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writes: I am 14 years of age and would like to start masturbating, but I can help but feel that touching myself is wrong and I am scared that my mum or dad or sisters might walk in on me. I have tried it once and it was good so I want to keep doing it but have no idea how to proceed without the worry or that they will catch me or the embarrassment if they do. Could anybody help me out here? I would preferably like a female nurse or doctor or a women who has experienced this situation to answer my question. Reply to this Question
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (30 June 2010):
 Nothing wrong with it at all. It's a good thing. It means that when you're older and in a physical relationship, you'll be able to tell your guy what you do and don't like. Whether it's clitoral or penetrative stimulation, you can use different sex toys or your own fingers in different motions. You can use other objects if a. you sterilise them with dettol or something and b. there are no parts that might come off inside you! Do it either late at night in your bed when everyone is asleep, or when you're home alone, locked in the bathroom =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): Hi, Its me. um I don't have a lock on my door and I have only done it once so I dont really know what to do. I do have my own room but my sister is just across the 1.5 meter hall way so it is really hard to acctually have some privacy at all and I really need to get to sleep at the right times. Plese help me I really don't mean to be difficult its just I need to do something about this and need your help whoever you are.
Thankyou:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): Hello, I see you're having a little trouble getting started. I'm 20 years old, and I'm quite sure all of us girls have been in the situation you've been in. What I did as a teenager like yourself, was I would put on a blanket, turn on the fan or open my window, because the room then begins to smell of sex if someone does walk in. Get comfortable, you say you know how to masturbate but you're just afraid. And I'm afraid i only have one thing for you to do: only masturbate when you know Your parents are sleeping or they're out. Tell your sister that you're doing homework and then you're going to sleep, and if she wakes you then you don't get a good rest. Keep her occupied, let her on the computer, video game, whatever it is. The other thing to remember when masturbating while people are around is that you have to be aware that u've gotta be quiet, sure it feels good and sure you want to scream outloud, but you've got to keep quiet. Maybe little things under your breath, for example; Oh's and Ah's, they work. But yelling outloud won't LOL. So good luck. :) !
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): I would first like to say that I think you're brave for seeking advice from total strangers and seem fairly mature for your age. There's nothing wrong with masturbating, especially at your age. In fact, it will help you later in life because you'll know what feels good for you and what doesn't so that when you meet the right guy you can help him figure out how to please you. It's also a great stress reliever.
As far as privacy concerns go, I don't know if you share a room with one or all of your sisters. That would certainly make alone time hard to come by. If you have your own room, I suggest trying it late at night when everyone is settling into bed and there's less of a risk of someone walking in. The shower is also a guaranteed place for privacy.
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