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Sex: Help and advice

My boyfriend and I are thinking of having a non monogamous relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

31 March 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I are thinking of having a non monogamous relationship. We have not yet figured the ins and outs of it yet but I'm not here to ask about that. I realise that most people here are not into the idea or sharing the marital bed so to ...

My husband masturbates to porn and turns me away when I try to initiate!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3528 days ago

30 March 2015 (F) - I need some advice and opinion here. To sum it up in a gist, my husband has been married to me for two years now, but recently I found out that he masturbates to porn. This has happened several times. When I confronted him about it, he got agita...

My fiance never wants to have sex. How can I improve this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

30 March 2015 (F) - My fiance never wants to have sex. I ask him all the time why and he tells me he is extremely self conscious of his penis. He won't let me touch his penis if I try to grab him. I know he loves me but I can't seem to fix this issue. I try to ...

The married man I'm seeing has now pulled back. What am I supposed to think?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3530 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - I met a man, he's married. We've been seeing each other but only slept together that first night... It's been 5 weeks of texting and short visits. We have very strong feelings for each other. He said he doesn't want to drag me into his mess, also ...

Do I need to show my boyfriend what I like sexually?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3530 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - I have been dating a guy for around a month now, met him three times. We slept together on the second time, it felt so natural and things seem to be progressing from there quite steadily. We get on extremely well, feel at ease with each other etc. ...

He was my first boyfriend. 11 months together. Then it ended badly. What help would help me deal with all the hurt I feel over this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3527 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - 2 months ago my boyfriend and I broke up. I am struggling so badly, and Ive almost gone to see a psychologist. He was my first boyfriend; he was 26 I was 24. We were together for 11 months. He persued me in the beginning and even though he was t...

How can I calm my sexual urges and lessen my need to think about sex constantly ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

29 March 2015 (F) - I'm a 21 year old female from a religious background and a virgin. I'm not supposed to date or have premarital sex. I'm not even supposed to masturbate but being a human I do anyways. But recently,that hasn't been helping me suppress my sexual ...

Ladies, your possible reaction if you surmised, during sex, that a guy was a virgin then would you stop having sex or what?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

28 March 2015 (M) - Hi Cupid, I wanna paint a pictute here for woman and hear what they think. Pleeeeeeeease be brutally honest, no euphemism. If you (a woman) were in your twenties and liked some guy, just like, not a romeo and juliette love story, you've know...

Should I leave him or I find some way to cope with the truth? I have a small behind and he likes a big behind. I can't change that.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3526 days ago

27 March 2015 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for 2 years now. In order to understand my question I think it is best if I explain our past in a nutshell. We met in middle school, lost contact, reunited over myspace and began having sex for about 3 months u...

My aspergers boyfriend wont have sex with me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3532 days ago

27 March 2015 (F) - Hi, I am seeking help as I am dating an aspergers male virgin. I have researched various articles and I am trying to understand it more. I have grown up around aspergers/autism as majority of males in my family have it, however dating is different. ...

I'v lost my sex drive!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3523 days ago

26 March 2015 (F) - I have experienced something i thought i never will. I am one of those people with a huge appetite for sex and for the last few months i have no desire for it AT ALL. This is how it all started.I had my first sex with the boyfriend i was 5 years in...

Do I break up with my boyfriend? He doesn't please me and I still have feelings for my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3534 days ago

26 March 2015 (F) - hi into 25 years of age and I have problem of still having feelings for the father of my child yet I'm in a relationship and it's been going on for 3 years now. my current boyfriend doesn't give me pleasure in bad he ejaculate quickly ,he gets tir...

Is it safe to go ahead dating him even though he said he is not ready for a relationship right now? He's going through a divorce

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3533 days ago

26 March 2015 (F) - I started seeing this guy who is in the process of getting a divorce about 2 months ago. His divorce will be finalized in about a month. He told me on our fourth date that he had been married for 7 years and for the last 2 years things had gone sour ...

I have insecurities about my weight and shape of my body. How do I overcome them so I can enjoy sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3534 days ago

26 March 2015 (F) - I am 22 years old and have been with my amazing boyfriend for a little over a year. I am embarrassed to say, but I'm a good 40-45 pounds overweight and I'm on the short side, 5'4. I got thick thighs, my stomach is not flat, my boobs have gotte...

I think my ex used a fake profile to get to talk to me again. I don't like what he did but I want to talk to him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3535 days ago

25 March 2015 (F) - Right here goes..... very long story short My ex boyfriend decided to contact me out of the blue after being broken up for 3 years saying he was sorry and he loved me and wanted me back. I told him I was already in a relationship with someone els...

Does it matter who my girlfriend friends texts and talks to as long as she comes home to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3533 days ago

25 March 2015 (F) - Im lesbian and in a 5 year relationship. We are moving in together in less than 5 months. We have never spent more than 7 consecutive days living together as we are long distance. We spend every night on the phone together from the time we get in ...

My old fantasies don't turn me on anymore

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3535 days ago

24 March 2015 (F) - Help, I can't fantasise anymore. My husband makes me climax evertime during sex using his tongue, hands and also through penetration alone. It's mindblowing and I couldn't ask for more. However, I used to be able to imagine all sort...

Is there anything we can buy from the health food store that will help maintain an errection?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3535 days ago

24 March 2015 (F) - What can you take from the health food store that can help a man part stay hard . Can you gave me some names to try that will fix the problem . Hope so. ...

How much should I tell my lovers about my home situation?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3535 days ago

24 March 2015 (F) - My Husband has lid to me repeatedly about porn. At the very beginning of our relationship I was clear that I was not interested in q relationship including pirn and he assurd me he shared my views . I find it demeaning , offensive , degradin...

What percentage of women think about another man or an ex partner while having sex with their husband

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3535 days ago

23 March 2015 (M) - What percentage of women think about another man or an ex partner why having sex with there husband...

He's 25 and he's interested in me and I'm 47. My son, 27, is not happy about it. Should I try to deal with my sons concerns first?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3535 days ago

23 March 2015 (F) - My boyfriend is 25 and im 47. my son is 27, I initially could not believe a guy younger than my son would be interested in me... but I have looked after my figure. We have a mind blowing relationship and both his and my parents have no problems... ...

What's the lowdown on the down there hair?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3534 days ago

23 March 2015 (F) - I guess my question is more for the men on DC, but of course I am also interested in women's comments. So : it seems the general consensus , at least among the younger generations, is that a woman SHOULD be hairless down there :the hairless...

Why do white guys always flirt with me and then I find out they have someone?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3535 days ago

23 March 2015 (F) - Im African American. Whenever a non-black guy flirts with me, its the same scenario over and over again that I've learned to play along with it just for fun. He'll be overly flirtacious with me, (one would blow kisses at me) I'd take the bait an...

The girl I have been chatting with slept with someone else

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3537 days ago

22 March 2015 (M) - I have been chatting with a girl for over a year. Lately she has been getting very sexual in her comments, even saying we should meet for sex. I am not necessarily the type to want to meet a woman for sex (only) so I laugh her comments off. ...

He cheated, we both fell pregnant, she got to keep her baby but I didn't!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3538 days ago

22 March 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years...last summer we basically split up because I found that he was cheating on me and on top of that the girl was pregnant with his child...I Also was pregnant with his child he told me he was happy for us and ...

I don't want to push him, but I do want him to relax

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3536 days ago

22 March 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have just begun to get sexually curious about each other. He is a virgin and I have only slept with someone once so I do not have a lot of experience. He has experimented on me but gets very nervous whenever I start kissing ...

A girl I like had sex with someone else while we were talking.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3535 days ago

20 March 2015 (M) - Hey, a little back story first: I recently began going to college. During the first few weeks I met this girl that I instantly clicked with. We began hanging out and making out and what not but never anything more because I am a virgin and want ...

He said he wants to have sex with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3539 days ago

20 March 2015 (F) - There is a guy who use to work at my job. I know he has a girlfriend for five years. He has a girl at the side too. I know what he is and always told him what he is doing is wrong. Now, working for him a year people would say that we make a good ...

I'm frustrated with how she deals with oral sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3539 days ago

20 March 2015 (M) - I'm currently having a problem with my fiance. She's 27 I'm 29. The problem is she never gives me oral to completion, she will start and stop making sure I don't climax in her mouth. She seems to want to have sex after she sucks it for a bit so I...

I need advice please from men who are more experienced re gay sex between men. Not certain re some issues

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3538 days ago

20 March 2015 (M) - Can I get some advice from any experienced gay men out there? I'm a 20 year old, gay, college man and I just recently started having sex. I've never been the person to want to "hook-up" or have meaningless sex but I've found it really hard t...

Did she really sleep with another man or is she just saying that? How do I find out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3519 days ago

19 March 2015 (M) - My gal and me had relation for almost 2 years, every thing was alright when she suddenly said that she want break up. she said that she is seeing a guy and had slept with him. after a month we were back together. Now whenever i ask about the guy she ...

He's young, not on medications and he's not a virgin. So why could he not maintain an erection after some caressing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3541 days ago

19 March 2015 (F) - So I met this great guy at work. he's the nicest man I've ever met. I do enjoy sex, but to me there's definitely way more. He's 25 and I'm 26. If this helps when we worked together it was through a temp agency. So we don't see each other daily...

I've fallen in love with my FWB man. Should I end it? I don't think he'll leave his g/f for me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3541 days ago

18 March 2015 (F) - I'm in a total quandary! I've been in a "friends with benefits" relationship for over two years with a guy who has a girlfriend, but whom he is mostly only with for financial "trapped" reasons. Debts and life's stresses mean it is nigh on impossible ...

There is no sex in our relationship and I can't figure out why!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3540 days ago

18 March 2015 (F) - ive asked for help on this site before and do appreciate any insight on my issue. im a 48 year old female living with a 30 year old male. the issue is sex... he wont touch me and says its not me. i cant help to think that it is. he has made many ...

When can a lady have sex so that she doesn't get pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3542 days ago

18 March 2015 (M) - Hello, three days ago, i had sex with mt Gf. after sex she feel pain in stomach and smell coming from urine and discharge flow from vagina and also condom was not used.after she also used unwanted 72(i pill),we both did sex before 3-4 times. due t...

He now lasts an hour and a half and I can't help him that long! Is this normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3542 days ago

17 March 2015 (F) - I wondering if this was normal or not. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months now. Before that he was single for 7 months. When we first started dating we fooled around every night for about a month and a half. At the beginning he woul...

How do these foursome things usually move along?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3542 days ago

17 March 2015 (F) - am talking with an old friend, who is married now and he and his wife want to have a 4 some together the 4th person is a good friend of my old friend, but neither his wife or i have met this other male. i trust my friend completely... just curious ...

He's inexperienced in the art of oral, any tips or tricks to help it be amazing for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3540 days ago

17 March 2015 (F) - Hi there, I am in a long distance relationship and so on the rare occasion we see each other, we want to make the sex as good as we can! I have only recently started to enjoy him going down on my but he is still inexperienced. Has anyone got some ...

I definitely want to have sex with him, but also wouldn't mind a serious relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3543 days ago

17 March 2015 (F) - I met this guy about 3 weeks ago at a party for a conference we were both attending... danced with him all night and we ended up making out. We spent the next day at the conference together, even at the closing party- and he invited me back to his ...

My boyfriend doesn't want to have sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3544 days ago

16 March 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years already. Everything started in a random way because we used to work together in the same hotel, he in the kitchen and me in the restaurant. He asked me 3 or 4 times to got for some drinks with him but ...

I miss the cuddling. How can I engage in any relationship in my situation? And are my friends right about arrive together and leave together?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3544 days ago

15 March 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, need an advice. I am a single mom with 2 teens, 15 and 17. My life is very busy with work and kids. I don't date as I really have absolutely no time for that or energy. I concentrate on my kids and my job. But still I am a sexua...

My wife is my sole sexual partner to date. would having sex with friends be a good or bad idea?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3543 days ago

15 March 2015 (M) - I'm writing for the first time on DearCupid and my name pretty much speaks for itself. Now I'm not the curious as in the same sex, but the curious type that wonders what it is like to be with another woman. Since I was 17 I have been with only t...

How can I overcome my sexual insecurities about the other guy she had sex with? we are back together after a break and I do love her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3479 days ago

15 March 2015 (M) - Hello ! I really need help with this question, because I'm really starting to feel as if I'm falling apart and can't calm myself. I have been with my fiancee for about 5 years, 9 months ago we broke up when I went to work in another town and we d...

Sex. How can I discuss this big issue with parents? Is it normal to be feeling this way after knowing each other for long time and talking for last 3 months?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3543 days ago

15 March 2015 (F) - Okay so, I've been talking to this guy now for over three months and we've both admitting we've got feelings. We've were together for about a year, 2 years ago but that's a bit irrelevant now as we were very young and tend not to talk about it...

It was pre-arranged. So why would my FWB come to my house to tell me "no" to having sex that evening?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3544 days ago

15 March 2015 (M) - Thanks for taking the time to read this question. Basically, my fwb came around the other day and after we had gotten into bed and started kissing and what not she told me we wouldn't be having sex that evening. Obviously I was kinda like wha...

He accuses me of cheating, yet I wonder if he's cheating. What can I do about this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3544 days ago

15 March 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating almost a year. We finally met each others parents. We don't hangout that much cause he works al the time the only day we WOULD have to ourselves is Sunday. But when he has free time he rather spend it with hi...

No sex with wife since our two year old was born.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3544 days ago

13 March 2015 (M) - Me and my wife had a little girl alomst 2 years ago but since then we have only had sex a handful of times i have tried romantic baths etc. Have spoke to her and dont really get a response as to why we dont have sex anymore just wondering what else ...

Guys: How can a man last so long after not having sex for 7 years?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3547 days ago

13 March 2015 (F) - Hi I have been dating my bf for 2 years and r engaged to be married. We were great friends before we started dating and shared all our secrets with each other. So we know each others past and stuff. He had told me that he had sex with his 1 st ex gf ...

My long distance boyfriend tells me what to do and doesn't want me talking to other men

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3542 days ago

13 March 2015 (F) - I met my LDR boyfriend online on a dating website, I live in a different country. He wants to meet me next year, now i am not comfortable to have sex before marriage. Now he has forcibly made me delete my account on the website right a month we met. ...

He complained about my lack of memory and detail and I broke up with him. Now he's drinking heavily. Should I reach out to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3548 days ago

13 March 2015 (F) - Hello so I dated this guy for about a year. everything was awesome between us for the first few months.his demeanor was always very alpha male. He liked to be in charge. He never liked to go out and party he liked staying in all the time sometimes ...