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Archived questions from: June, 2010 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

How can I tell for sure if I'm having an orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

30 June 2010 (?) - Hi there! I realy need some peoples advice. Me and my boyfriend have dated for about a year and a half ( also the age on this is wrong I'm actualy 17) and when we have sex I don't know if I have an orgasm or not. I don't even know what it's supposed...

Embarrassing dilemma about undressing in front of him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - ok im 49 a young 49 and have a 40 yr old boyfriend.........my problem is im too embarrassed to undress in front of him!...........im on the tubby side and after 4 kids got a belly....(which i hate!) i was married to a drunk who yr after yr after yr ...

Is this normal to feel upset after sex or a hook up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - I had sex for the first time this week with a guy who is three years older then me. I really liked it and he was so sweet about it but we aren't dating and there are storys of him being a player but I let him do it anyways. It's been two days since ...

My wonderful wife won't indulge mild foot fetish. Any ideas why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

30 June 2010 (M) - I have a bit of a foot fetish. It's not excessive, I just like to see my wife barefoot, and enjoy it when she occasionally rubs her feet on my penis. My wife knows all of this, and isn't opposed to any of it, but she never indulges me. I've told ...

Should I try to convince my close friends (girls) to masturbate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

30 June 2010 (M) - Hi, Im 16, and I wanted to ask if I should try to convince close friends (girls) to masturbate or should them discover that alone. Im talking about girls my age... PS: I know it is healthy to do it....

How can you tell if a guy enjoys sex with you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - There's a question here somewhere about sex that I also want an answer. From a girl's perspective..how does one know if her partner enjoys sex. Can you see it physically? By body language? This is a question I don't have answers to. Can anyon...

I made a big mistake by having sex, my fling started to ignore me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - had a fling with a guy for 2months who recently chatting up a girl in front of me on the street 2 weeks ago, and has the cheek to call me asking if he can see me cos he wants sex. so i told to f off then he said don't talk be talking to me that, ...

Do you tell partners your real number of past lovers if they ask?

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

30 June 2010 (M) - Another poll for you ladies: Do you tell partners your real number of past lovers if they ask? If not, how far off are you? A) Yes, I tell them my real number if they ask B) I tell them my number of "real" boyfriends or relationships, bu...

The sex in our relationship is too good to lose......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - hi, my boyfriend and i have the best sex i have ever had in my life. always passionate and honestly he is pretty kinky, bit of a freak. but.... i think we've broken up tonight.!! we fight so much now we barely have any sex, but is more intense ...

I'm worried I'm not pleasing my boyfriend enough in bed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - i dont know why but im worried im not pleasing my boyfriend enough in bed. he seems happy with me, he gets an erection just by me kissing him and he never loses his erection, is that a good sign ? and he usually always climaxes when we have sex...

My husband chooses porn over sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - i am 24 years old and i've been with my husband for nearly 3 years. when we met i knew he liked porn, but it wasnt a problem for me at that time because we were having sex. but soon i became pregnant and the sex stopped. Even long after having my ...

Have I messed up with the girl I like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

30 June 2010 (M) - Hi Folks, I have known this girl for approx 4 years and we have been great close friends. A few weeks ago our friendship changed and with a planned visit out of town we had a very special day and ended up having sex. Shes got me bad u...

I want this relationship to work but his age is creating a problem for us in the bedroom

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5260 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is 41, I'm 24. We've been together 2 years. I go to Uni so we see each other for a month or so at a time, then we are apart for a month or 2. I love him very much. When I met him i thought he is my perfect man in so many ways and i co...

How can I act wild in bed to satisfy my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - i' m in a relationship past 3yrs , we get physical several times . but he is not happy with me , because i dont satisfy him , i dont know how to react wild in bed . please suggest me...

I'm scared of sex and getting married soon!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - Okay so I am 18 and I'm getting married soon. The problem is that I'm a virgin and I am scared to have sex. I have always thought of sex to be disgusting and I even tried to get over it by watching anime porn but I couldn't bring myself to do so. ...

All I can think about is sex and I'm going desperate! Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

30 June 2010 (M) - hey all,, this is a 19 year old guy, a virgin guy, yes I never had sex, because the gals in my town are not so open, well it's not too easy to get a girlfriend here. but since last few months, i'm just getting out of control. whenever i see a...

How long does it take for genital warts to show up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - If you have beed exposed to genital warts which i have (i knew he had them and it doesnt bother me because i love him but i still have to face the fact that i could have them) how long does it take to show up if you do have it and if you dont have ...

Husband doesn't last long during sex and its my fault

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - Hello everyone, Once before I have come to you for advice or answers. Yet again I need more. Forgive me, and thank you. Firstly my husband and I have had many problems in our sex life. He does not last long and I feel as if it is my fault. In th...

Why no sex for the last 3 weeks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

30 June 2010 (M) - I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years off and on. The last year has been perfect. Just the last three weeks have been no sex. He got a new job with good pay and a new car. He just seems not so interested in sex with me right now. Is this ...

How do I perform oral sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

30 June 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have started experimenting with each other, we recently tried oral sex, me on her and her on me. I'm a bit concerned because I feel I'm very messy when I do it, like, all over the place. I know where everything is but I'm not ...

My husband wants to go down on a man.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - My husband wants to go down on a man. He has never done this before, but admits he has fantasized about it and just wants to try it to see what the hype is about. He doesn't want to try anal with a man or anything like that. Also, he wants to watch ...

Wedding night tips for a frightened virgin needed, please!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

29 June 2010 (?) - Hi everyone! I have a bit of a problem that's kind of pathetic but is really troubling me. I'm getting married to my fiancé, who I've been with for 4 years, and we both are virgins. I'm terrified of having sex for the first time with him, because ...

Very confident, but one area, not so much

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 June 2010 (M) - Well im a virgin and im 17, i grew up in an enviroment where sex was around me everywhere i went and i came to know alot of things about it. Growing up all i could gather from females conversations about sex was they were only interested in one ...

Falling for a friend who is pushing me to be friends-with-benefits

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - I'm in love with some one. They are someone who has been a very good friend for a while. I know that he doesn't feel the same way. But the problem is I need to adjust our friendship without ruining it by letting him know how strongly I feel. I ...

Suggestions needed on how to stimulate my guy??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - My boyfriend wants me to try new things involving foreplay. He doesn't want to have to tell me what to do because he gets the feeling like he is training me and that is just wrong. I'm fairly inexperienced and I don't know much about what stimulates ...

Missed my last nuristerate injection. could I be pregnant??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - I am on the nuristerate injection. I missed my last injection and had unprotected sex with my fiance. Thing is, I havent gotten my period yet, am I even ovulating? I have no pregnancy symptoms. What are the chances of being pregnant? ?Negative hpt ...

Need advice on masturbation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - I am 14 years of age and would like to start masturbating, but I can help but feel that touching myself is wrong and I am scared that my mum or dad or sisters might walk in on me. I have tried it once and it was good so I want to keep doing it but ...

My new husband is not interested in sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - We got married after few months of dating and now it's been 5 months since we got married. We used to have sex but I was the one to provoke it. Even in the first month of our marriage he liked to have it just once in 1-2 weeks. I always thought ...

I'm not sure how much longer I can do everything leading up to but not including sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

29 June 2010 (M) - I am 19 and I have been with my girlfriend for about a year, we have known each other for 4. Both of us have expressed to each other that we plan on this being a long term, monogamous, committed relationship. She and I are kind of sexually active. ...

Why won't he date me when we are having sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - Hello, I had been having one night stands with a guy from work for about 5 years . It was so painful because he would always say he didn't love me and then we would have a row and and I would try so hard to forget about him that I ended up seeing ...

Why does my husband want to gangbang me with another guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2785 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - so, i have been with my husband for a little over a yr and we've been married for 4 months of that year. i know...we moved way too fast...but i am also 8 months pregnant... anyways, i've always known my husband has always wanted to try the whole sw...

Where did our sex life go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 June 2010 (M) - Hi I need help!! I have been with my gf for about 4 and a half years. For the first 3 years we had a great sex life. We were ripping each others clothes off and experimenting with things ive never experienced in a relationship before. 18 mo...

We want to have a three-some but we both have conditions

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - My husband and I were talking about having a 3 some. The problem is, I'm not comfortable with him being inside another woman, and he is not comfortable having a guy involved in any way.. I thought about just having a 4 some to make it even but then ...

We are having sex more frequently in our FWB. Does that mean we are getting more serious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - Hello everyone, im a bit confused really at the moment, ive been sleeping with this guy since early march as in fb sort of thing, sometimes i see him sometimes i dont, but do txt eachother everyday Anyway recently ive kinda been seeing him a bit...

I am pregnant again.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - i have posted for help before about my twins i had at 14 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/struggling-to-cope-.html well me and my boyfriend have since got back together three weeks after i posted that question. I have the implant in, so i...

My best friend set me up and I am scared he will blackmail me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - my bestfriend told me that his cousin is all over him and demanding him to sleep with her, one night he said that she's at their house and he cant resist her anymore and he's so turned on, he said he needs help. i suggested him to mast. maybe he'd ...

Did he leave because I was disrespectful?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - This is a long one, but please bare with me. About two months ago, I 'gave myself away' to a strange guy I barely knew (for LESS than ONE day. Can you believe that ? :-/). I met him at the park around the corner from my house. My friend and I had we...

Poll: Best sex - was it with an ex or current partner?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

29 June 2010 (M) - So ladies...taking a poll here cuz I'm curious. When it comes to the best sex you've had, was it with your current (final) partner or with a previous partner? By "best", I mean the most sexually satisfying or intense (most mind blowing, most ...

I feel guilty and terrible because I gave oral to a guy while drunk. Any advice?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5264 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - basically I'm feeling incredibly guilty because I gave head to a guy last night. Im quite young so that was my first time... He was one of my best friends but he also went out with my best friend for a little bit a couple of months back. I feel so ...

Torn between three men but I only want one, but which one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - hie here I have a problem caught in three guys.Something I brought on meself.I left my boyfriend in my home country nw its been two years without seeing each other.there was a break of communication for a period of 7 months bt now we are okay.I was ...

Need tips for sex with my husband!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - i am 36 yrs old and married. i want when i do sex with my husband before him my ejaculation gets over how can i make it longer and tell me some new tips for sex but it should not be oral. and my husband is very sexy but i dont get that much energy ...

I don't know if I've felt an orgasm yet!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - I'm 17 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for 2years now. I love him,and I feel very comfertable with him and I know he dies too! I don't know if I've felt an orgasm yet? This feeling when we are having sex sometimes is my vagina throbbing ...

I'm very worried about our sex life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - Hi, Im 21 involved with a 29 year old guy, and im very woried about our sex life, Sometimes when we make love i became so dry that it hurts and he will take long to cum and when i tell him that he is hurting me he wont stop he just continue and it ...

What does the pain of first time sex compare to so I know what to expect?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5261 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - hey everyone, im 17 and my boyfriend wants to have sex, it would be my first time, i ready the only thing i worry about it the pain... what does the pain compare to so i know what to espect?...

I cant bring myself to have sex with my boyfriend anymore because he looks at other women

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - I just read this quote on this website as a reply to one of the questions about porn: "Men are a thousand times more visual than we are. We just have to grin and bear it, and move on to bigger problems like they often say." My issue...is that it IS ...

14 and possibly pregnant, I'm not ready for this!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - OK so me and this boy had sex twice about a month apart.. and i think I'm pregnant but i don't know he didn't wear a condom he thinks they are stupid and he use the pullout method the first time he discharge on the backseat..(we did it a car)and the ...

Girlfriend needing some space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5266 days ago

29 June 2010 (M) - I'm at the end of my wits. I love my gf a lot but my patience is really running out :( Everything seemed fine about a week ago. She was getting close to me. We would hug close in bed and it all seemed to be going well. But things fell apart the n...

Should we sow our seeds first, then get back together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over six years now. We love each other very much and work so well together. We have lived together for five years and have only ever had small fights that we worked through. I want to grow old together and have his ...

Tortured with the thought of my wife's sexual past

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

29 June 2010 (M) - I am dealing with the common problem of having married a woman who had a sordid (my opinion) past. By age 24 she had over 35 sexual partners varying from a 2 year relationship to blow jobs in a club parking lot with strangers. I am conservative by ...

Should I be worrying over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - Hi I have a question my bf and i had sex last night and i began ovulation yesterday is there a good chance im pregnant?...