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writes:my bestfriend told me that his cousin is all over him and demanding him to sleep with her, one night he said that she's at their house and he cant resist her anymore and he's so turned on, he said he needs help. i suggested him to mast. maybe he'd be relieved and then he wouldnt need to cheat on his gf. he complained that it isnt working and he needs help, he dared me that im not better than his cousin. he kept turning me on by the way he was talking and i gave up at the end and we had 2 conversations on msn and messages on his phone talking about sex.later i asked him to check his phone (wanted to know if he still kept these messages) but i found nothing, he said he deleted them all (but im not sure if he kept them in another memory) only recently i found out that he was a fraud and he never had a cousin and he made it all up and used me!i know alot of his secrets that may Ruin his life but i dont have a proof as i erased all the message from him.im too scared he'd ruin my life if i ever got into a relationship with any guy. im scared he'd blackmail me with these messages/conversations.please tell me what to do. i cant tell any of my friends about this. Help
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionew NO! ofc not!
he said he's about to Have s** with his cousin, and asked me to help him by talking about s**. thats all to it
and im scared he'd blackmail me with this crap :(
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reader, Mshoe4you  +, writes (29 June 2010):
Are you saying this guy said he had sex with his cousin? So you had sex with him? That is the oddest pick up line I have ever heard of. . .
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthis was really helpful, thank you so much guys!!:))i already did cut of every contact w him, its just inappropriate for a girl to talk s** from where i come from, thats why im very concerned:(thanks again :)
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reader, Sincerely Yours +, writes (29 June 2010):
 Cut yourself off from him. Take him off your facebook or myspace page, don't answer his calls or texts, don't talk to him at school, don't talk to his friends.
He is really messed up if he was pretending to be your "best friend," and then completely betrayed you.
Even if he does try to blackamil you, all he has to say is that ou talked to him about sex a couple times. As long as you didn't do anything physically, then that shouldn't mean anything to your future boyfriends.
Since this guy is a fraud and a cheater, I wish there was some way his girlfriend could know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah thats true.. :( i really regret it
he broke up with his gf..
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 June 2010):
Well you've learnt an important lesson here, and that is that you must never trust a guy who's in a relationship when he's talking about sex. I don't think that he will try to blackmail you at all. He has a girlfriend, so that would ruin him. I just think you need to be more careful about what you do with guys in the future.
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reader, mrvhappy +, writes (29 June 2010):
Hi,
I'm SOOOO sorry that you have to go through this.
I would suggest that you keep away from him.
Can you confide in yr Mum/Dad/Aunt?
Please dont give into any of his blackmail threats...just tell him to stop bullying you and ideally cut of aany contact with him
Let us know how you get on
Take Care
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