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He said he wants to have sex with me!

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Question - (20 March 2015) 5 Answers - (Newest, 21 March 2015)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

There is a guy who use to work at my job. I know he has a girlfriend for five years. He has a girl at the side too. I know what he is and always told him what he is doing is wrong. Now, working for him a year people would say that we make a good couple, we bantered a lot, and somewhere I started to fall for him but not tell him because I knew the end result. I hid my feelings then he left the job not knowing how I felt until when we reconnected. He started to call me. Then one day he asked something where I admitted my feelings for him. He started to say that I feeling no opening space for him. No gap. I want things at my own space. He had three friend friends for the whole year that he did not know. Why I act that way. Then he starts to say I have a pretty face I am attractive. Yes, I am skinny but a beautiful skinny. That he fantasizes about me. He asked me if I wanted to have sex with him and I said yes. Then I told him that he will hurt me. He said he wants to explore every inch of me and wanted me your himself the whole night. He planned a day for sex. He kept saying that I was beautiful. I told him to go to sleep. The next day, I text him send called him and ever since he hasn't responded.

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (21 March 2015):

olderthandirt agony auntDon't look back as you run away. you might turn into a pillar of salt.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2015):

That guy is a joke and he has no intentions of being with you. In fact he is such a looser that he can't find time to even have sex with you which is what the whole thing with him is about. You have to be crazy to get involved with that guy.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2015):

Thanks? I really thought that he had spared me because I would have felt ashamed of myself if we had sex. I wasn't the one iniating the phone sex, we were friends talking and I know it's wrong. I

I get exactly what you are saying. Thanks

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2015):

Want to be another notch on his belt?

No you don't!

Tell him to fvck off!

He is a PIG!!!! And he makes no secret of it!!! That is the worst kind!! He seems to be PROUD of it!!

He is good at what he does.

He has it down to an art.

Master player. Con Artist. Charmer.

You will be his latest victim.

The sad part is you KNOW he is no good and you will end up hurt and yet you are still considering sleeping with him!

That is suicide young lady!

You take your power back. You have the last laugh. Do not respond to him. He is baiting you to text him back. Guys play hard to get so that a woman will step it up. Trust me. Women usually find hard to get guys a challenge.

Well he isn't hard to get. He is an easy lay. Easy and cheap and you will get your money's worth when you are crying and alone and he is onto his next conquest.

TRUST ME ON THIS ONE.

Tell the cheating, lying wanna be Casanova to take a hike and then move onto a guy who is going to put you on a pedestal and not feed you these cheap, tacky and ridiculous lines about being beautiful. Every guy who wants to screw a woman is going to feed you this shit!!! Don't be an idiot and fall for it!!!!

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (21 March 2015):

Honeypie agony auntI think if you have ANYTHING to do with this guy, you are being stupid (sorry got to be blunt here)and YOU are the one who will end up hurt.

Can't you DO better then some OTHER woman's SLOPPY seconds?

To QUOTE you:

** I know what he is and always told him what he is doing is wrong.**

So you pretend to hold some moral high-ground but you still engage in raunchy phone calls and talk about sex? HOW does that make you ANY better then this lying cheating guy?

He is leaving you dangling so you will be EASY to wheel in and bed. This guy KNOWS your" number" your "type" and he knows JUST how to play you.

If that is your thing, good luck. I just don't GET why you are even considering walking down that path. Would you want YOUR BF to treat YOU like he is treating his GF? Would you WANT a guy who has SO little respect for women in your bed? your heart?

Sorry life isn't a dirty novel.

Get real and realize that you are selling yourself short.

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