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Lesbian affair?

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Question - (20 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 October 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

OK.. I am 17 and she's 17. We're best friends, and one day we were laying in my mom's bedroom and she said she has never had anyone feel her up (Squeeze her boob) So I squeezed her boob for her playing around and stuff and she was laughing and then she was like sitting up so I crawled in between her legs to see what she was going to do and I looked at her face (I wasn't going to make love to her) Then she had this wild expression on her face like she wanted me to do more, but I didn't.

I backed off and got off her and sat on the other side of the bed and we laughed about it, but now I want to... you know be with her intimately.. Should I be with her like that? Because she didn't seem to mind me touching her and she had to leave afterwards because her mom called her about an emergency and she was pissed she had to go. I want to touch her and be with her not like as in a relationship was but as a friend with benefit thing..I've been with girls and guys in the past but stayed abstinent oral sex wise (I am still a virgin)Should I initiate sex or leave it alone?

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A female reader, Confused_123 United Kingdom +, writes (20 October 2008):

Hmm...Well i know how you feel. not as much, but kinda. Me and my friend muck around and stuff but have agreed we will make out for the fun of it once we have both kissed a guy.

I'm no expert on whether it is a good idea for you to be with her intimately ( as like i said I've never even kissed anyone properly) but what i would really ask is "Will it be awkward afterwards?" as you're best friends so i would think you wouldn't want to ruin that. If you don't think it will be and want to still, I would say go for it.

Hope this helped

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