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Archived questions from: 6 October, 2008 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I've had 7 failed relationships. What can I do to make my relationships work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - hi im 16 and i have had 7 failed relationships. all of them i have tried my best to make work but all have failed. im captain of my rugby team, im a county champion 4 triple jump. im also a volunteer youth worker. im not exactly ugly, im sensiti...

I have trouble being faithful in a relationship, how can I stop being this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - hi... I wondered if you could help me? I have trouble with being faithful in a relationship. Every time I'm in a relationship i always destroy it by cheating and lying I wondered if you can tell me the best way to stop this? ...

Do you think he just likes the chase???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - A guy I was seeing quite often broke things off with me for no other reason than he did not want a relationship. So for the past 3 months now all I've been is a drunken 3 in the morning phone call to which I always usually go round to his ...

We're not compromising on our personalities - neither one of us is going to change

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I'm "talking" to this guy. we're trying to get to know each other before we start an official relationship. One problem. There's basically no compromise. He loves to joke around at the most inappropriate times -- like when I'm mad or trying to tell ...

Is he just a nice person in general or is he interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - There is this guy I sit next to in class. He is really nice to me and we always talk. He seems interested in me, like always asks what i did the day before, what im going to do, etc. but i dont know if he likes me or if he is that way to everyone. ...

I would like to have a relationship with her but I don't know where to start...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5919 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I'm 15 and i'm a girl. I have never had a boyfriend before and it has never bothered me. I've had a few 'crushes' before but they have never meant much to me. I am now in my last year of high school, it was around last year i developed an att...

Please help!! Does he need more time or does he not like me?

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6 October 2008 (F) - We were friends with benefits for months but i couldnt handle just having a sexual relationship. I told him and he asked me to be his girlfriend. He even introduced me to his friends as his gf and we made plans that day. But then he broke them and ...

Single 18 year old girl, completely infatuated with 32 year old married man who feels the same...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I recently moved to a new town for college, and found a new job, etc. I broke up with my boyfriend of over a year because we were fighting a lot and he wouln't do anything with his life. Well, at my new job, I found that I felt attracted to an older ...

I'm 18, my family would be mad to know I am dating a man 22 years my senior! What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I have a hugh problem i have been seeing this guy who is 22 years older than i am. im only 18 but i love him so much. we have been together 5 months but keeping it a bit of secret from my family. they would go mad if they found out i dunno what to ...

I'm a very shy girl, need tips on first kissing!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - ok i have a boyfriend and he wants 2 kiss me and i want 2 kiss him but i dont know how 2 kiss someone on the lips so can someone plz help me!!!how long should the first kiss be(its only a lip kiss)? what do i do with my lips when they meet his? and ...

Jerk or nerd - which do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - ok here we go... well im 17 and leaving school soon. i have been going out with a guy in my school since i was in grade 9. but recently i have noticed my feelings for him arent that strong anymore. When we kiss i dont feel anything-at all. And...

Why did he show he liked me so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5920 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - Hey ive wrote up here before you may rememebr me. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-am-so-confused-whether-he-likes-me.html http://www.dearcupid.org/question/whats-going-on-why-is-he-acting-this.html Anyway basics of that were that i fell ...

My abusive ex says he has given up drugs and alcohol. Is it possible that he could change? Should I take him back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I recently broke up with an abusive boyfriend. We have two children together and were together for 3 years. He had a drinking problem, and a problem with drugs while we were together. He says that he has given both of it up and that they both were ...

My friends use and abuse me! How can I ask new friends to hang out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - Ive come to the realisation lately that I need to make new friends. I have one friend who I would say isa true and great friend...but she lives in my hometown which is across the otherside of the country! My 'friends' that i have made where I ...

How do I come out to my friends without losing them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - hey, I am 15 year old gay boy, and I really want to come 'out' to y close friends. But I am worried that if I do I might loose them. I just not sure what to do. Can anyone help. Like how should I do it. Please!!!! ...

I pushed himt o give me a second chance. Do you think it will work for us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - This guy named Matt broke up with me like 2 or 3 days ago. Because I kept on saying that he doesnt like me and he flirted with other girls lots. I showed him a picture of me sliting my wrist, which I thought didn't really helped -- i wasn't that ...

I cheated on my boyfriend with his best friend, now I keep thinking about this guy...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5920 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - hi. i've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for more than 2 years, and things are just fine, we're kind of really serious, u know, but last month i cheated on him with his best friend : we were all at a party, that my boyfriend had to leave ...

I have gunky discharge and a lump on my vulva, I'm worried, what could this be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - Help... I have like gunky discharge and a lump on the outside of my vagina, like a cyst (I think it's going gradually though). I keep getting thrush-like symptoms, but I'm worried it's something else like herpes :( xxx ...

Does it hurt if a man gets an erection and is not relieved by ejaculation?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - Hi. If a man gets an erection and it is not realieved by ejaculation. Does it hurt?...

Should I tell me teacher I love her before I move to a different campus?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I've got one hell of a problem. Im only year eight and I'm head over heals in love with my maths teacher. She's just so amazing. She's gorgeous, she's got a great sense of style, she's such a woman, so intelligent, but such a little girl. In s...

Something happened between me and a boy at college, I want to tell my boyfriend but I'm scared he'll finish with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - Me and my boyfriend have been together just over a year now. I love him so much and I have been thinking about my future with him a lot. However, last night some stuff happened between me and a guy at college. I'm really confused and I don't re...

How do I go about asking her out or getting to know her better, or letting her know I like her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5920 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - Well I'm a freshman in High school, and I'm kinda shy, when im talking to girls. I have never had a girlfriend before and that's what this question is mostly about. Well lately ive noticed a girl in my photo class. Shes cute, and kinda shy. The prob...

I have this habit of biting off tiny bits of skin on the inside of my mouth.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - This will sound crazy and weird, but it's been like 2 years. I have this habit of biting off tiny bits of skin on the inside of my mouth. It's nothing big, and it won't get infected, but I'm scared that the next time I kiss a guy he'll notice my ...

My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while, but without having sex, she says she doesn't want to be end up like her mother, who did not attend college, married her dad, and are struggling now, is this just an excuse, not to have sex, or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - Me and my girl have been dating for a while. I've given her oral but she's never for me. I don't expect her too though, I consider myself lucky that she even touches me. It's not that I'm bad looking it's just that she's so amazing. Anyway, the ...

How would I tell her that I want to start going further?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5921 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - Hi. Im a 15 year old boy and my girlfriend is 14(turning 15 in December). We've been dating for about 5 months now. We do i guess the regular dating activies like kissing and making out and stuff... but i kinda want to move a little bit further like ...

Would I still be considered a virgin...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - This guy that i kinda like was over at my house and we were thinking about having sex, but when he started it hurt really bad, and after about a minute or two of trying i just couldnt handle the pain anymore, so i made him stop. Am i still cons...

Do you think I have a chance with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - I'm 14 and so is my ex. we broke up about a year ago, we went through things because we hated each other for about 6-5 months. but since a few months ago we have been talking like twice a week. I always start the conversation [text, myspace] she neve...

I'm now doubting everything I thought I did know about sex. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - Hello, I'm 16. I'm a girl. I've been in a long term sexual relationship before with a boy equally as inexperienced as me, but I don't feel I've actually gained any sexual experience, as he was equally as clueless as me. I'm now with someone I r...

How would he afford these things on Military wages?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5921 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - Alright here it goes, my boyfriend of a year and a half wants 2 go into the army, he told me that when he gets back from basic training he wants 2 get engaged, and i started thinking abt it. you dont get paid all too much during basic training, but ...

I started giving her oral then realized I really had no idea what I was doing....please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5921 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for quite a while now. I've been touching her for well over a month and just a week ago she began touching me. I really have two problems here. For one, when she touches me it feels really good but I just can'...

Would these bad habits affect my baby if I'm pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I'm only 18 years old, and I've been having unprotective sex for almost 3 months trying to get pregnant with my b/f. I used to smoke constantly for a couple months, a few months ago, then quit, but I smoked a couple cigarettes every now and then...