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writes: No, I'm not doing it for the sake of virginity, but to avoid pregnancy!!! I've heard so many horror stories from people, panicking for weeks because they were terrified that they or their partner was pregnant...I don't want to ever be in that kind of situation...But, I'll be going to college soon (community, not Uni yet), and so would even college boys still date me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2015): I think Tisha's idea to talk to your gynecologist is a good one. I believe that if you were to combine and IUD and condoms, your chances of getting pregnant are miniscule.
To really answer your question, I think it depends on the guy. Some would, some wouldn't.
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reader, deirdre +, writes (24 April 2015):
think about only having sex when in a relationship and then, using the contraceptive pill and condoms. Used correctly both will protect you properly
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reader, Garbo +, writes (24 April 2015):
You can have dates without needing to have sex. Women should not have to put out just so a guy can go out with them and show romance. That would be, in my opinion, to cheap as they say, and could leave you with no committed guy. So reserve sex for someone steady, committed and nice with future prospects.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (23 April 2015):
Fatherly Advice has a good point. There are other things you can get from oral sex, HPV (which is causing a rising epidemic in oral cancer), Hepatitis, Herpes, even HIV.
I would have a heart to heart with your gynecologist and ask for her recommendations.
You have a boundary and you just need to set it. I'm sure there will be guys who want to date you.
But you do need to do some more research and get advice from your doctor to be sure you are avoiding other things besides pregnancy.
Good luck!
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (23 April 2015):
Good oral sex is harder to get than you think. Remember there are other reasons to practice safe oral sex.
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