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writes:Hi guys just wanted your help in a situation. My guy and I started dating one and a half years back n we are getting married in December. When we started dating, my guy and I used to have phone sex a lot and it was a thing he started. Later on we started making out and had sex too (rarely) but the phone sex continuedAfter few months he just stopped it and when I asked him, he started giving excuses like he's tired or having a hard day which I couldn’t understand as he kept giving same excuses for almost 6-7 months now. I feel surprised because the guy who always wanted to talk about sex is ignoring the topic. I asked if he's still attracted to me and he says yes but I’m unsure. What do you guys think? Is the honeymoon phase over? I feel neglected
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (24 April 2015):
 He's got the real thing now. It's like a couple of kids dry humping clothes on, and now they're having actual sex, so they've "gone beyond" so to speak.
That's probably where he's at. Phone sex is an anticipatory thing, and now he's got it. A lot of people do that in the beginning of a relationship, and then it fades away after they truly get sexually active.
It sounds like there are other things you're worried about, and that the phone sex thing is just one of many symptoms that are worrying you. Am I right?
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (23 April 2015):
If you are not married yet and the honeymoon is over...Still want to get married?
You have been doing the same phone sex for over a year... "THE SAME THING"...Guess what that could be?
You said you feel neglected...what have you done to have him show more interest in you?? Do not leave it up to your partner alone...You have to do the work as well. As a woman, use your womanly skills. Men are suckers for women. :)
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