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writes:I had anal sex last night and thought I was clean, when he went really deep I had a big accident and it literally went everywhere was so embarrassing my boyfriend was really good about it we had a shower and he has just shrugged it off but I am so mortified I just wanted to know if anyone else has had that issue?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2017): Multiple enemas are required for anal sex. It's also important to not eat for at least 6 hours (preferably 8) before attempting anal.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (29 August 2017):
 I would imagine it is normal enough, as the others say no food for the day and try an enema, personally I don't like it so don't have this issue, but if it is something you enjoy and want to do again that is some ways to prepare. Sounds like you have nothing to be embarrassed about your boyfriend seemed cool enough about it, that's the thing in relationships its not like what we see in the tv, if you can both laugh it off then thats the best attitude to have.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (28 August 2017):
 Well, the ANUS is an exit. That is what is was intended for. So ... stuff is supposed to go out of there, not in.
Unlike your bladder, you don't have the same kind of control with your bowels. Waste moves from your stomach on its own accord.
I'd suggest you two use condoms when having anal and NEVER go from the backside to the front (anus to vagina). And have a towel under you, just in case.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2017): Soundslike he's done it before and knows it can happen, you don't need to worry!
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reader, Been there Now over it +, writes (28 August 2017):
If you want to avoid another such episode, don't eat that day (prior to sex) and use and enema just before sex. Allumeuse is right in that's what porn actresses do. If that's too much, try a pad between you and the sheets.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2017): This happened to me on my first time . We just laughed it off :)
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (28 August 2017):
 Its been known to happen. Just be sure to have anal sex after your visit to the bathroom with no meals in between, and for him to not go deep. Or, just dont have anal sex unless its something you really enjoy.
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reader, Allumeuse +, writes (28 August 2017):
It's anal sex. It's not like in porn where everyone is fasted for 24 hours and an has had an enema to boot-it can get messy. You're boyfriend sounds cool. You should keep him. It's not a real analogy for life but when something that's supposed to be sexy goes south and you both can keep a sense of humour-that's a Good Thing.Don't sweat it and good luck!
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