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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: I'm 17 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for 2years now. I love him,and I feel very comfertable with him and I know he dies too! I don't know if I've felt an orgasm yet? This feeling when we are having sex sometimes is my vagina throbbing and tickles... It feels like I can't control myself, or my voice! I really want to know if that's an orgasm??
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reader, StraightTalker +, writes (29 June 2010):
That sounds like an orgasm to me
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThnk you for the advice.. I'll try that...
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reader, DDOC +, writes (29 June 2010):
Have you ever masturbated until orgasm? Becasue if you are not sure that you have had an orgasm... you probably have not had an orgasm. Girls "get there" slowly. It builds and builds and sometimes it reaches a plateau for a while before going to hte next level. Each level feels good, but an orgasm will be an uncontrollably pleasurable experience that will have your pelvic muscles contracting uncontrollably.
If you do not think you have experienced this - experiment with yourself - go solo and explore yourself. Use clitoral stimulation mostly but don't forget your other womanly parts.
If you depend on your boyfriend to teach you to orgasm... you will be disappointed. Women's sexual needs are more complicated then men's. Penetrative sex rarely gives a woman an orgasm, so a lot of foreplay and clitoral stimulation is necessary. So practice, then do lots of foreplay. Ask him not to penetrate until you have had an orgasm. Then go for penetration.
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