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female
age
30-35,
*ureliuslover
writes:There is this guy in the campus that looks like a gay but some says he's not, the proof is.. he admired a girl and tried to court her. The first time I saw him was I was amazed that there is a gay-lie guy that tries to court a girl. The girl said to him that she will answer this guy at his birthday. I had a crush on him because he is handsome, tall and athletic. He became my text mate. He asks me some questions about love because he got in-love to the "bridge" that connects him and the girl he first admired but even though he knows that I had a crush on him, he still continues to ask me about love.When we meet in the campus, he greets me. What should I do to make him be more than friends with me? I need your help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2008): Hi. It really hurts when you care for someone and you know that they aren't returning the feelings. I'm sure this isn't what you want to hear, but unfortunately you cannot make someone care for you..they either do, or they don't. Obviously he considers you as a friend, but nothing more if he is talking to you about someone else. You have options: Chose to remain friends and probably constantly hear about other girls, or distance yourself and become far less available, especially if the conversation starts turning to other girls. If I were you, I truly wouldn't want to hear someone I care about talking about other women, and I'd try to distance myself and find someone who could care about me as MORE than a friend. Listening/watching someone you care about with someone else is just a pain that you don't need.
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