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Archived questions from: April, 2015 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

We had a casual thing between us about 4 years ago. Why would she ignore me now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

30 April 2015 (M) - Ok, so me and this girl used to have a casual thing going about 4 years ago. We were both single then. Since then i've married someone else. We've stayed in touch and met up a few times. On a couple of occasions we have slept together which s...

What do I need to say to my boyfriend? Because I really had never had sexual relations before I had sex for the first time, recently, with him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - I had sex for the first time, but my boyfriend thinks now thar I was not virgin since I was loose and didn't have pain and he saw no blood .? but I really didn't have sex before please help ...

Should a shy geeky guy visit a prostitute to gain some experience before I Try to find GF

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3460 days ago

30 April 2015 (M) - I'm a 24 year old male virgin who has never kissed a girl nor have I ever been on a date. I'm not particularly good looking and I don't have six pack abs. Not to mention I'm a giant film/video game/comic book geek as well. I research this to...

What are your opinions and reasonings on when sex should occur?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - After a while of not having sex, I recently did, with a guy who I met a couple of hours earlier. It's not something I do often, it actually takes me a while to start liking a guy enough to want to hook up, but on my opinion if I find someone I like ...

How can I fix this where I can just make love with my husband and not have to do the toy thing every time

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3481 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - Don't know if I'm not what he wants any more or what??? OK I've been with my husband for going on 10 years we have a great sex life I would like to think. I'm very open minded an very understanding but I just got a question is he into something I...

He has the stamina. But why can't I achieve an orgasm with my Bf? Do I need to see a Doctor?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3485 days ago

29 April 2015 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years, we are very close and he knows me well. However, during sex I just don't seem to get an orgasm. He'll thrust and continue until he ejaculates and then bam, he's done. He can last for over an hour befo...

He's told others that I'm ''easy''. But was what I did wrong to him, by blocking him and ostracizing him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3486 days ago

28 April 2015 (F) - Where do I even start? It all began when I started dating this guy for almost a year and then he dumped me. He started dating his ex girlfriend and I knew right there what a complete jerk he was. But, when he and his "new ex girlfriend thing" b...

How can people get STD if both are 100% faithful? Can a STD be inherited from a mother? Not sure how STDs work after hearing things from fellow classmates.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3486 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - Hello dear all and thank you in advance for taking your time for reading this. I am currently 21 years old and in a 4.5 year, heterosexual relationship with my first and only sexual partner, whom is 20 years himself. As on both accounts: we we...

I'm having sexual feelings for him but I'm not yet ready to have sex. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3487 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I'm 24plus and my guy is 29plus. He has been my childhood friend but as of last year he asked me out. We both love each other and as of this having been having sexual dreams which both of are involved. Now have been having sexual feeling towards ...

!When I ask him why he doesn't give me any sex he answers that he just got lazy...Does that make any sense to anybody?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3487 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - Ive got a confusing situation that boggles my mind. But maybe there is someone out there with answers to help me understand things. Ive been with my guy for about a year now. I take our relationship VERY serious. Even when I have outside temptati...

Did I do the right thing by canceling this trip to see my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid I just reunited with a friend of mine from years ago.He wanted me to come and visit him in a another state I felt ok about it but this morning I heard a voice telling me this trip I won't be taking my first thought was to run like hell ...

Is the spark going from our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3488 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together over a year now, and it is definately the best relationship i've ever been in. We started off as friends and it grew into more. My boyfriend has always seemed a bit shy in bed - he has a condition called ...

I don't want this to happen in real life. But am I normal to have these secret fantasies about my wife?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3487 days ago

26 April 2015 (M) - I have a wife and am happily married but during my own time I'm constantly fantasizing about her having sex with other men, particularly big black men. It turns me on thinking that she is enjoying/ pleased more especially as they have a bigger p...

Is it too risky to spend time with this very sexually experienced guy considering that I want to remain celibate until I marry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Hi, About 3 months ago I met this guy and we started talking! he told me that when he was in high school and university so let's say a time frame from 18-24 he lived a pretty risqué lifestyle..and has been with a lot of women! he was in serious r...

It's been a week and I am just want to stop crying. What's my next move to get over this breakup and all the hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Hi, I have recently got out a 3+ year affair with a married man I work with. We met when we both started at this company. We were both new to this city and with his family still based in his hometown, started hanging out a lot. He was the init...

What can I say or do? My libido is irksome for my Bf. Recently his persistence has led to doing things that made me uncomfortable.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Ive been in a relationship for almost 4 years now and for the most part everything is great. However, when I started on birth control my sex drive decreased dramatically and when I switched from the pill to the implant it didn't get much better....

My question is should I have unprotected sex with this guy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

23 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend has restricted me on his facebook account so I can only see his public page he says he no longer is interested in facebook and does not use it very much -which is a lie because when I go onto facebook on my account I can click on his ...

Do open relationships work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

23 April 2015 (F) - Do open relationships work? I'm not asking because I want to have one or anything but a very good friend of mine says that it keeps her and her husband happy while he works away. He had an affair a few years back and she decided that to stay tog...

Is it right or wrong to find a sex partner for my mother?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3487 days ago

23 April 2015 (M) - ..my mom is 55 nw . My dad died 26 years back..I know that its been long that she had sex..i even know how it feels with out sex for humans ..so m planing to find someone for her sex life...is it right r wrong..?...

No sex for the past 4 months, should I wait or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

23 April 2015 (M) - iv'e been going out with my girl friend for just over 4 years now.but the past few months she will not have sex any more just come's up with the answer i'm tired when asked why to say we had regular sex.she always come's to my house an when she ...

Will guys still want to date me, if I tell them I'll only go as far as oral sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3457 days ago

23 April 2015 (F) - No, I'm not doing it for the sake of virginity, but to avoid pregnancy!!! I've heard so many horror stories from people, panicking for weeks because they were terrified that they or their partner was pregnant...I don't want to ever be in that kind ...

Eighteen months ago he loved the phone sex. Now he's too tired. Is the honeymoon phase over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

23 April 2015 (F) - Hi guys just wanted your help in a situation. My guy and I started dating one and a half years back n we are getting married in December. When we started dating, my guy and I used to have phone sex a lot and it was a thing he started. Later on...

No chemistry ...should I leave the perfect man after 5 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

23 April 2015 (F) - I've been with my loving caring partner for 5 years...it has been almost perfect so I thought until last year. He dotes on me and puts me first and I was the same to him. It started last year and has continued...we hardly have sex and when we do I ...

Could my lack of sexual interest in him be a problem for our relationship further down the line if I got back with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3492 days ago

22 April 2015 (F) - Okay so my ex boyfriend and I broke up a little over a year ago. It was a mutual decision as we'd been together 5 years and were not getting along too well. At first, we cut all contact but we live in the same town so it was obvious we would...

What does a nurse feel when she sees a penis - how should boyfriend react

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

22 April 2015 (M) - My girlfriend is a nurse practioner student and I’m struggling to get used to a few things. When she exam on the teaching patient and told me about how she palpated the penis it was a bit awkward. Just recently, during her clinicals (sort of ...

I'm missing him a lot but I don't find him sexually attractive

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

20 April 2015 (F) - I met this guy and we dated for about 4 months. In the end, he said it's not going to work so we decided to remain friends and we talk regularly still. I am missing him so much, I just want him to be talking to me like he used to and do everythi...

My ex didn't try to keep our relationship alive, but now that I've moved on he is trying to sabotage me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3494 days ago

19 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of over a year stopped having sex with me the last four months of our relationship. Everything was perfect except for the part we weren't having sex. We still kissed still went on dates and we're still very affectionate towards each ...

I want my sex life back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

19 April 2015 (F) - Hi everyone. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years. We've always had a good sex life and if I'm honest I've never been able to keep up with my boyfriends sex drive. It used to really irritate me that I couldn't take a shower, g...

Is it to soon to ask for a STD test before I rekindle with my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3496 days ago

19 April 2015 (F) - Hi I'm single I just got a call from an ex and he told me that he has been in love with me for years. Our chemistry is awesome he wants me to come to another state to visit him. I call him an ex because we were friends at one time but sex was neve...

Can someone explain it to me? Why would a girl subject herself to being used and discarded?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

19 April 2015 (F) - I have a friend who has the most uncanny ability to be a jerk to specifically women he just hooks up with and still have them at his beck and call. I've seen it with my own two eyes. It's the weirdest dynamic I've ever seen. Most recently, he had a...

I cheated twice then lied, how do I get her back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3496 days ago

18 April 2015 (M) - So me and my girlfriend have been together almost 2 years and were best friends for a year before we started dating. I fucked up about 8 months into our relationship and had sex with a girl after a party and was drunk and convinced myself it didn't ...

How do I talk to him about what we have happening here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

18 April 2015 (F) - A few months ago I ended up sleeping with my friend after we both got drunk at a party. Since then we've been hooking up semi regularly, I sometimes stay over at his house and we always have sex and fall asleep cuddling. However I've had feelings ...

My husband is as cold as ice between the sheets, but I love him and want us to be happy. Was I naive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

17 April 2015 (F) - Hello all, I'll get right to it. I am married and my husband is cold as ice between the sheets. I've tried some different things to spice it up, but to no avail. He says he's just not the romantic type, but we barely have sex anymore. It's ju...

I love my wife. I miss sex. I'm flirting online with an old friend. Help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3496 days ago

17 April 2015 (M) - I'm married, I love my wife we have a beautiful little girl together that will be turning 4 in a few months. I have never asked questions on a forum before but I like to give as much information as possible so you get the picture. I wo...

How long to wait when you're just on holiday?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

17 April 2015 (F) - In a relationship designed to be short (say a 4 month holiday fling), how long are you supposed to wait to have sex? So that: a) The relationship, despite being brief, is still 'meaningful' and not just a cheapened sexual arrangement. ...

Don't want to lose my BF. What can I do? I'm a book worm and he likes sex a lot

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3498 days ago

16 April 2015 (F) - My bf is too much interested in sex but i am so bookworm kind person.. I can not participate in this passionate..please suggest what can i do to please my bf.. i really love him. I do not want to lose him just because of this..please hel...

Lovey dovey stage over already?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3496 days ago

15 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and me are very loving but yet lately I've been feeling like all we ever do is the same stuff over and over again. We always end up sitting in the car quietly. He doesn't seem to want to be romantic with me anymore and its only been 6 ...

How can I turn this situation around? I think my own actions caused the problem

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

14 April 2015 (F) - Ok so I've always had trouble making friends, I guess I don't really have much is common with other girls and im more of a guys girl. I only have one female friend, I've known her my whole life, we live down the same road, our mums are best friends ...

There's no romance or affection in our relationship anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

14 April 2015 (F) - So basically, When me and my partner first started dating, oh my god, I was head over heels. I couldn't get enough of him and would happily initiate sex whenever I could. At the beginning though he always used to turn it down and i thought it was j...

How can I set some boundaries for my boyfriend without him getting angry?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

14 April 2015 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and I wondering where is our relationship is at right now. We have been fighting for awhile and we sometimes said thing to each other that we either mean or don't mean.today he ask me if he want ...

The honeymoon phase is over and our sex life is suffering. How can I make sex fun again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3500 days ago

13 April 2015 (F) - My husband and I have recently been having some issues with our sex lives. Basically what it boils down to is that I am not very sexually driven, and I have lost a lot of my original desire for him (out of the honeymoon phase if you will) and he can ...

Can masturbating with a shower jet cause lasting damage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

13 April 2015 (F) - A question for the ladies, is it possible to cause any permanent damage/desensitizing to 'the clit' by masturbating with a shower head? I read online recently about how masturbating with a shower jet might damage the nerves. Did concern me as...

My boyfriend is my first everything, but he's already experienced it all with someone else and his past makes me sad and jealous

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3501 days ago

13 April 2015 (F) - I'm a 22 year old woman, currently in a two and a half year relationship with a lovely guy, and actually my first boyfriend. I've been jealous about his past and bitter over my own lack of love life. I feel like I've never completely been ...

I didn't like my boyfriend's behavior in front of friends. How do I talk to him about it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

12 April 2015 (F) - One night, we had some friends over for drinks and we decided to play truth or dare. My boyfriend was asked what is the best sex he has ever had, and he said a threesome he had with his ex girlfriend and her friend. I had no idea this had even ...

Having sex is painful for both of us, but I still have needs and I'm hurt when my boyfriend rejects me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

12 April 2015 (F) - [Mod note: Two questions from the same poster have been combined.] I am in a 7 month relationship, I have 2 children from a previous relationship, one of which was 9 pound! I always worried I wouldn't be tight enough in my vaginal area after ha...

Do girls enjoy having their bodies rubbed with other men in crowded bus?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

12 April 2015 (M) - Before I continue, I want you to know that I am around 19 and an attractive male. People and friends adore me every now and then, I don't have girlfriend though and don't even have female friends. The reason for all that is I am shy and not much ...

Is there nothing wrong with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

11 April 2015 (F) - Is there nothing wrong with this guy? After many men, have to admit, majority of them were not very pleasant experiences with lying, cheating, disrespect, trying to use me solely for sex, ignoring my feelings and putting me through hell, I ...

He wants casual but I want a relationship, should I give him what he wants?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

11 April 2015 (F) - I feel like im loosing my mind. I met a mysterious guy and we got on so well, he told me he felt comfortable around me, making me feel relieved and srawn even cloaer to him, but recently he told me he only wanted a casual relationship.I'm 18 and ...

I want to know if and how having 2 children has affected my body

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3504 days ago

10 April 2015 (F) - I am a 21 year old with a 3 year old and an 8 month old. They both have their birthdays in August. I know my body pretty well but there are a few places that are in the dark. Literally. I long to know what my vagina feels like especially after my...

I"m on the pill but yet boyfriend is paranoid I'll get pregnant. How do I get him to relax?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

10 April 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half, and the first couple times we were intimate, I was not on birth control, and he refused to wear a condom. He told me to trust him, reassured me that I would not get pregnant, and promised ...