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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have just begun to get sexually curious about each other. He is a virgin and I have only slept with someone once so I do not have a lot of experience. He has experimented on me but gets very nervous whenever I start kissing anywhere around his waistline or try undoing his jeans. He is has admitte he is worried he won't please me with what he has down there/he thinks a blow job would be disgusting and I have told him size does not matter to me and that I don't expect him to do anything extreme knowing this is his first. I do not want to pressure him into anything, is there a way I can calm his nerves about the subject and get him to relax? Again I do not want to push him into anything he doesn't want to do, I just want him to not be so nervous around me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2015): Thank you, we are sticking with simple stuff and taking it slow until he is more comfortable.He promises to tell me whenever he is comfortable or whenever he is not.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (22 March 2015):
 Talk boundaries with him, ASK him what he would be comfortable with. IF he is "scared" of not living up to whatever standard he THINKS he should live up to, maybe back off the sex stuff a while. Keep your hand 100% above the waist on him. He will let you know when he is ready.
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