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Archived questions from: September, 2017 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

After a week of dating he wants to have sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2598 days ago

30 September 2017 (F) - i met this guy a year ago and he wanted me to be his girlfriend but i refused ... we were not in a relationship then but now after that one year he came back and i again refused so after four months i started having feelings for him and i talked t...

I'm considering breaking up with my girlfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2598 days ago

30 September 2017 (M) - I want too break up with my girlfriend because i cant satisfy her sexually, ive asked her about it and she claims it could be better but she doesnt know what she wants when i ask her how, i want her to be happy both psychically and mentally. I know...

How do I control these erections I get so easily?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2597 days ago

29 September 2017 (M) - Hello everyone! I've got sort of an awkward issue, and I'm going to try to make this brief. I get erections incredibly easily and it's starting to annoy me. Especially around my girlfriend. I'm a very physical person, it's how I show affection, ...

I am tired of feeling unsatisfied and sexually frustrated!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2572 days ago

29 September 2017 (F) - My boyfriend of over 1 year now will not satisfy me sexually. I feel like my needs do not matter to him! When I say I still haven't cum yet. Hes like "well what do you want me to do?" Then I tell him to finger me or something. He usually falls ...

Why am I stuck with the girl that doesn't want to give but wants me to do all the work?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2602 days ago

27 September 2017 (M) - I been in relationship for 4 years. She was virgin before we met. I have high sex drive , she doesn’t. I tried to accommodate this by doing stuff in shower and not bothering her. Sometimes I ask her to go down, and she won’t put in effort, when she...

He is married and will not stop contacting me for sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2601 days ago

26 September 2017 (F) - I dated this guy that stringed me along for 7 months - through therapy and maturity I realized it was my fault for "wanting to prove him wrong" when he said "I'm afraid of commitment" - I don't want anything serious- him being a ghost for a month ...

Is it normal for sex to slow down in long term relationships?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2601 days ago

26 September 2017 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years we were friends with benefits prior to this for 2 years. In the beginning sex was great and frequent and lately has gone to maybe only once a week and has caused some problems in our relationship. ...

Is she hiding something or cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2602 days ago

26 September 2017 (M) - Before I get started let me just say that women have the right to enjoy sex as much as men. I'm not a sexist person and raised a Young lady on my own. I met my high school sweet heart after 30 years of no contact. We had sex later that evening. We ...

Our 'friends with benefits' situation seems to be going fine, but she showed one strange sign?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2586 days ago

26 September 2017 (M) - Me and my friend tried having sex twice. We talked about the possibility of it happening for ages and it seems to be working out. A lot of people are skeptical about a FWB type thing but it feels right for us. There has been no awkwardness between ...

I'm pregnant and my husband's sexual demands are taking a toll on our marriage

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2601 days ago

25 September 2017 (F) - Yesterday my husband came away from a childs party to use his fake vagina, which i never knew he had. I know this will seem like a pathetic reason to be upset but i just cant help feeling insecure and disgusted. Weve been together for over 11 years, ...

I know I could have an amazing life with mistress but don't want to hurt my wife and children

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2583 days ago

25 September 2017 (M) - Hi. I am really confused and need advice. Here goes with a bit of background and my position. I am an almost 49 year old man and have been married for almost 25 years.we have 3 Kids.one of which has now left home. My wife gave up work 17 years ag...

Where's the sex gone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2607 days ago

22 September 2017 (M) - My girlfriend and I have no sexual chemistry. None at all. Every time I bring up anything sexual it’s, ‘we don’t have the time’ or she acts like it’s vulgar and what I’m saying is disgusting - we went to New York recently on our first holiday ...

My wife's sexual past has become a sticking point for me

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2606 days ago

22 September 2017 (M) - OK this might be a bit long winded but here we go. So I have been happilyish married for nearly ten years now. I met my wife in 2003 while on my OE in London and we got together and started dating and then eventually the "how many people have you ...

I desperately want to reconcile with my ex husband. He had sex with me after he had broken up with his girlfriend but hasn't contacted me since

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2602 days ago

22 September 2017 (F) - This is a long story and I apologize but I really need some advice from some neutral parties here. I am wanting to reconcile with my ex-husband. We were married for 4 years. He was and still is the love of my life but he left me for another ...

I didn't bleed so is my hymen still intact after having sex lots of times?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

22 September 2017 (F) - hello, well my problem is i had sexual intercourse several times but i did not bleed in any of them, so i'm wondering is it possible that my hymen is still intact??...

I am unhappy at home, and flirting with my ex boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

21 September 2017 (F) - I am married for nearly 4 years and lived together for 5 years . Since having my son last year , everything has changed . We both very good with looking after our son but My partner seems to be on the phone so much , which has been locked fo...

I want more, he leads me on but in the end wants just sex. It's he just a player?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

21 September 2017 (F) - Hello! I have been friends with this guy since sophomore year of college and I graduated last year. He's 25 so yeah we are still young, but I feel like we have a good vibe going with one another. We used to hang out and talk about everything and ...

How can I last longer the first time?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2607 days ago

21 September 2017 (M) - I just got into a relationship, its been quite a few months in. We are about to hit 3rd base and this is my first time someone will give me a handjob or even a blowjob. I don't think I can last for more than 30 seconds. Any tips on how to last ...

He's rejected me but is open to having sex. I'm upset but tempted to, since I'll be bored and alone in his city.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

21 September 2017 (F) - I apologize in advance...this is a long one! I met a guy on Tinder back in March of this year. I was going to be in San Francisco for a few days and wanted to meet people while there so I changed my location to SF and started talking to him. ...

I'm Open-Minded but His Porn Habit & Denials are Alienating Me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

21 September 2017 (F) - my husband who is 10 years older than me is watching porn on a daily basis and playing virtual reality porn games,I know because he,s not very clever at deleting his history.He shows no interest in me even though I go out of my way to look nice and ...

Do gay men get asked about oral sex by straight men often?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2607 days ago

20 September 2017 (M) - Been with my new girlfriend for eight months,she gets off a couple times in a half hour, myself she wishes I would,but I don't get off that easy, the sex is real good, I've try to last a lot longer all my life , a quickly is a half hour or so, if I ...

Are we sexually incompatible? I need help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

19 September 2017 (F) - my fiancé and I have been together for a year and a half and we have been struggling sexually. when we first got together he told me he wanted to wait until marriage to have sex I was perfectly Fine with that as we both were practicing christianity ...

I'm worried I can't ask her to do the same thing again!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

19 September 2017 (M) - A few weeks ago I helped my girlfriend clean and put the dishes away. Afterwards she filled the sink with dishsoap and undressed me. She wanted me to sit on the counter over the edge of the sink. I was reluctant at first but I did it. She then used ...

Something is holding me back from having sex with my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

18 September 2017 (F) - I keep stopping myself from having sex with my boyfriend. I'm still a virgin and my boyfriend knows this. The last two times we have spent the night together, he has tried to initiate sex which I have no problem with. I feel i want to have sex...

She has bruises and I think she's cheating with the Baby Daddy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

18 September 2017 (M) - My lady gets mad couse I pointed out two bruises on her back she didn't have before last time we had sex was 5 days ago she takes of one morning to school with baby Dady for conference metting regarding son school I find her on find I phone she ...

I'm not as turned on by my IRL girlfriend as I was with the LDR!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2611 days ago

17 September 2017 (M) - I've recently started dating a girl from my work who is the sweet, caring, interesting, real girlfriend material. Before her I was casually seeing a girl I met online, it was nothing serious, just dating and a lot of sex really. Now here's my ...

My girlfriend wanted an open relationship but I can't cope with it.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

17 September 2017 (M) - I'm struggling with the pain and shock involved in starting an open relationship. I've been dating my girlfriend for about 6 months. Recently we agreed to open the relationship and allow each other to have sex with other people. She's the one wh...

The sex is just not working out. What are we doing wrong?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

15 September 2017 (F) - My boyfriend often complains that we don't have enough sex. But he doesn't initiate ot, or try to turn me on. The other day we were hugging in bed then he rolled over, saying that he had to because he was horny ... like, sex could've happened if he ...

Should we jump right in or take it slowly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2611 days ago

15 September 2017 (F) - Hi there. I've been talking to a wonderful guy for a month or two now, things are going really well. It started as just friendly conversation, banter via text message and talking about everything we have in common, but the conversations went on ...

I want my husband to share me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2528 days ago

14 September 2017 (F) - i want my husband to share me. i have had this desire for a long time. it started when my husband told me, during foreplay one night, he wanted to watch me have sex with another man. we talked about it and i said i would like to do it. but afte...

Husband has changed after marriage, is aggressive in bed and demands rough anal sex. How do I fix things?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2609 days ago

14 September 2017 (?) - Hi was looking for some advice. My husband has changed since we got married he, he became really fussy about everything I do and he's quite aggressive when it comes to being intimate. Nothing I ever do is right or good enough for him anymore. I ...

Is my friend's sister not interested? Or is she just forgetful and not very organised like her brother?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2583 days ago

13 September 2017 (M) - Hey all, I'm in a situation that I'm unsure how to judge. Basically randomly one night, I ended up sleeping with one of my very good friends sisters. We have never really spoke previous to that time and it was a bit of a whirlwind how it all ha...

Wifes past haunts me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2529 days ago

13 September 2017 (M) - I have been married almost 20 years now. When I met my wife she told me that she had been raped. A few months into our marriage she told me that she had been gangraped as well, I didn't question her too much about it and just left it. A few months ...

I don't want sex to become a duty!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2616 days ago

10 September 2017 (F) - I have polycystic ovary syndrome. If often means my hormones are all over the place. Sometimes I want sex and sometimes I really don't want sex. But my long term boyfriend naturally has a higher sex drive than me and seems to take it really ...

I told my boyfriend I'm a virgin but I'm not

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2617 days ago

9 September 2017 (F) - I had sex with my partner in April 2016 ...I had sex one time with him and till now I haven't had sex with anyone .. I have a boyfriend to whom I had said that I'm virgin and he is asking for sex so what should I do so to look like that I'm virgin??...

She says she will leave him for me, but wont say when!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2618 days ago

8 September 2017 (M) - I need some advice. I know that what I am about to say isn’t the best situation or the moral thing to get involved in, but it just happens. Now i fell in love and I don’t know what to do. There are so many parts to this story and I will try to keep ...

Getting over my GF not being a virgin.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2616 days ago

6 September 2017 (M) - Hello people. I'm a 21 year old guy, I've graduated college, have a cool job, and have been working in a great firm the past 2 years. I was raised in a small town, in a very catholic and conservative family. Nonetheless I'm an agnostic and I n...

I think my boyfriend is going a bit too far

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2622 days ago

4 September 2017 (F) - I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 15 too We been together for almost 6 month but sometimes when we just kissing and stuff he grabs my butt and stuff but in the beginning I would always take his hands away from my butt but know I kind of got use to it and s...

Husband can't get it up and I'm miserable!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2625 days ago

3 September 2017 (F) - Hubby and I are in a happy, loving relationship. We met and married a few years ago. I'm 48 and he's 51 and in the last year or so he's having trouble getting it up. It's partly mental (work stress, financial worries, which he takes very seriously ...

He wanted to end "whatever this is" and be just friends but he's acting like a jerk now

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2523 days ago

2 September 2017 (F) - Hi, i really need some advice About 2 years ago, I met this guy thru a my best friend. The 3 of us became best friends but he liked me and I never seen him like that. Until 8 months ago I saw him more of a friend. The first move was made by him,...

My wife doesn't want sex as often as I do

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2624 days ago

2 September 2017 (M) - What do i do? I am a married man in my late fifties, who has a very healthy normal sex drive...my wife, who i love, is healthy and the same age as me can go more a week without showing ANY inte...