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Archived questions from: 20 October, 2008 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Would friendly sex create any uncomfortable feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - I've got this really good friend, she's 14 going on 15, and I'm 16, 17 next year. We are both virgins. I've done kissing, and dry sex and she's done pretty much nothing, she's never had a boyfriend either. We tell each other everything because we ...

The older sister likes me but I fancy the younger one...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5915 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm nearly seventeen and I've recently met two sisters, one 17 and one nearly 16. I get on really well with them and I'm pretty much 100% sure that the older one likes me. The only problem is that I really like her sister, and I think she...

I have all the symptoms.... Am I or am I not???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I have not gotten my period in about 4/5months. I haven taken a test yet but I'm not sure if I am pregnant, my period was always quite irregular but I have never gone this long without my period in a long time. I have been getting back pains and I ...

Why do I still feel jealous when he flirts or looks interested in another lass??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5915 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - ahh omg just really confused i dont understand why i feel this way, i should'nt feel like this. Well supose i better get to the point. right well my ex and i broke up over 1 month ago now, and i have a new bf, but my ex still loves me and wants me...

Would it be right for me to agree given the age difference.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - Hi I am 17 years old and I recently met this girl, we know each other reasonably well and I quite like her but she is over 3 years younger than me and has asked me for sex. Would it be right for me to agree given the age difference....

I was only trying to help a friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - You guys recently rejected a question because it was a duplicate of one already accepted. I, however, didn't know it was wrong. I posed as the person who needed the advice when it was really my friend's story. She told me a week ago that she's ...

I feel as if I'm in limbo right now...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - This is a complicated, intertwined one, so be ready. It started about one year ago, when I started noticing this guy in the grade above me. I didn't like him, I just noticed him. We just had common interests, thats all. I didnt know him and the ...

Is it normal to not have a wet dream?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - Hi I'm 15 years old and i have never had a wet dream. I haven't really asked many peole if they've had one yet but all of them have said yes. Is it normal not to have one? I seem to masturbate OK....

I can't show my feelings for anyone.

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20 October 2008 (F) - hey, I was wondering if anyone can help me? I can't explain or show how I feel about anyone, not even my family :-| It's really starting to annoy me, I do try to tell them but the words just don't come out. :( it does make me feel really bad thoug...

How can I clean my white tongue?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - so I was making out with this guy and somehow he noticed my tounge is pretty white.. embarrass me much? anywho, I use a tounge scraper! so what else can I do to clean my tounge?...

Condom or the pill?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - Soo... umm... I've been with my girlfriend for about 4 months and shes already discussed with me about having sex, but shes a virgin and soo am I, but I'm not quite sure whats the best thing to do, bucause she doesnt want me to use a condom, she ...

Dead skin around my vagina and I'm so ashamed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Hey please help i feel so ashamed! Well i have been masturbating since i was 8 years old. i am now 13. But i have noticed some " saggy skin" all around the "button" between the vagina lips, the saggy skin is black! and it looks HORRIBLE. i...

Do I need consent from my mum at age 16 to go on the pill? I don't want her to know!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I am with my bf for a year and a half and now we have decided that I will go on the Pill. Is there any way i can do this without my mum finding out? ...

What is the reason people give hickies/lovebites?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Hello everybody, just a small question for you all. How do people give hickies/lovebites and what is the purpose of them? I was just wondering because I haven't come up with a good reason myself as to why people give hickies except for leaving a ...

I annoyed her, she said, by sending her too many messages. Could you help me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5915 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - Girls i really need your help... Okay im kiv... Theres this girl that im totaly crazy about but i havent even met her jus glanced at her once... I found out who she is and added her as a friend on facebook, well she accepted... We started chatn for ...

Should I STAY with my boyfriend even though it's not fair on him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Hi. I had a really rough weekend, there was this party and it turned up really wrong. Friend invited some boys, there was alcohol and I ended up sleeping with one of them, twice. 30 mins after crying about my boyfriend. He doesn't live in UK, so we ...

Why does my boyfriend want to stay friends with this girl when he knows how she treats me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, and he is still good friends with a girl that used to be MY best friend. He used to like her in 8th grade, but they went out for just a few days (you know how it was back then). He told me she ...

I want to tell him I love him after a year and a half but am afraid of his reaction!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. The problem is neither of us has said I LOVE you. I love him but cant bring myself to tell him because im scared of his reaction. I like the relastionship as it is but just really want to ...

Should I stop seeing him because I slept with his friend in the past? His friend and I loathe each other.

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20 October 2008 (F) - I have recently started a casual relationship with a really great guy, who I have known and liked for almost a year, we are keeping it casual even though we really like eachother as neither of us is in the right place for a serious relationship at ...

What do I say to tell him I really DO want to break up with him for good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I split up with my boyfriend about a week ago today because I needed space and he keeps texting me every day and it's starting to feel like he's smothering me. I asked him to wait for me while I sort my head out and now I think I have come to ...

My self esteem is crushed, WHY can't I get a boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I am 14 years old and so many of my friends have boyfriends, and I haven't had one before. No guys seem to be interested in me, they just pass over me and look at my friend who has a nice face and dd cups. I hate my nose, it's sorta big, and I ...

Lesbian affair?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5915 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - OK.. I am 17 and she's 17. We're best friends, and one day we were laying in my mom's bedroom and she said she has never had anyone feel her up (Squeeze her boob) So I squeezed her boob for her playing around and stuff and she was laughing and then ...

Help,I want to be with my (female) best friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Hi my names Kanja,im 16 and I have this friend that I've known my entire life,she's always been my best friend, ever since we were about 12 people have been calling us lesbians because we hug and hold hands in public and tell each other I love you. ...

Affection to a gay-like.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5915 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - There is this guy in the campus that looks like a gay but some says he's not, the proof is.. he admired a girl and tried to court her. The first time I saw him was I was amazed that there is a gay-lie guy that tries to court a girl. The girl said ...

Can hair be straightened after a perm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I was wondering, can you straighten your hair AFTER getting a perm at any time? Because my hair is boring straight and I'm getting tired of it. Like I want a perm but thing is I'm not going to want it curly EVERY DAY, somedays I just might want it ...

I feel like I'm getting the short end of the relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for close to 2 years now. We've had our ups and downs like any relationship. All of my flaws that he disliked, I've worked on for him. I've become a better person. But it's not the same on his part. I've told him t...

I am so insecure about "down there" after he asked me this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Sorry if this is graphic but I have always been a little uncomfortable with myself in that area but now I am so self consious about sex!! My "lips" are large, especially the right side and they are a darkish color, like gray/purplish. My now ex ...

She says she's showing signs of a pregnancy and is threatening to sue me for child support! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - I thought I had feelings for a girl but I realized that I didn't after we got naughty in the car. However she was telling me that she was on birth control and that I shouldn't have to worry about it. I didn't ejaculate at all during intercourse and ...

I would have sex with him, but why does this bother me so much?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - ive been dating my boyfriend for 9 months now and we have been talking about sex often lately. we have no problem talking about it and its not hard to tell him what bothers me and when im not ready and such. but every time he asks me if i would (he ...

Are we cousins? Please help. I'm confused, hope you're not!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I have a question, please help me? So here it goes, my aunty's mom was married to my aunty's husband, and she has a kid from my aunty's husband, and the kid wants to ask me out, but im afraid that he is my cousin. Does that make him my cousin? ...

I called my girlfriend fat, I apologized, she won't talk to me, will we get back together?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

20 October 2008 (?) - My girlfriend (shes 18 and im 19) is through this phase thinking shes fat (trust me shes not). And because of it she wont let me see her naked anymore. We do make do but she lets got to the point where I cant control myself. We have been fighting a ...

A boy I liked a lot, broke up with me, now likes my best friend, what do I do noe?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Hi . Yeaa Im young , believe me i know it , but it seems lately that everything i hope for and anything that makes me happy , suddenly goes wrong for no apparent reason , i feel like im not meant to be happy :( I recently dated a boy that i reall...

A new employee came in under my employ, and started to text me, with stalking, personal messages, how do I stop this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I've recently acquired a bit of a phone stalker... problem is, it's someone who really should respecy my position in the workplace as their boss. I try to mainatain a good relationships with everyone who works for me in my work - I try to be a fr...