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*amie123
writes:Hi,I'm nearly seventeen and I've recently met two sisters, one 17 and one nearly 16. I get on really well with them and I'm pretty much 100% sure that the older one likes me.The only problem is that I really like her sister, and I think she likes me back too because we were all over each other as in teasing, hugging, play fighting, even holding hands. I feel so happy whenever I'm around her. But I don't think she will go any further (as in a relationship) because she knows her older sister likes me.How do I set everything straight without seeming big headed or hurting anyones feelings? I don't want to tell the younger one I like her, I'd rather wait for the right moment.Any help is greatly appreciated.
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reader, A Cappella  +, writes (21 October 2008):
 My sister has a phrase for situations like this: "Run like your ass was on fire." :-)
They are going to be sisters forever, and if you move forward on this then 20 years from now you are probably going to be that guy they fought over -- what was his name again?
Don't do anything right now. If the one you want isn't willing to do anything because of her sister, trust her. It means she's a great person at heart and would take care of your heart too someday if you needed it.
Continue to be friends with both, and wait until the older one has moved on. If you're still interested by then, the younger one may make a move on you. But don't push. Good luck.
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