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Archived questions from: October, 2008 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

Should I meet him or listen to my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5856 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - i have met this guy online and have been speaking to him for about 9 months. im only 16 and hes 23. i want to meet him so much but im quite scared and my friend doesnt approve of him as hes 23 speaking to a 16 year old about a relationship. should i ...

Now I'm single and he's with someone else. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - There's this boy at college, that I've had a crush on for months, and he used to like me, but at the time I already had a boyfriend (a total mistake). I didn't like him then either. Now I'm single and I know I've fallen head over heels for this guy, ...

How do I attract him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Im 19 and im guessing he's like 22 or 23. I dont really talk to him in class, but he always looks at me and he for sure knows my name because he gave me my quiz back without me telling him my name while everyone else did. I want to show him im ...

Is it ever too early to have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - i need help.. i have a new boyfriend. we've been together for about 2 weeks now. we're both not virgins. we hang out a lot and it's kinda tempting to have sex. i mean we just get in the moment. we've almost done it twice but i made it stop before it ...

Fancy dress prom coming up! I have naturally red hair. Which actress could I go as?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5856 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Hey Not a relationship question, but I've seen random questions answered here...So here we go. I've got this fancy dress prom coming up (In my last year and a prefect) and I don't like wearing wigs and my hair is naturally a ginger-red colou...

What will happen to the relashionship if I kiss him and he doesn't want to be kissed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for a couple of months now, and we haven't even kissed yet. He recently admitted that he was frigid, but I would like to kiss him. I feel confused. I would kiss him, but I don't have the confidence to just do ...

My mom told me two different stories about my parentage, I am having trouble accepting what she says is the truth, please help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - When I was younger my mom told me that she had me with her ex boyfriend who had since left her. But when I turned 18 my mom said "Now that you're an adult, I need to tell you the truth." Turns out the real reason I exist is cause my mom got drunk ...

Is friendship all that's on offer here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - Hey, I've met this girl I really like at my college. I've liked her since we first met and I really really want to be with her, but I can't tell if she likes me the same way or not. One day she practically ignores me but the next she'll ask me if I ...

Is my girlfriend cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - Hello Okay, i am incredibly obessed with my girlfriend and we have dated almost 3 years already and we've been breaking up and hooking up again every few weeks but there are still stuff that are still bothering me? Last year me and my frien...

Does this make me a lesbian?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - This is gonna be one long winded question, so yeah! Anyway, I'm currently seventeen. I've been dating my current boyfriend for 3 years. When I was young (about 9-10) I used to have the biggest crushes on boys, and it's been that way forever. ...

What could these symptoms be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - i am so young but i have memory loss problems.when i try to focus on one thing i lose so much focus on sumthing else n it feels like im retarted.or it feels like im lazy when it comes to thinking.is it a stage?i can't really remember what happened ...

Could I be pregnant or is my waterfall playing tricks on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Im about 3-5 days late. I've been having mild cramps, mild headaches, mild backaches and my nipples are tender. On and off. But my friend told me that when you are pregnant your cervics get hard. This is kinda gross but i stuck my finger inside ...

Is it irrational to think this way about my therapist?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Over the past 3 years I've gone through a lot of shit. about 2 years ago I met my therapist, he was one of the best people I would ever meet in my (then) so far 15 years. I most definitely thought of him as more than just my therapist... I thought ...

What do I answer to her sexual questions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - If a girl asks you how bad do you want her and how bad do you want to go down on her what do you tell her?...

Have I missed my chance with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - A few years ago a boy told me he wanted to be more than friends. At the time I didn't think I felt that way about him so I said no, he didn't give up though, and over the course of 2 years he asked me out about 4 or 5 times. The boy in question is ...

She's coming 100 miles to see me but I'm terrified as I'm still a virgin!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5854 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - Guys and girls! OMG I am so nervous, I'm terrified. Ok, here goes. I am a virgin. In fact, I've never kissed a girl in my 19 years of life. A girl I met on the internet (seen her on webcam, she IS real!) And she's making a special trip from...

Do you think that you forgive someone who did something very wrong to you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Do you think that you should continue to talk to someone who did something very wrong to you? I mean this person tricked you but they still try to be nice to you and somtimes you go along with it.. do you think that person should leave them alone ...

What's the best way to meet up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - Hi guys, quick question, not immedialtely love related, but close enough. Only UK residents need answer due to obvious reasons Two people want to meet. One lives in Colchester, Essex one lives in Cannock, West Midlands. What's the best place a...

I had my period in school and now everyone makes fun of me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - my name is mary and i almost died of embarrassment when i had my period in school and everyone called me bloody Mary for the rest of the year and some of them still do. i need help and/or advice!...

How do I get over my best friend's boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I feel a bit jealous of my best friend's relationship with her boyfriend. Also i used to like him and i sort of still do. I hate thinking of them together. But i want to get over this. I don't want to tell my friend how i feel because i don't ...

What can I do to be less needy and not want her time all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - Hey, I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 16. She's the kind of girl that doesn't have to see me for a whole day to call it spending time and I'm the exact opposite and so I need help to find a way to where I can become the same way so I'm not so (needy - I ...

Why is he being grumpy and cuddling another girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months, but recently hes been really moody and grumpy im not sure whether this is related to his new job as he has to get up early for. I am also worried that he is going off me, as last weekend he had a ...

Do I really like him even though I don't know him personally?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - i have met a boy 2 years older than me on an online game. we have been talking dirty to each other qiute a lot and i like it. the problem is that i really like him but i dont no whether i should ask him if he likes me and if we should be together as ...

Love or just sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - hiyah..well this is kind of embarresing but i need to ask sum1.:S well to start of with the first time i had sex was when i was 14 with this lad that i am currently having sex with now.i am now 15. i feel like i love him.. but the problem is...

How do I stop thinking about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Hey people I have an issue. Don't worry i have plenty of tissues. I really like this guy at school and I know that he will never like me like I like him. (I apoligize for all the "likes" in that sentence)So how do I stop thinking about him. ...

What should I do when I see him? Should I say Hi?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - A couple of months ago, i decided to get a friend to ask a boy out for me, because i really liked him and i was too busy crying because it was the last day of school lol, and we were both going to different schools to each other after that. My ...

I want to get to know him, but I'm really shy around boys.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I am really shy around boys. when i talk to my girlfriends i cant stop chatting but when it comes to boys I cant speak like for example the other day a guy i fancied said " hello how are you " All i could say is " fine and u? " and he says " fine " ...

My ex insists on coming to me for advice and it's driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Hey. My ex insists on coming to me for advice. He is basically obsessed with my best mate (talk about rubbing salt in the wound),and he never shuts up. so i told him that id find out if she would ever go back with him to shut him up. i know fin...

How do I tell him that I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Hi there is this lad that i really fancy and i can't stop thinking about him. He is really good looking and got a lovely personality and i would love to go out with him. My friends all say that he fancies me too n whenever we are together we alway...

I like two completely different guys. Who should I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - i like two guys , i cant decide unless i make a mistake The first guy i like is the lead singer in a populare local band, hes allright looking, got a great sense of style.. but he can act like an idiot sometimes which embarrases me, he is soo sk...

Is he just with her to make me jealous???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I think he wants me back but playing mind games! I split with ex of 2 an half year 3 month ago because he drank to the extent he became a horrible person, I asked him to quit and he said he couldn't. Since then he got a new lass who he's been with ...

Doctor Troubles

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - For the last 3 weeks ish I have been feeling so depressed and my mum booked me an appointment for the doctors tomorrow but she can't come with me and I'm scared that the doctor will think I am overreacting because I'm on my own and not take it ...

He has asked me for a BJ. I am afraid if I say no that he will think I don't like him anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - i have never given a bowjob and i am scared that i will do t wrong and my boyfriens has asked me to give him and i am scared if i say no he think i dnt like him any more what do u thnk i should do ?...

How can I let him know I would like to date him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

30 October 2008 (?) - i really like this guy named brian who works in the grocery store in my town. he's only 18 and i'm 15. i know he notices me because my mom says he will look at me when i'm pretending to ignore him. also when i go by myself he will flirt. and when i ...

I am afraid he wont want to be with me when he finds out my age

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - i have just started to talk to this boy on msn, and he sounds really nice but he's 16, and i'm 13. I'm worried that he won't want to be with me when he finds out. please help me i really like him...

Could fingering get me pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Hey guys, I'm a little bit worried so I hope you can help. Last night I gave my boyfriend a handjob and he finished himself off - with cum on his hands. Afterwards he went to the bathroom and washed his hands and stuff (but I'm not sure if he used ...

We both love each other but she doesn't want to go out with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - I'm 15 years old and I'm having a couple of problems. I have a best friend (a girl) and I've known her for 3 years but last year I started crushing on her, but this year I've been really obvious about how i feel. everyday i tell her i love her so ...

Is it normal for a girl to be REALLY tight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I was just wondering. Is it normal to be really really tight. People have tried to finger me but it just hurts way too much so we stop. The other night my boyfriend and I were talking about it and we thought maybe if we just went straight into ...

We broke up, now she's dating my best friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - I'm 17 years old me and my fiance were engaged for 6 months, we broke up a few weeks ago but I still love her with all my heart. She still talks to me sometimes she told me when we broke up she wouldn't date no one else that she would wait on me ...

Signs a guy likes a girl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Hey I was just wondering what are some signs that a guy likes a girl?...

What is my teacher playing at?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I need help. I just want to know what this means. Why does he do this? Who is he? He is my teacher, whom I have a little (by little I mean a lot)crush on. Why does he does this and what does it mean. One thing that you should know is ...

16 and still never been out on a date...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - I was just wondering... When is the age when you're a little old to not have had any kind of relationship with a girl? I'm 16 I'm good looking (I get that a lot not making it up) I'm a regular person with a regular life (I'm not wierd or crazy LOL) ...

My friend hates my ex, now I'm back with him... do I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Me and my ex were together for a while then I broke it off then we were just on off like most teenagers do. Well my best friend hates him, and he and I talked and took a few weeks and worked out all of our problems... i really love him... I'm scared ...

Why are my friends so mean to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Hello people of this earth! I need desprate help with my friends. I love my friends with all my heart, but sometimes I honest to God just want to die. Well, I'm not the most popular girl in school. I am actually considered nerd, geek, wierdo, freak, ...

My gran's death has triggered off fears of dying... please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5866 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Hello. My gran passed away about a fortnight ago, coming up 3 weeks and I'm finding it really hard. She was only 65, but she had smoked all her life and in the end it was that which killed her. She knew she was dying right up until the end and I ...

We're having a lot of arguments about the way she dresses.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - I love this girl we are dating for a year and a half now she is soooooo sweet adorable lovely caring beatiful hot everything a man would want in a girl but lately we have been fighting a looooooot about the way she dressses... now I know it's silly ...

Are our lives predestined?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - We all know that things happen whether they are good or bad.... but do you think that whatever happens to you in your life was supposed to happen to you? I mean is it to teach you a lesson or is it just that things happen? What if it was bad, am I ...

Could difficulty swallowing be due to oral herpes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - Could difficulty swallowing be due to oral herpes? What about a small white painful bump on the tip of the tongue that lasts more than a week or what about small bumps at the back of the throat and dehydration?This has been lasting a while now and ...

Do I tell him the truth or let him think I don't like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I'm 15 years old I have this thing called D.I.D which is basically a fancy term for multiple personalities. I lost the whole of yesterday to a black out and when i woke up this morning i had a voicemail from my boyfriend Cameron asking why I had ...

Love Crisis

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5866 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I have no confidence in myself. I cant really talk to men because i'm shy. I have a crush on a guy in my local youth group. I never had a boyfriend before and I feel this is my problem with not getting one I really need your help....