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writes:ahh omg just really confused i dont understand why i feel this way, i should'nt feel like this. Well supose i better get to the point.right well my ex and i broke up over 1 month ago now, and i have a new bf, but my ex still loves me and wants me bk, but im never going back to him, becos of wat he was like wen we were together, he tells me he still loves me and wants things to be bk the way they were, but i just say, "no", we are still really good mates and hopefully nothing will ever change that,. but hes always tellin me he still loves me and i feel like it wud be so much easier for both of us, if he were to just move on. becos everytime he tells me he still loves me i find myself thinking bout him again and i just want to be faithful to my new bf, becos i no was it is like to have a partner that is not faithful. But the problem is im confused, even tho i feel that i really just want him to move on for eveyones sake, when he flirts with another girl or shows interest in another girl i get a bit jealous and a bit like angry, and want to make him jealous, so i start to flirt really badly with my new bf, and i can see it annoys him and makes him jealous becos he really likes me, and then i realise wot im doing and stop it and feel really really bad. then i sumtimes flirt with him, but i dont really mean to, i really try not to flirt with him becos he might get the wrong idea and so i try not to flirt with him.i supose the question is; we have been apart over a month and i have a new bf... so why do i still feel jealous wen he flirts or looks interested in another lass ??
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (20 October 2008):
 how long were you and your ex together? if it was over a month then there is a chance your current boyfriend is a re-bound and you still have feelings for your ex, hence the jealousy.
also even long after we finish with a person and no longer want them seeing them with someone else still makes us jealous
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