1 week down the line I am with her friend, it was ok at first but like I said before, ...

Should I write him a note?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Hey there! So there's this boy, he's only a year older than me (or so..) and I met him in my art class at the beginning of the semester. He now sits at my table with my two good friends and we have a lot of fun as a group. I like him, a lot, but...

Who should I choose? T, L, or W?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - i'm really confused about my feelings: there are 3 guys: "T"- amazing and such a lovely guy he's helped me through a lot and is hot as! but he's 17 "L" - he's 16 and is such a good mate i felt like i loved him but we've changed he's still amazi...

Weight problems affecting my love life

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Im struggling with my love life because im overweight but im dieting and so far I've lost 2 stone i now weigh 14 stone. and all my friends starve themselves and i wanna know if i should try and if i should how can i do it? x...

I want her, but does she want me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Im confused.I work at a pretty big supermarket and Ive always stared at someone I work with,problem is shes turning 25 and im not turning 16 till the end of the year.I think there is something there cause she always stares at me and when we talk she ...

Is he using me when he's bored?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - So Heres The Thing... im 15 I liked this guy 4 nearly 8 months lets called him Mr X i had tried to talk to him but was never successful never new what to say so it would just be hows you wot have you been up to on msn sort of thing. I soon r...

Scared of masturbating, but I want to take it to the next level

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I'm a 13year old female and i'm scared of masturbating because I think i will hurt myself. I cum easily by watching lesbian porn but I want to take it to the next level, what should I do? ...

5 days late ... could I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I kind of had some sexual activity with mu boyfriend. He had protection and he didn't really "go in". I was suppose to get my period 5 days ago and still nothing! is it possible that im pregnant?...

How can I find out if my gf masturbates?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

11 April 2009 (M) - Ok. I am 14 and I masturbate usually once a day or every other day. I have a girlfriend who I am crazy about. And I want to know if she masturbates. How can I find out?...

I'm 15 and really pickkyy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - i'm 15 and really pickkyy.i flirt wit guys its no big deal but the minute i find out that they like me in my mind i'm always like (beep beep beep backing up) and i don't know why...i never had a boyfriend i dont want to tell anyone that because ...

I cant figure him out. Is he a player?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5734 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - hi i'm 15 and im a sophmore in hs.. i like this guy in my class i think he likes me too but idk why he acts so weird around me..i dont get him so my only solution is this..please dont say i'm too young cuz i'm sick of that crapp.. this guy in my cl...

Is there such a thing as unconditional love between a couple?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I have two questions. One is is there such a thing as unconditional love between a couple? Cause my ex said I had unconditional twisted. Isn't it where no matter what ur partner does ull always love them and stay with them? Also how can I prev...

Do guys behave like this when they want more than friendship or just friendship ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - a guy flirted with me non verbal... but I did not give in right away. after some days he became my friend. but I would not speak to him. because he too would just look not talk to me. i then eventually backed off. certain days he would brush agai...

Question on G-spot and fingering

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - okay my boyfriend is kinda self-conscious about his eh, performance when he fingers me. and he does very good but he never hits my G-Spot and has never expressed an interest to do so. But i really want him to because when i finger myself if feels re...

I am pregnant by my FWB, and my lovely ex-husband is now cancer free. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - My friend-with-benefits is seventeen years my senior and we each have kids from our previous marriages. He has four and I have one. After having known each other for three months, I found out I was pregnant a month ago. I know that sounds as if I'm ...

I feel I'm just a splat of paint in a white house. Everybody else is gorgeous but me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

11 April 2009 (M) - OMG, im soo insecure...i hate my self im soo depressed and it sucks!! yeh i have alot of friends, but the thing is, all of my guy friends are so much better looking than me...they're ruggedly handsome, heck they're freaking gorgeous!! why do i...

Can love happen quickly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - So im just asking if i'm crazy. But i thinki found the perfect guy!!! he's silly, goofy, great with kids, has absolute loads of patience and when i'm around him i smile because i fancy him so. :) even my mother notices a different look in my eyes ...

Being in love versus having a crush!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Can I have someone tell me the difference between being in love and having a crush?...

Should I get the mole removed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Heyy!! This question has nothing to do with sex/relationships/love, but I'm sure someone could help me! I have a mole on my face and it's really obvious. I'm 14 and for my birthday next month my parents are letting me get it removed if I want...

Virginity, boys, love, lust and lost!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Well I feel like I can't get someone. People say I'm pretty but I'm not and I know and they know. I don't know what to do because I feel like burying my head. I'm still a virgin at 17 and my ex already lost his. I feel like it's a competition but ...

Is being in love a good thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

11 April 2009 (M) - is it a good thing to be in love? and i know there is going to be different answers but i wanna hear all your opinions on this....

In love..but he's 300 miles away!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I am 16 years old and i am in love. No doubt about it, no1 can say im not coz i am. He loves me too, He is the sweetest guy ever to me, does aot for me, he tries to boost my confidence, and its really workin he has such a positive effect on me, BUT ...

Problems with sex, could I get some advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend of 5 months decided to have sex. we were both virgin and i am on the pill so we didn't use a condom. we had a couple problems the first time. first he wasnt getting hard enough, does he have a problem? once he got a bit harder he ...

How do I move on from my 1st love, my best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - This is long but i think i need to tell every aspect for you to really understand. My ex boyfriend and I were together for nearly seven months, we fought a hell of a lot but there were the good times and the good times were perfect. As with every ...