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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have recently started a casual relationship with a really great guy, who I have known and liked for almost a year, we are keeping it casual even though we really like eachother as neither of us is in the right place for a serious relationship at the moment.The probem is that I had a drunken one night stand with his friend in Feb (something I would never usually do) which caused me and his friend to fall out. Now their mutual friends have told him that he shouldn't see me because it will 'hurt the feelings' of the guy I slept with. I don't understand this as me and said guy haven't said a word to eachother since and genuinely loathe eachother so I don't see why he should affect him if his friend and I see eachother.I don't want to stop seeing such a great guy and he says he doesn't want to stop seeing me. I know hiding it is an option but a very difficult one considering how many mutual friends we have and how we all go out in the same places. My question is whether I should end things with him so he doesn't have to make the decision? Or if he does end it, should I fight for him?Thanks
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