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Archived questions from: 23 April, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

She has feelings for he ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - I am not feeling well as I am writing this. I have just found out that my girlfriend still has feelings for her ex-boyfriend. She has been hanging with him a lot lately and she has just admitted that she has now grown feelings for him again. We had ...

He keeps pestering me with texts!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Hiya guys... Okay, a friend from school who i haven't been in touch with a while, lets call her Amy, invited me round to her house [she's 18, and has just moved in with her fiance]. Me and another friend went round. While we were there, Amy's fia...

I like older guys because guys my age are too immature

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Is it normal for a 14 year old girl to like older guys? Like all the boys my age are so imature!!! They get on my nerves! So I like some of my male teacher but the 1's i like, flirted with me 1st so I just do it back to them. The boys my age are so ...

Told my teacher I love him. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Today in math class my friend and I was to lazy to get up and get are paper to our math teacher. Then the other was in there so we asked him to give it to her and he said no you guys are always mean to me. He said we need to be nice then he will. So ...

Should I go back to my friends house after this "incident" ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - last weekend somthing scarey happend at my best friends house i dont want to say much but the police came and my best friend didnt get hurt but her dad did somthing scarey to her mom. that same weekend on saturday we went to the movies (the acci...

How can I flirt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - theres this boy i ave crushed on since year 7 and i really wanna flirt or throw hints as i tink he likes me to but i dont no how to flirt or anything please help me i dont no wat to do...

They are say I'm anorexic, but I'm starting think it's true.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I'm 13, and I haven't been on a diet long. A really short time in fact. My friends say I'm skinny enough already and think I'm crazy for dieting. It was just eating healthy and cutting back snacks, also with excersise at the beginning. But then ...

There are times when my boyfriend makes me feel so miserable, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are so happy when we're together. but when we argue, it's a whole different story, he takes things out of proportion, and starts blaming it all on me, which obviously makes me feel really low. He shouts at me, he insults me and I ...

Prom is in 2 days but I'm terrified of dancing in public!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Sort of vaguely related to relationships, so I figure I'd ask here anyway. I'm 19 and a Freshmen in college, my boyfriend is 18 and a Senior in high school. His senior prom is this Saturday the 25. I am, as his girlfriend, obviously going ...

Will our childhood relationship last?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - I'm 15 and my girlfriend is 14 and we are seriously thinking about moving in with eachother when im 20 and she's 19 are we crazy? Are we going to last that Long?...

Stretch marks!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I've said this before but I'm going to say it again so that I can get as much help as I can get. I have stretch marks on my boobs, they aren't even big, only a size B and I'm size 10 and have been for a long time, so I haven't gained or lost weight. ...

Not sure what do to!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - So, here's the deal. There is this guy I work with that I am crushing bad over. We've known each other for going on 3 years and have always gotten along. He's had girlfriends, but I've always thought they were for cover. Then after he broke up with ...

Should he tell her the truth or forget about her and move on????!!!!!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Hi! Me again! This is another problem of my other best friend. I'll call him 'ab'. He loves this girl 'l'since last year. They're friends and he's scared to tell her the truth and he's afraid she'll never talk to him again if he tells her that ...

I just paranoid of being hurt again or do I have good reason to be as such?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - I have been in a relationship for a little over 5 years and we have had our ups and downs as far as it goes. She has cheated on me in the past and I am still suspicious of things that she does, my question is am I just paranoid of being hurt again ...

How could I convince her to have sex with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - I live with my cousin she is 33 and has two kids but she is so hot and I'm 19. I've been wanting to have sex with her forever now. She likes having sex but just broke up with her man. I made this lie where some girl said I was a bad kisser so I ...

My friend is desperate for a baby and is sleeping around!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I have a friend who wants a baby but she is 17 years old but she keeps sleeping with all kinds of guys so she will have a baby. What should I do, be a good friend and tell her not to do that or just stop talking to her?...

Should I get things straightened out and tell him I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5721 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I can't get him out of my mind! The whole staring thing just won't let me. Right. Sorry about that. I needed to vent. Anyway, there's this guy at school, and I like a lot. My friends often thought that we were 'together' because of the way we...

Even although he cheated on me, now I just want him to hug me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Hey... I'm 14 and a 2 month ago I split up with my boyfriend who I had been going out with for 7 months because I felt the love wasn't there and I didn't care what he had to say. He wasn't very smart and didn't care to have a conversation about ...

The way I look is holding me back in life!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Hi I'm 19 and I've never had a boyfriend. I've wanted one since I was 11, but its never happened for me. I've read through the other 'never had a boyfriend' questions and read the advice... I have plenty of male friends (probably more than...

I turned her down so now she is telling everyone I'm gay!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - Hi, there is a girl in my class and we used to be good friends. We´d sit together and talk about all sorts of things. Then she told me that she loved me and wanted to go out with me. I didn´t fancy her, so I said ´no´ nicely, as I still wanted t...

I'm too naive and I always seem to make myself to vulnerable to guys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I had and on and off relationship for about 5 years. It started when we were quite young, so it was nothing too serious and neither were our arguments. But as it went on, just him breaking up with me and getting back with me when he felt like it. i ...

My ex has threatened to beat me up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I have a massive problem!! My ex-boyfriend Jack has threatened to beat me up just because I added his present girlfriend on Facebook. But I also know that he is cheating on this girl. This girl, let's call her Shelby, has told Jack that I've said ...

Is it possible to tell if someone is trustworthy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - in my life iv been back stabbed by a few people. like for example one friend kept asking me who my other friend liked and she annoyed me so much it burst out! then she told another girl. the thing im asking is how can one tell if a person is trus...

Tried to impress my friends with my 23 year old boyfriend but they just got mad at me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - At School, My friends were talking about their boyfriends and Girlfriends and stuff. And my friend Melinda* look at me and was like "To bad you don't have one." Everyone kinda looks at me. and I smile. I said "what are you talking about? I have ...

Does he like me back? Or are we just friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I like one guy who is also my friend.. I even told him that I like him. He put me in confusion saying that "I can't discuss this thing right now.." and at that time he was confused too.. but still he didn't give any answer. Does that means he...

Feel like I'm being forced into sex stuff

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I am 13 years old and so far I haven't lost my virginity. I want to be one of the few teens who actually save it but like 2 boys wantsz me 2 lost it to them and I keep saying no and they ask me non stop and some other boys want me to suck their ( ...

It's great when we talk, but he doesn't have much time for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - okay I've been going out with my boyfrend for about 2 years . I am 17 and he is nearly 20 , this whole year all he does is work and ONLY lately like the past few weeks he's hardly been talking to me , im always the one to call him , I always have to ...

Can't let him go, but he has a g/f

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Hi, i have a crush on this guy, i practicly love him, for 3 years but he has a girlfriend. He knows that i like him by some messages i sent him on myspace. The problem is that i can't let him go. Whenever i see him i can't stop staring at him but ...

I don't like my body and this is killing me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

23 April 2009 (?) - Hiya everyone! (I've asked a similar question to this before, but I think this one is more focused to the point.) I'm "at risk of becoming overweight" and I'm not comfortable with my weight at all. I'm a serious athlete and I'm losing fat fast....

I want him to show more affection!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Okay... me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months will be 5 in May... I love him a lot but I don't think he really loves me back. He's really nice sweet funny and everything I want.. the problem is he wont tell me he loves me, kiss me, hold ...

His brother pays more attention to me than my b/f!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Okay... me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months almost 5 in May, and he wont hold my hand, kiss me, tell me he loves me, or anything. The most he will do is hug me. His twin brother gives me waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay more attention then my bf ...

I don't know what things would be like if we DID start dating again.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - I dated this girl for a while, and I fell in love with her. She also fell in love with me, but she later dumped me because she hated how hurt I always was and she hated the pressure that my depression added to the relationship. It's been about tw...

I just want a girl that likes me and makes me feel special.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - Im in highschool dont have many friends. Never really fit in with anyone. Most of my friends have moved away, droped out or just stoped being my friend. I used to be made fun of real bad in middle school and I was in lots of fist fights. Im 6 foot 2 ...

Frustrated guy with a hurt ego.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - Ok so..i am a 16 years old athletic guy..actually i breakdance so i am in a real good body shape and no health problems etc..but the problem is my first time was with an experienced woman i guess and it was horrible..i got everything wrong...

I don't want to be like this

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Please, Help me. I'm a teenage girl and haven't gotten my period yet. I hate wearing underwear and pants with zippers, buckles and flys around the waist. I'm just very sensitive around my stomache and "down there". Is there any thing I can do to ...