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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:In a relationship designed to be short (say a 4 month holiday fling), how long are you supposed to wait to have sex? So that:a) The relationship, despite being brief, is still 'meaningful' and not just a cheapened sexual arrangement.b) You avoid coming off as a...well, 'prmiscious' girl.Then, lastly, please specify waiting and sex. Are we meaning waiting to kiss, make out, manual sex, oral sex, PIV sex etc.?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2015): Have a think about what you would get out of a fling and what you would get out of a long-term relationship. Once you have sex with someone there is a bond, and you can get hurt. Is it worth it?
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2015): HiDo you imagine there's some sort of manual out there, with times and plans with different amount of times to wait for different sexual acts? The answer can only come from YOU. YOU have to decide how you feel about it and maybe discuss it with your short term partner. Try to let go of the idea of 'should' and 'supposed to' because these things are up to you and your partner. Go with what YOU feel is right. Let things take their natural course. Be true to how YOU feel.You are going to need to rely on yourself and your feelings and instincts your whole life. Start now and trust your gut feelings about situations you find yourself in and other people. There is no better way to judge things.Good luck and remember, if something doesn't feel right, then it isn't.
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