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Archived questions from: August, 2017 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

If I was doing something really annoying or inappropriate, would she have made it more obvious?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2644 days ago

31 August 2017 (M) - I apologise if I have posted this one already as I tried a couple of forums to get a little advice as I'm a bit shy to ask my friends. So me and a female friend have started having sex. We talked about it long and hard before trying it for the firs...

After my awful experiences with men, I'd rather date someone who's got a low sex drive than one who's oversexed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2645 days ago

29 August 2017 (F) - I am a 28 year old female that has had mostly bad relationships up until this point. All the guys I've dated seem to have had major anger issues and/or were players and I assume this is in part due to male horomones. I enjoy having a partner and ...

He waits for me to leave and then mastubates!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2643 days ago

29 August 2017 (F) - Sometimes (often enough) my husband masturbates as soon as i leave the house. I dont care that he masturbates but this really annoys me. I know because he leaves evidence on my computer. I know most of the time its stress and he does it to calm ...

Is my wife sleeping elsewhere?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2643 days ago

29 August 2017 (M) - I am a married man who was in a monogamous relationship with my wife for seven years. I was a virgin before marriage. My wife was the first and only sexual partner. I went to a massage parlour in an inebriated condition while on a business trip to a ...

Married 11 years and my husband is now wanting details of my sexual life before him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2647 days ago

28 August 2017 (F) - Hello i'm a 37 yo woman and me and my husbant are together now for 11 years. Everything started when i met him 18 years ago and i fell in love with his misterious eyes. We became friends and eventually a few years later i got my nerves together and ...

Anal sex embarrassment!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2631 days ago

27 August 2017 (F) - I had anal sex last night and thought I was clean, when he went really deep I had a big accident and it literally went everywhere was so embarrassing my boyfriend was really good about it we had a shower and he has just shrugged it off but I am so ...

I want my LDR boyfriend to tell his parents about me before we go any further.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2648 days ago

27 August 2017 (F) - So I'm in this DLR with a guy I've known about 7 months. When he was last up, things got heated and we both pleased each other using our hands which was fine. I'm a virgin and he knows this. He also knows he's the first guy I've really done anyt...

It seems women lose interest in sex after a while ...

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 2644 days ago

27 August 2017 (M) - Why do women lose interest in sex after being in a relationship for a while? Maybe this Isn't the case with all women, but it seems to be like a continuously notorious pattern in my relationships. Women lose interest in sex but I still want it....

I don't think I can give my girlfriend the best sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2652 days ago

22 August 2017 (M) - So my girlfriend are I started dating two months ago but before that we were pretty close friends. We told eachother a decent amount about our sex lives. Now that we are together I feel like I won't be able to give her everything she wants. I want ...

I like her a lot, she's gone cold, what can I do that wont mess it up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2654 days ago

22 August 2017 (M) - Met this awesome girl online, we hit it off immediately, we had a ton in common, both artists, both geeks, and into the same games. I asked her out and we had a great time at an arcade. we did a ton of art collabs together, played games together and ...

A guy I have a crush on wants to do things I've never done

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2657 days ago

18 August 2017 (F) - Hi, Im 15 years old, and there is this guy who I like and he likes me back. He says that he wants to finger me and do stuff with me, and I want to as well but I am shit scared. There are so many things that Im worried about, and questions I want a...

Did he cross the line? I'm not sure.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2658 days ago

18 August 2017 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for a little over a month now, things are good. He has his kids every weekend so that kinda sucks but all and all he is nice.. I haven't met his kids yet but it's a bit soon for that. Anyway I told him that I haven't had ...

How do I talk to him aboug where we stand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2658 days ago

17 August 2017 (F) - I've been dating a lovely man for 23 months and no sex. He says he has libido problems but does nothing about it. We have good times when we are together and he phones me every night to discuss his work. I know that I'm more attracted to him, ...

Why can he have an orgasm now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2658 days ago

17 August 2017 (F) - been with my bf 21 yrs.he has never had orgasim from oral,we broke up 7 months ago now were trying to work on getting back together,when i give him oral now he does have orgasims why not before please help me understand....

Is my husband pretending?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2660 days ago

16 August 2017 (F) - Sorry in advance if too much information! My husband and myself were having sex last night, usually he closes his eyes during sex, which used to bother me but he said it was just concentration on the pleasurable sensations, so it doesnt bother me...

How do I curb his frantic sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2659 days ago

16 August 2017 (F) - I currently started dating this new guy and everything is going great only problem is that he is insatiable. We have only been on two dates and we have spent both nights together however the first night we just made out and I spent the night th...

He's a sweet person except when he's turned on!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2660 days ago

15 August 2017 (M) - Dear Cupid(s), I am very confused. At the beginning of the year I met a guy and things seemed to be going really well. Both of us were virgins, and when we finally had sex it felt like that became all our entire relationship was about. I started...

I'm annoyed about his contradictory comments about not wanting children but not using birth control with his exes!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2657 days ago

15 August 2017 (?) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for three months and in general we get on well. But one thing that keeps cropping up is his exes. The other evening the subject of children were brought up (he hasn't got any). He told me that he had not used ...

My best friend's new boyfriend is my former FWB

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2643 days ago

14 August 2017 (F) - Hi I had a FWB for 6 months the sex was amazing I just got out of a long term relationship and he just enjoyed being single I didn't feel anything for him other than friends and him with me I started texting someone who I genuinely liked and it s...

My question is does that mean I just want sex again and I'm mistakening that feeling for wanting a relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2662 days ago

14 August 2017 (F) - Hi I'm an 18 y/o girl and I've never had a boyfriend but I'm also not a virgin. I lost my virginity to my guy friend, which wasn't planned at all, but it happened and I guess I don't regret my first time. Better off with someone I trust and respect ...

Things were perfect then he began to change. Should I break up with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2663 days ago

11 August 2017 (F) - My relationship was perfect with my boyfriend.and then things began to change..he doesnt go down on me when we have sex and making excuses saying the odour coming from my vagina smells terible when we have sex and thats the reason he cant.and ...

Having sex all the time is really putting me off having sex

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2660 days ago

11 August 2017 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together about seven months now. Things are kosher for the most part with a few small arguments here and there. One of the few things about the relationship that bother me is his sex drive. When we started dating I ...

Each time I nearly had sex I pulled back .... now we have split up!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2664 days ago

11 August 2017 (F) - Hi, Me and my now ex boyfriend broke up and it was a very hard decision for us to make because we love each other very much...We met about four months ago at work and we've been together for a month and a half before our break up. Everythi...

Emotional after I climax- is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2508 days ago

11 August 2017 (F) - This is embarrassing but I have been abstinent for almost a year and a half because I have my guards up and I have been hurt and it's hard for me not to attach feelings when I sleep with someoene so I don't have sex unless I'm in a relationship- ...

Need to pee blocks my climax

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2666 days ago

10 August 2017 (F) - I am having a personal issue with my husband and I feel like I'm loosing my mind. Every time things get "frisky" I want to finish, I feel like I need to, but I always get an overwhelming urge to pee; even though i use the bathroom right before we ...

I blurted out I LOVE YOU to my married boyfriend. Why does he still want to be with me?

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 2645 days ago

8 August 2017 (F) - I told my married boyfriend of 3.5 years that I LOVE HIM yesterday. It just came out. I did not mean to say it but I did. He was asking me why do I stay with a guy like him? He called himself average, boring, not so attractive yet said I am ...

I can't handle my husband lying!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2668 days ago

7 August 2017 (F) - Recently my husband hasn't shown any interest in sex at all. He hasn't always been one of those men who want it all the time but sometimes it can be 2 weeks before he even shows the least bit of interest. I thought it was me, I have put weight on ...

Why would he want so badly to sleep with other women

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2663 days ago

6 August 2017 (F) - My boyfriend of 3years. Experienced "Swinging" with his former spouse. Now he wants me to experience the lifestyle..saying I'll love it... Its really not something I have ever even thought about. Really doesn't interest me... But I suppose my ...

I want sex every day

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2643 days ago

6 August 2017 (M) - Hey just need abit of advice. Me and my partner have sex at least once a week, but i want to have more so everyday after i do ask if shes up for it but all she says is shes too tired been working go play with yourself i used to work alot of hours 4 ...

Should I leave my job to go work with my Ex boss, who I'm sleeping with?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2667 days ago

5 August 2017 (F) - I need some work related advice!! Back in March, I was working for a car dealership that I loved! But my GM, We'll call him X, ended up quitting and went to work at another dealership.. It's important to mention that the night he quit, we had se...

My wife is a masseuse but I'm not sure of her "exchange network". Should I hack into her account?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2668 days ago

5 August 2017 (M) - After i had some business problems my wife decided to qualify as a masseuse and try and bring in an income. That was 4 years ago.After a year of working in a Spa she decided to work from home. She said a lot of her regulars had said they would co...

Are there any safe areas to have public sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2668 days ago

5 August 2017 (M) - I would like to find out if there any safe areas in public where I can have sex with a guy? The agreement with my mother was that I can only bring home a new boyfriend after I have met him away from home a couple of times. I am a gay guy aged 54...

My girlfriend wont give me a BJ!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 2666 days ago

4 August 2017 (M) - My girl and i are in long distance relationship since the starting and we love and trust each other deeply. We do occasionally meet and have wonderful sex . Currently we are even planning to get married and get our parents involved . Now m...

Can you hurt yourself using a dildo with no lube?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2673 days ago

3 August 2017 (F) - Can you hurt yourself by using a dildo without Lube and going way too hard at yourself? I believe I may have rip something in my vagina from using a rubber dildo without the lube, I was going pretty hard for a couple days like that, once a day until ...

How can I make my husband feel better about our sex life?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2658 days ago

2 August 2017 (F) - I am a woman of 50 years, I married 10 years ago. I was single for 40 years and naturally I had several sexual partners (26 men more precisely). The problem is that I have never had orgasms with my current husband. He is very dedicated in bed, not ...

My boyfriend doesn't want to talk about sex or have sex. Why?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2658 days ago

2 August 2017 (F) - My bf is 26, I'm 32. He is very sexual, likes porn, been caught cheating several times. We've broken up and just recently got back together. I've noticed that he seems very uncomfortable watching porn with me, talking about sex, and does not like to ...

Not sure if boyfriend is attracted to me sexually or that I am his physical type.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2674 days ago

1 August 2017 (F) - Been with boyfriend for over a year. We are both in our late 20's. We only have sex once or once every 2 weeks. There are a lot of times where i want it more than him. He gives me excuses he is tired, he is bloated from food etc. But then sa...

Implant removed, unprotected sex equals pregnancy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2674 days ago

1 August 2017 (F) - Hi I removed my implant on 15 June then had unprotected sex 3rd July. I had my first period on 16 July for about a week and now I feel like I'm getting my period again. My breast are so painful and I feel bloated. Is t possible I could be pregnant? ...

I have a fear that if we have sex it will be the end of our relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2674 days ago

1 August 2017 (F) - I have just started seeing this guy and things are going well. We have met a few times now and the dates have been going out for dinner, a walk along the beach and the last one was he made me dinner at his. Physically, things have happened but...