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*opefulYouth
writes: Hi . Yeaa Im young , believe me i know it , but it seems lately that everything i hope for and anything that makes me happy , suddenly goes wrong for no apparent reason , i feel like im not meant to be happy :( I recently dated a boy that i really liked and have done for sometime , he was great to begin with , but then after a few days , we kissed , it meant alot to me , but then he broke it off the next day , he told me he thought he was in too deep , i was hurt , being with him wa the only time id been happy since my father left , but then as i said everything i hoped for ended :( i really want him back but he likes my best friend now , he constantly tells me how much he likes her , ive never told him how i feel about what happend so he doesnt really know that it feels like hes rubbing salt into and open wound , i want him back , i want the happiness back , what can i do ?please help im sick and tired of trying to figure out my options only for them to turn out wrong thank you HopefulYouthxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2008): sorry 2 read of ur unhappiness. the short answer is u r not going 2 get him back in the short term. the only way u'll get him back is by making him realize what he's missing. So ACT cool, hot, fun, happy, easy to get along with, TALK to guys ina friendly chatty way AND act busy. That will also take ur mind off of him. sorry luv but dating @ ur age is tough coz guys r immature & don't know what they want. u'll find someone by being CONFIDENT (i know it's tough) BE BRAVE. good luck & god bless.
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reader, lianne x +, writes (20 October 2008):
the only advice i can think of for you hunny is ,
try and for get about him ,
try and find somthing to get you out of the house and keep your mind off him and other things.
everyone meets that guy that they like a lot -it doesnt last very long , and he always like you mate, its happens to guys too.
as you said , your young , you'll have many more kisses with guys,
the first kiss with some one is the best , but just think, if you let yourself get hung up on this guy, your not going to get that first kiss with a guy that might actually be worth it!?
hope this helps hunny xx
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