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writes:My bf is too much interested in sex but i am so bookworm kind person.. I can not participate in this passionate..please suggest what can i do to please my bf..i really love him. I do not want to lose him just because of this..please help? Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (16 April 2015):
 So you love him but aren't ready to be sexual with him? Maybe your timing and his just isn't right and you should wait until you are ready to be sexual.
It's okay to be interested in sex and it's okay to not be interested in sex.
What this tells us is that you two aren't compatible in this way.
Unless you are willing to become more sexually active with him or he is willing to accept that you aren't as interested, then you two will be stuck in this problem.
I think the basic problem is that while you both care for each other, you two aren't compatible at this time. It's sad, but this happens. I would look for another boyfriend who is also a bookworm kind person similar to yourself.
Best wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2015): You can't be his sex-toy either. If you lose your boyfriend because of sex, it's not you he cares about. It's sex.
If you've got your face buried in books all the time, maybe you're more focused on your studies. Perhaps you should be.
If you deny your boyfriend "attention and affection;" he would have a good reason to be upset. If he thinks you're there just for sex on demand, you'll lose him anyway. He'll only be there as long as you're offering him sex whenever he wants it.
You have a lot to learn. Try reading something about what is to be expected from a good boyfriend; or how not to be used and exploited for sex?
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